How to find love: The Devotion System review (2020)

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Dating is hard—we all know that.

Which is why I’ve reviewed a lot of dating advice courses and eBooks on Hack Spirit. If there’s one thing common to all of us (both men and women) it’s the value in finding true love and keeping it in our lives.

Especially for women, it’s hard to find a decent guy. I know so many women dating guys and finding red flags.

No one wants to waste our time dating the wrong people. We want to find the person that we’re meant to be with.

But how do we do this?

Well, I think I’ve found the answer.

A new dating book just came to my attention called The Devotion System. And after reviewing it, I’m positive it can help a lot of women.

It’s not your average dating book, and I’ll explain exactly why below.

The psychology of men

We always hear that men and women’s brains are so different. And sometimes, they really are. That affects relationships, and when women expect men to be the same as them, they’re only going to be unhappy.

Men don’t spend a lot of time thinking about themselves. Or, they do, but not when it comes to self-reflection.

So, when there is a relationship and a problem arises, women can be confused.

Women self-reflect often. They think about the past, the present, and the future. They look over their past choices and everything that comes with them.

But men don’t.

So, when you put the two together, it can be hard to get on the same page.

What is it that makes men tick? What makes us happy? And how can women understand us?

The thing is that men are constantly having to live up to the ideal of being masculine.

Real men don’t cry. Real men don’t show emotions. Real men don’t do a lot of things that actual real men should do.

It’s a lot of pressure. And expecting women to unwrap all of this add more pressure on top.

Women want to understand men, but it’s confusing. Our psychology and how our brains work shouldn’t be the main thing that women have to work around, right?

That’s why I really liked this new dating course.

About The Devotion System

The Devotion System by Amy North (pictured above) is a welcome addition to the online world of relationship advice.

A professional relationship coach by trade, Ms. North offers up her own comprehensive advice on how to find, keep, and nurture a loving relationship to women everywhere in this info-packed first eBook.

And the first third of the eBook focuses solely on self-love. Because women don’t actually need a man to feel fulfilled. And that’s one of the most important things she goes over.

As a guy, self-love is important for me too. And even though this eBook is targeted toward women, there’s a lot that men like me can learn.

I think it will be very helpful for any person struggling to find and keep a quality person—but especially so for a woman.

The benefits of a happy relationship

In Amy North’s guide, you’ll learn how to have a happy relationship. And though we all say we want a happy relationship, who would’ve known that it’s actually better for you.

As it turns out, there are many benefits to a happier relationship. In fact, a relationship that isn’t happy is a huge stressor.

Here are some of the benefits to a happy relationship in your life:

Social support

When you’re with a partner that you love and respect, you have social support. Whenever you go through something hard, you can lean on the person and vice-versa.

This helps to take the burdens off of your back, and you can share in their burdens as well.

But that’s not all. Social support is also great for happy situations. When you’re overjoyed about something, a happy partner is overjoyed for you too.

Reduced stress

A good relationship also reduces your stress.

Have you ever been in a relationship that’s draining? It adds stress and causes issues in your life.

But a good relationship actually reduces your stress.

Someone to share your life with

When you’re in a relationship that’s happy, you feel like you’re part of something that’s bigger than just yourself. It can change everything. And it’s a feeling that all of us are searching for.

Longer life

I’ll let you in on a secret…a good relationship even helps you to live longer. Studies show that an unhappy relationship is like smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

Shocking, right?

When you’re happy and in a healthy relationship, it’s better for your health. It will make you live longer.

A comprehensive guide to male psychology

So, we all want the benefits of a happy relationship. We want to feel fulfilled and be in something that is satisfying.

For a long time in my life, I wasn’t sure how to find the person that would make me happiest.

So I can tell you, that there probably isn’t a better or more comprehensive guide to finding and keeping a soulmate than Amy North’s new program called The Devotion System.

I’ve reviewed a lot of dating resources, and I really like how different this one felt. Simply put, Amy uses innovative techniques and little-known tricks that gives any woman the tools necessary to find her soulmate and build a loving relationship with him.

There are so many problems that can arrive with dating, and if you’re sick of seeing the same red flags in your relationships, this can help.

The Devotion System contains advice on arguably every aspect of dating for women; from getting a guy’s number and sending the first text to how to bring up the ‘M word’ (yes, the dreaded marriage talk); from keeping things sexy after children to preventing infidelity long-term.

It doesn’t matter what stage of life you’re in or plan to be in, this book has advice for every woman. Everyone is on a quest to find love, and Amy North doesn’t hold back.

The unique perspective behind it

Maybe it’s me, but there doesn’t seem to be many women in the dating advice business…. or at least, there aren’t many that actually offer any new advice or techniques outside of what you can already find in Cosmo magazine.

That’s one reason why I found The Devotion System so refreshing. Amy North is relatable for many woman– smart, insightful and straightforward, she tells it like it is, and she cares about her clients.

That fact is clear from the very beginning.

But she also offers a new perspective. Because as a dating coach herself, she’s seen it all. Anything that was confusing before seemed easy to understand now.

How the book is structured

The book is divided into three parts, and the first is devoted completely to the importance of self-love and letting go of hang-ups and unhealthy behaviors in order to successfully find a loving relationship that lasts.

Amy North goes into great depth about the problems previous “relationship hangovers” can cause– both to one’s present happiness and future relationships– and the advice she provides in this section alone is what surprised me.

Reading advice from a woman concerned with empowering women and helping them get what they want is a great place to start.

But the next parts surprised me too.

Parts 2 and 3 talk about understanding men and achieving love and commitment respectively, and it gives you an insightful collection of advice and information that you can use over and over at different stages of your life and relationship(s).

As a relationship and dating coach, Amy North also enjoys insight from the men she works with, so there are several sections that provide information on male psychology, too.

From common male fears and insecurities (she nailed several of mine) to their true sexual and intimacy-related desires, she offers readers a wealth of knowledge on the men they could be dating – including profiles on typical “types” and what to expect from them.

Add to that actionable psychology- and science-based tips on texting, flirting, reading him, seducing him, satisfying him and more, and you have a book that will prove incredibly useful to its owner.

My verdict

I like the book a lot.

This stuff actually works. Like I said earlier, even though this is focused on women, I also got a lot of information back from it.

Currently, The Devotion System is only available in online eBook format, so if you want a paper copy for now you’ll have to print it yourself.

That said, this also means that buyers get access to the program within a minute or two of completing the registration process, even if it’s 3am and you’re lying in bed.

The program itself is also really easy to digest. The Devotion System’s private and personalized client-accessed website makes chapters easy to locate and revisit. Not only that, but the book currently comes with technical and customer support included and several other bonuses, including a 13-part video training series and 3 bonus eBooks including Cheat-Proofing Your Relationship in the package.

I won’t go into the details of the book too much (because everyone should have a copy of their own), but I do know that I was really glad I reviewed it. I have already used some of the tactics I read about in this book, and I know that it can be useful for everyone who reads it.

That’s why I’m recommending it.

How to grab your copy


For a limited time, The Devotion System is also being sold at a heavily-discounted introductory price of $48.25, which is a steal by any standards.

Amy North also offers an unconditional 60 day money back guarantee with every copy of the program, so there’s no risk to trying it out for yourself.

But don’t just take my word for it

Check it out for yourself here.

Lachlan Brown

Written by Lachlan Brown

I’m Lachlan Brown, the founder, and editor of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 6 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Twitter or Facebook.

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