What makes an average guy instantly become “hot”?

If you talk to any number of  hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over – she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, she will not hook up with you.


You will join the piles of men she’s had to reject because they weren’t confident enough.

The GOOD news is that there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time.

Most really hot girls’ tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. If you know the technique to passing, then you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are actually a sexual candidate.

If you don’t grasp this one little known technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting and sleeping with truly beautiful women.

These tests can be one of two types: compliance tests or congruence tests.

Today, we are talking about compliance tests. First, let me explain a bit more about these tests and WHY hot women NEED them.

A compliance test is an act or a statement that checks to see if you are going to do whatever she wants. If you comply, she will have gained control over the conversation, the interaction, and you.

It seems like they want you to fail these tests so they have the power, right?

Fortunately, that is not the case.

When women give compliance tests, they really do want you to pass them. It is their way of filtering out a truly confident, attractive guy from the rest.

It may sound strange, but beautiful women honestly can’t just look at a guy an say “he’s good looking, therefore he’s attractive.” They need much more because they are approached by so many different types of guys.

A really attractive girl will get hit on 10-15 times A DAY.

That’s 3,650 times a year (conservatively) that an attractive woman is hit on. She will start to see patterns in the ways guys behave if they are actually confident or not, and that has nothing to do with looks.

The compliance test is really a test to see whether or not they’re going to be able to get away with whatever they want.

Why you they want to test this? Well, they want to find out whether or not you’re used to beautiful women hitting on you or whether or not you’re used to being with beautiful women.

This is a very crucial concept.

If you are used to being with beautiful women, you will not bend over backwards for a beautiful woman just because she wants something. Instead, you will respond in a way that sort of puts the compliance back on her.

Beautiful women are guaranteed to give you compliance tests and if you fail the compliance tests, you are guaranteed not to attract them.

So it’s very crucial that you learn this.

How do you recognize compliance tests? Basically, look for any demand that she gives you within a short time of meeting that seems small, but gets you to follow.

One very classic compliance test is “buy me a drink.”

Women go for throat here when you’re in the bar because they don’t have a whole lot of time to figure out who is attracted and who is confident, who’s not. How you respond to “buy me a drink” is very crucial when you’re in a bar.

There are other small things like “why don’t you wait here while I go to the bathroom.” or “give me a kiss on the cheek” or even “will you take a picture for us?”

Anything that seems kind of harmless is typically a compliance test, especially if it’s from a really beautiful woman.

You don’t want to deny the compliance testwhat you want to do is take control over it and add your own terms.

For example, if someone says, “Take our pictures.” Then you will say, “okay, I will but I want you to take one picture for you and one picture of how I ask you to take it.” So if they refused to do this, and you go, “Alright, well find some other guy.”

You will actually find some other guy to take the camera and say, “Hey man, can you take their picture?” And you just have them take your picture.

But usually they will say okay fine, you take the picture and you go “okay, now I want you to give me a sexy look.” Then take their picture. “Okay now, make a silly face”, take a picture. And continue to make them do different pictures as long as you can think of them.

Essentially what you’re doing now is you are getting compliance from them. This is crucial.

This is called flipping the script and you will hear a lot about this.

Flipping the script is one of the most powerful things that you can do to a woman that you don’t know and it will create a massive amount of intrigue and a massive amount of attraction that will be built.

So from now on, know and recognize when women is giving you a compliance test. Don’t stop and don’t reject the compliance test. Add your own terms.

When you start doing this, you are going to see the truly beautiful women in the bar start to treat you in a completely different way.

You can actually watch other guys approach, get shot down and see it ruin their nights.

All the while, you’ll navigate the sea of compliance tests and come out looking like a rock star, making her more and more attracted to you since you’re the kind of guy who won’t do exactly what she wants.

This is one of the “Sexual Triggers” that drive beautiful women wild. The rest of them are revealed in this presentation:

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I learned about that brilliant trick by reading The Tao of Badass by Josh Pellicer.

If you haven’t heard of it, this is an extremely popular and in some way controversial new dating guide for men. You can read my complete and unbiased review of the guide here.

The thing is, The Tao of Badass is more than just a ‘pick up’ book.

Yes, the book will definitely help seduce women like in that trick above, but it’s designed to do more than that as well.

Unlike other dating guides, which teach you cheesy one liners and little else, The Tao of Badass adopts a much more effective approach to actually attracting quality women. It focuses on practical ways, science-backed ways a man can be a better version of himself around women.

If you’re looking too…

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  • Carry yourself better around women
  • Turn women on just through your body language
  • Learn exactly what women find irresistible in men

… Then The Tao of Badass is something you really do want to check out.

Are you a nice guy or are a confident guy?

Confidence is everything.

If you’re not willing to let go of self-doubt and back yourself completely, you’re simply never going to be successful with women. And not just women – if you lack confidence, you’ll never get ahead in life.

The simple truth is that attractive girls don’t go for guys who are ‘nice’ to them or who it ‘makes sense’ to be with.

Attractive girls go for guys who they’re actually attracted to.

To stand any chance in the dating game these days, you need to have confidence. You need to have better body language. You need to tap into their primal instincts.

The Tao of Badass is the most complete dating guide I’ve ever read to help you develop complete confidence around attractive women.

Josh Pellicer has an academic background in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and all his strategies and tricks are grounded in science and psychological research.

There’s plenty of useful tips, and the bonus video course, audio recordings, and members community give you even more ways to learn and use these techniques.

If you want to upgrade your dating game, then The Tao of Badass will be exactly what you need.


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I’m Lachlan Brown, the founder, and editor of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 15 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. Check out my latest book on the Hidden Secrets of Buddhism and How it Saved My Life. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter.

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