Natasha Combrink
Classy women – they’re the ones who turn heads not just with their style but with their aura.
You know, the ones who ooze confidence, composure, and mysterious charm that just pull you in, and you have no idea why.
What’s their secret?
Well, it’s not expensive outfits or grand gestures.
There are a few things these women do behind closed doors that help shape how the world sees them.
Through whispers and observation, I’ve gathered some of what this is.
Ready to find out?
Well, classy women rarely talk about how…
1) They prioritize self-respect.
Self-respect is about making choices that scream, “I know my worth!”
And classy women make this a non-negotiable in their lives.
Whether saying no to something that doesn’t align with their values or standing up for themselves when the world seems to be against them, classy women know not compromising on their self-respect is the backbone of a fulfilling life.
They aren’t arrogant, though.
Classy women simply recognize and honor the incredible person they are.
Each morning, when they look in the mirror, they see a person worthy of love and respect, and that’s how they treat themselves.
Being classy takes an unshakeable foundation of self-respect. And because these women care so much about themselves…
2) They follow a strict self-care routine.
Ever wonder how some women seem to always glow? Well, it’s not just good genes…
Classy women are perceived this way because they’re committed to putting themselves first.
And believe me, this goes beyond having a great face mask routine down.
These women follow strict self-care routines to ensure they always operate at their best. They invest in themselves daily!
Here are some ways they do this:
- Morning stretches that awaken their body and mind.
- Evening routines that help them unwind and recharge.
- Nature walks that help them practice gratitude.
- Cozy reading session to relax or learn something new.
- Bubble baths with soothing music to calm their soul.
With the chaos of our fast-paced world, self-care is a classy woman’s secret to maintaining this demeanor effortlessly.
They don’t radiate calm and confidence just because.
Classy women put in the work because…
3) They depend on themselves for success.
Why are classy women so admired?
Well, one reason for me is their success.
Classy women are those we look up to, without even knowing much about them except what they’ve achieved and how they carry themselves.
What’s even more admirable is that these women often rely on themselves to get where they are.
This mindset isn’t rooted in arrogance but in a deep understanding that success is whatever you think it is.
If you’re always relying on other people to reach success, you’ll never get to a point where you feel fulfilled or accomplished.
Self-dependence helps classy women take charge of their lives.
4) They consistently choose quality over quantity.
Ever notice how classy women seem to effortlessly curate a life filled with meaningful experiences and possessions?
Well, it’s because they’ve cracked the code!
Classy women know it’s not about having a closet bursting at the seams or a schedule packed to the brim – it’s about choosing things and moments that add genuine value to their lives.
When it comes to relationships, they prefer deep connections over busy social circles.
In their homes, it’s about selecting items that bring them joy or have a story to tell instead of simply being trendy.
And for a career, they focus on things that align with their passions and help them be better versions of themselves.
Classy women don’t accumulate things or people for the sake of it. Their lives are well-edited.
5) They invest in lifelong learning.
Here’s another secret to the timeless allure of a classy woman – she never stops learning.
It’s like these women have an insatiable curiosity – a hunger for knowledge.
Instead of seeing education as just a phase that ends with a degree, classy women make it part of their lifelong journey.
Some pick up a new language. Others learn new skills.
Delving into literature to simply understand how the greatest minds worked is also on the list…
What classy women choose to learn isn’t what really matters, though.
Knowledge of any kind helps people know better, see things differently, and connect with others over the world’s complexities.
This is part of what makes lifelong learners so influential and gives them a classy appearance.
6) They support and empower other women.
Classy women understand that there’s strength in unity.
I know. This sounds beyond cheesy. But it’s the truth.
Instead of seeing other women as the competition, classy women are the way they are because they create a sisterhood.
And in this sisterhood, every woman’s success is a celebration for all.
A classy woman knows that empowering someone else won’t diminish her own success. In fact, it magnifies it.
Whether they mentor, uplift, or create spaces where other women can thrive, a classy woman will always be at the center of an all-female success train.
And one of the main reasons they manage to do this is because…
7) They build relationships on a solid foundation.
A classy woman won’t be friends with everyone. But when she decides to build a connection with someone, it will be deep and meaningful.
This is what sets a bond with them apart from others.
Classy women are committed to building relationships that last instead of superficial connections. They invest time and tons of energy to create bonds that survive all the bumps.
You might think otherwise since they’re always friendly with everyone. But be assured – they’re intentional with relationships that really matter to them.
8) They have secrets.
Classy women understand the value of privacy and discretion. They believe that not everything needs to be shared with the world.
Sure, it’s great when someone we look up to lets us in and does something relatable. But some things are better kept private.
A classy woman might have a hobby, a dream, or a personal challenge that she chooses not to broadcast.
Most people share everything about their lives purely for external validation. Classy women don’t need this.
They also know that there’s power in keeping some things to yourself.
9) They embrace their flaws.
Although we all have imperfections, many people try to hide it. I know I did for the longest time.
But classy women accept theirs. They understand that flaws are part of being human and don’t obsess over hiding them.
Instead, they embrace their imperfections and even turn them into unique strengths or areas for growth.
Whether it’s a lack of skills, something about their appearance, or a character flaw, a classy woman doesn’t resort to denial or defensiveness. She won’t draw attention to it either.
Instead, classy women acknowledge it and either work to improve it or accept it as part of their unique self.
Reflecting on your imperfections and how they make you different is part of what will make you more authentic. And that’s a big part of having class.
But remember: being classy isn’t about outward appearances alone. There are a ton of traits you can cultivate in secret that will make you someone others admire.
