Want her to be your girlfriend? Don’t make this mistake…

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If you want a certain girl to be your girlfriend.

It’s tempting to want to show off all your best qualities in the hope that she’ll suddenly realize what a great boyfriend you’d make.

And rush into your arms.

Butas you’ve probably seenthis almost never works.

Women don’t choose the guy who makes the most “sense” to be with or who they are compatible with on paper. They choose the guy who makes them feel certain powerful emotions.

Specifically, they choose guys they are attracted to on a deep, biological level.

This raises the question:

How do you tap into a woman’s primal urges and make her attracted to you?

Why body language is the key to turning her on

The simple truth is that for hundreds of thousands of years men had to seduce women without saying a single word.

Before spoken language even existed, the only tool men had to turn a woman on and convince her to be with him, was what he could communicate with his body language.

Even if you’re not interested in a one-night stand or a casual fling. But want to make a girl your loyal, loving girlfriend…

You’re still much better off focusing on getting her turned on and attracted FIRST rather than trying to appeal to her logical, rational mind.

Guys who get the girls they want, have learned this lesson…


They’ve learned that the most powerful way to give her these obsessive, addictive emotions is through your body language.

My friend Kate just released an instructional video where she gives you 3 practical, easy-to-use body language techniques, which:

  • Get a girl to think about kissing you
  • Get her craving your touch… And
  • Give you direct access to the animal part of her brain…

I highly recommend you watch her free video here.

How to carry yourself like man in demand

Here’s something most guys have never considered:

When you say a girl’s “hot” you’re probably talking about the shape of her face and body:

  • Her stunning eyes
  • Her soft skin and full lips…
  • The curve of her back and her hips…
  • The swell of her chest…

These shapes and curves and contours combine to make you feel turned on and drawn to her…

But when women say a GUY is hot they’re not talking about the shape of his body or face.

More often than not they’re talking about how he carries himself.

In a recent study, women looked at pictures of men and rated their attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 10.

But the researchers did something sneaky:

Among the hundreds of pictures the women flipped through they slipped in multiple pictures of the same men.

They were standing and sitting in different positions. And with slightly different facial expressions.

Amazingly, women would rate the same man differently depending on how he held himself.

One way of standing would get him ratings of “5” or “6”. And a seemingly minor adjustment would give the same guy ratings of “9” or “10”

That’s because women are highly tuned into the signals a man’s body language is giving off…

They get an “overall impression” of a guy’s attractiveness and think of him as either “hot” or “not” based on the these signals.

Here’s the link to my friend Kate’s video again. I think you’ll get a lot out of it.

As you’ll see, you’ll be amazed at how differently women see you…

And how they treat you…

When you know how to give off the right signals.

Watch Kate’s Video

Why I recommend this video

Kate Spring reached out to me and asked me to review her video.

Kate is a good friend of mine, and knowing how good her stuff usually is, I jumped at the chance.

As a relationship expert and author, Kate knows her stuff. She’s smart, insightful and straightforward—and tells it like it is.

After watching her video and reading her book, I instantly knew she was speaking the simple truth about attracting women.

No fluff. No platitudes. Just practical insights about what women are actually want.

What do they want? As you probably know by now, it all comes down to body language.

The first thing anyone will notice about you—especially women—is your body language: the way you walk into a room or how you interact with the world around you.

This isn’t some lame ‘how to pick up’ video, and it doesn’t pretend to give you some sort of magical control over a woman.

What it does is distill the latest science to show you exactly what women are sexually attracted to—and how you can start adopting these traits today.

It doesn’t matter what you look like or how wealthy you are…

…if you’re short, fat, bald, or stupid.

Any man can tap into these simple body language techniques that tap into the primal desires of women.

Check out her video here and see for yourself.

Who is Kate Spring?

Over the last 6 years I’ve built Hack Spirit into one of the leading self-improvement blogs on the internet. And I’ve come across a lot of crap promising the ‘secret’ to meeting and sleeping with women.

What Kate Spring offers is NOT one of those gimmicks.

If you…

  • Want a girlfriend
  • Want to attract multiple women
  • Or want to keep a woman interested in you

Then click here to watch Kate Spring’s free new video.

If you haven’t heard of her, she is an extremely popular and in some ways controversial new figure in the dating advice world.

Although she’ll definitely help you meet, impress, and yes, sleep with women, she actually wants to do more for you.

Kate focuses on practical ways, science-backed ways a man can be a better version of himself around women.

If you’re looking too…

  • Build your self-confidence
  • Carry yourself better around women
  • Turn women on just through your body language
  • Learn exactly what women find irresistible in men

… Then this video is something you really do want to check out.

Watch Kate’s Video

FREE eBook: The Female Mind Control Handbook

Let’s face it: Being good looking can be helpful when it comes to women.

However, much more important is how you carry yourself around them. Because it doesn’t matter what you look like or how wealthy you are…

…if you’re short, fat, bald, or stupid.

Any man can learn some simple techniques that tap into the primal desires of women.

If you want to learn exactly what they are, check out Kate Spring’s FREE eBook here.

Kate reveals the most effective method I’ve come across to attract women and make them yours.

Here’s a link to the free eBook again.

Check it out here.

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Lachlan Brown

I’m Lachlan Brown, the founder, and editor of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 15 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. Check out my latest book on the Hidden Secrets of Buddhism and How it Saved My Life. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter.

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