12 undeniable signs you’re actually an amazing woman (even if you don’t think so)

Are you a confident woman who knows her worth? If yes, then congratulations. You are definitely an amazing woman.

Being an amazing woman means knowing your strengths and weaknesses. It also means having self-esteem and self-assurance.

Here are 12 undeniable signs you’re an amazing woman.

1) You know how to make people feel special

Part of being an amazing woman is the way you treat and respond to other people.

You’re empathetic, kind, and compassionate towards others. And they love you for it.

You take a genuine interest in people, and it shows. Studies have found that we tend to like people who ask us plenty of questions.

Perhaps because it makes us feel special. An amazing woman gives her full attention to whoever she is with.

You won’t catch her ideally looking around the room when you’re speaking to her or absentmindedly checking her phone.

An amazing woman is a special woman, and being around her makes you feel special too.

2) You’ve been through tough times but have come out stronger on the other side

The funny thing about life is that it is often hardship that makes you what you are.

That’s why an amazing woman has faced good times and bad, but always comes back fighting. She doesn’t let adversity defeat her.

She sees each day as an opportunity to grow and learn something new. And she never lets anyone tell her otherwise.

It takes strength and courage to face challenges head-on. But if you can do this, you’ll be amazed at what you become:

You’ll become an amazing woman who is ready to take on anything that life throws at her.

3) You don’t let anyone push you around

Being an amazing woman isn’t about being all sweetness and light.

She stands her ground and protects herself with clear and firm boundaries.

She refuses to allow someone else to control her. If someone tries to tell her what to do or how to live her life, she will let them know exactly what she thinks.

She knows she has a right to live her own life without interference.

Although she takes into account other people’s thoughts, ideas, and opinions — she knows the most important is her own.

Her ability to stick up for herself comes from the firm foundations of self-respect and dignity.

4) You know how to take care of yourself

Independence is key for an amazing woman.

Although she loves to collaborate and connect with others, she doesn’t rely on them to get her needs met.

Yes, she asks for help whenever she needs it. This is part of her strength. But she doesn’t make anyone else responsible for her.

Whether it’s her emotions, her physical or practical needs — she takes total self-responsibility.

She isn’t waiting for anyone else to come along and save her or make her happy. She is rolling up her sleeves and doing it for herself.

Part of taking care of herself means that an amazing woman knows self-care is the best care.

She is happy to treat herself to nice things, allow herself to rest when she needs to and put her own needs first — without feeling guilty.

5) You love your life enough to see what you’ve got going for you

There will always be “more” in life.

More to achieve, more to do, more to acquire.

Whilst an amazing woman welcomes more into her life with open arms, she never neglects to recognize all the ways she is already blessed.

She appreciates what she has and is truly grateful for it all.

This attitude helps her to enjoy the present and look forward to the future with optimism and excitement.

Gratitude has been scientifically proven to improve health, happiness, and well-being. It also increases positivity and decreases negativity.

So by embracing gratitude, you’re not only helping yourself, you’re helping everyone around you.

6) You know that it’s not always about you

An amazing woman doesn’t need to hog the limelight in order to shine.

She is happy to let others shine just as bright as her. She doesn’t seek to tear others down in order to bolster herself up.

She believes in collaboration over competition and wants others to succeed.

Neither does she take negativity personally when she encounters it. An amazing woman realizes that everyone is going through different things.

She knows it is not a reflection of her when someone behaves badly towards her, it’s about them.

And so she can detach herself from the situation and show compassion towards others.

7) You believe in yourself and your dreams

You are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to.

An amazing woman knows this and uses it to motivate herself to work harder and strive higher.

She sets goals and works to achieve them.

She understands that if you want something bad enough, you’ll find a way to make it happen.

It may not be easy, but it will be worth it. After all, if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will either.

So what does it take to build a life filled with exciting opportunities and bold adventures?

Well, you need more than just willpower, that’s for sure.

I learned about this from Life Journal, created by the highly-successful life coach and teacher Jeanette Brown.

You see, willpower only takes us so far…the key to transforming your life into something you’re passionate and enthusiastic about takes perseverance, a shift in mindset, and effective goal setting.

And while this might sound like a mighty task to undertake, thanks to Jeanette’s guidance, it’s been easier to do than I could have ever imagined.

Click here to learn more about Life Journal.

Now, you may wonder what makes Jeanette’s course different from all the other personal development programs out there.

It all comes down to one thing:

Jeanette isn’t interested in being your life coach.

Instead, she wants YOU to take the reins in creating the life you’ve always dreamt of having.

So if you’re ready to stop dreaming and start living your best life, a life created on your terms, one which fulfills and satisfies you, don’t hesitate to check out Life Journal.

Here’s the link once again.

8) You know that life is not fair. But it’s even more unfair when you give up.

An amazing woman knows the importance of tenacity in life. She doesn’t expect anything to be just handed to her.

She knows that sometimes we get knocked down, but we must never give up.

Life is full of ups and downs. Some days are better than others. And some days are downright awful.

But an amazing woman doesn’t allow these moments to discourage her. She uses them as motivation to keep pushing forward.

She uses them as fuel to help her reach even further.

Because every single person has their own unique story. Their own unique journey. Their own unique path they’ve chosen to follow.

Each path will be scattered with obstacles to overcome. And an amazing woman never stops trying.

9) You know that there will always be someone better than you at something

An amazing woman knows that the only real person she is in competition in life with is herself.

She isn’t going to waste time comparing herself to others.

She understands that we are all different and unique individuals. We have our own talents, skills, strengths, weaknesses, perspectives, and beliefs.

We can learn from each other but we must respect one another’s differences and individuality.

10) You’re not afraid of failure because you know that every time you fail, you learn from it

An amazing woman knows how important it is to try new things. To step outside of her comfort zone.

To push herself beyond her limits. Because when you do, you’ll find that you grow stronger. That you gain confidence. And that you become a better version of yourself.

When you fail, you learn. These are lessons that make us who we are today. Lessons that shape us into the people we want to be tomorrow.

The most successful people in the world failed many times before achieving success. They learned from those failures and used them as stepping stones to achieve greatness.

An amazing woman firmly believes in having a growth mindset — and that means embracing failure as part of the process.

11) You appreciate your body

Women are often told they should be thin, beautiful, and sexy. But being a “perfect woman” is an impossible beauty standard to live up to.

An amazing woman honors and respects her unique and precious body, no matter its size or shape.

She takes care of her body and appreciates all the daily miracles it provides. She loves her body and treats it well.

No matter what anyone else says about her body, she chooses to see it for exactly what it is: A gift.

12) You never settle for less than you deserve

Sure, she’ll compromise in life, but she won’t ever compromise herself.

Her high standards mean that an amazing woman isn’t putting up with less than she deserves.

If someone doesn’t treat her right, she will wish them well and walk away.

She is ambitious. But she doesn’t want to “work hard” at something if it’s not worth it.

An amazing woman is willing to put in the effort required but she won’t waste time pursuing dreams that aren’t meaningful to her.

Pearl Nash

Pearl Nash has years of experience writing relationship articles for single females looking for love. After being single for years with no hope of meeting Mr. Right, she finally managed to get married to the love of her life. Now that she’s settled down and happier than she’s ever been in her life, she's passionate about sharing all the wisdom she's learned over the journey. Pearl is also an accredited astrologer and publishes Hack Spirit's daily horoscope.

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