Kiran Athar
Have you ever looked at an elegant woman and wondered what turns her on?
Or perhaps about what turns her off?
You see, classy women are in a league of their own. They aren’t necessarily stuck up, but they do have high standards…and rightly so!
They’ve worked hard to ooze sophistication and live their lives a particular way, so they’d naturally want the same in a partner!
So, in this article we’re going to cover 10 things that don’t impress classy and sophisticated women…are you ready?
1) Excessive bragging
Fellas, I know you think it’s a turn-on to boast about every achievement you’ve had since the 3rd grade, but know that to a classy and sophisticated woman, it’s a major turn-off!
It doesn’t impress women like this because they don’t want to hear about what a great guy you are or how often you help the homeless – they want to see it. In action.
Not to mention, excessive bragging might work in the locker room, but with a lady of grace and class?
She wants to have a real, adult conversation in which both of you get to know the other, rather than listen to you drone on for hours!
2) Flashy materialism
Another thing that doesn’t impress classy and sophisticated women is flashy materialism.
Some women are impressed by the latest iPhone or a flashy car, but women who are elegant and classy tend to look at WHO you are, not WHAT you own.
Put simply:
Pretty things don’t excite them. What excites them is a man who knows his worth and builds his character, not his wardrobe or shoe collection!
3) Inappropriate humor
Another thing that doesn’t impress such women is inappropriate humor…You know what I mean:
- Crude humor
- Sexist/racist/homophobic jokes
- Distasteful judgments or comments
All of the above is a major eye-roller for a classy woman. She’s looking for a man who is on her level, and who has a more sophisticated style of humor.
Now, this doesn’t mean she’s stuck up.
She’d just rather bust jokes that are actually funny and don’t offend significant parts of the population!
4) Poor manners
And just as classy and sophisticated women aren’t impressed by bad humor, they equally don’t enjoy poor manners.
Eating with your mouth open? A big no-no.
Interrupting others when they talk? Even worse.
Guys, if you’re pursuing a classy woman, just google “basic etiquette and manners”…there are so many things our grandfathers did to woo our grandmas with style and grace, you can do the same with a bit of research and the help of Youtube!
5) Lack of ambition or goals
Now, another thing that doesn’t impress classy and sophisticated women is a lack of ambition or goals…put simply, they don’t want to waste their time on a man who has no plans for his future!
This is because classy women are on top of their lives. They know where they want to be in 5, 10, or even 15 years.
And while this will look very different depending on each woman, one thing they all know is that their potential partner should have a similar outlook on life.
Even if you’re working in a supermarket or as a janitor, if you’ve got plans and a solid head on your shoulders, you’ve got a shot.
But if you’re a bum who lazes around all day and plays the victim? Say goodbye to any classy woman who comes your way!
6) Superficial conversation
If you haven’t got the message already; classy and sophisticated women aren’t impressed by surface-level, superficial crap!
What these women want is someone who can go deep. They want to know what makes you tick, what traumas are lying under the surface, and who you are at your core.
Sounds intense?
It is! And for good reason. You see, I’ve already mentioned that classy women don’t like wasting their time.
And the same goes for this – they’re not interested in talking about the weather or how often you go to the gym. They want to know who you really are so they can figure out whether you’re worth getting to know!
7) Disrespecting others
Just as classy and sophisticated women aren’t impressed with bad manners or inappropriate jokes, they also dislike disrespectful men.
The truth is, you could be as nice as gold to her, but if you treat the waiter like crap, she’s sure as hell gonna pick up on it!
How we treat people says a lot about our character.
And a classy woman treats everyone, from a cleaner to a CEO, with respect. Because it’s not their label she’s looking at – she’s focused on the human being in front of her.
So, is it much of a surprise that she wants the same in a man?
8) Inauthenticity
Next up on things that don’t impress classy and sophisticated women is fakeness.
She doesn’t want you to pretend to be someone you’re not. Even if she loves Chinese food and you hate it, faking it for her sake will not win you any brownie points.
In fact…a classy woman truly appreciates a man who knows himself and is genuine and authentic.
Not to mention, it could get awkward if you claim to love art but then fall short once she takes you to her favorite art gallery!
So, the moral of the story here folks is to just be yourself. Even if you don’t have much in common, she’ll appreciate your honesty, and who knows?
Opposites sometimes do attract!
9) Drinking alcohol excessively
Look, no one is saying that classy and sophisticated women don’t like alcohol, but they indeed keep within their limits.
They’re self-aware and they know when enough is enough. Not to mention, people embarrassing themselves in public is not something classy women tend to engage in.
So, if you’re the type who enjoys binge drinking and getting leery with the lads, you might not be a classy woman’s cup of tea.
Enjoy a glass of wine or pint of beer, but don’t overdo it. You’ll want to keep your wits about you when a classy, sophisticated woman is in your company!
10) Neglecting personal grooming and hygiene
And the final thing that doesn’t impress classy and sophisticated women is bad grooming and hygiene.
Things like not:
- Brushing your teeth/showering daily/cutting toenails etc
- Rarely wash your clothes or bedding
- Wearing worn-out, dirty clothing
- Not bothering to trim your hair/beard etc
Are all major turns off.
Now, whilst every woman will have her own limits on what is acceptable and what isn’t, it’s a general rule of thumb that the above should be a fundamental priority!
Classy women look after themselves, and they want a man who does the same. Not a child that they have to mother and look after!
