We all have a soulmate (or so I believe). It’s amazing to know that someone out there is ideally suited for us.
And meeting the other half of our soul is so beautiful and something that we don’t want to miss.
But sometimes, we ignore the signs that the universe is giving us.
Here are 20 signs to help you know if you’ve found your true connection.
20 soulmate signs you don’t want to miss
Your soulmate could be your ideal partner, best friend, colleague, true love, or someone you’d be with for the rest of your life.
Look out for these signs to help you answer the question, “have I found my soulmate?”
1) You just know it
The best way to know if you’ve found your soulmate or not is to listen to your gut.
Your instinct will likely tell you whether this person is the right one for you or not.
Trust yourself and your intuition. For when you get that feeling, you’ll know what it means.
When you’re with your soulmate, their presence will energize you and you’ll be comfortable enough to open up.
Finding your soulmate is life-changing. It’s like there’s a force pushing you to give of yourself completely.
But if you haven’t found yours yet, don’t lose hope. Know that you’re both waiting for the right moment to happen.
And if you’re already with your soulmate, embrace and nurture the relationship you have.
2) You share a deep connection
When you cross paths with your soulmate, there’s a strong sense of comfort and familiarity.
You’ll likely have this feeling when you’re together.
You seem to see the world similarly and you both seem to understand each other so well.
As you share a special connection, there’s a great chance that both of your souls have been together in one form or another many times before.
You can communicate with each other through telepathy. And this brings about a great sense of unity and peace.
Maybe you also think the same way or share the same interests.
But whatever it is, your souls need to know that they’re thinking similarly.
3) You recognize them instantly
When you meet your soulmate, there seems to be a spark that draws you together. There’s an instant flash of recognition – like you’ve already known each other for years.
If you’re lucky enough to know what your soulmate looks like, it would be easier to connect with them.
And you can know for certain that you’ve met your soulmate?
Let’s face it:
Finding our soulmates isn’t easy. We even spend lots of our time and emotions with people who ultimately we’re not compatible with.
But there’s a way to remove all the guesswork.
I’ve come across a way to do this… a professional psychic artist who can sketch what your soulmate looks like.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but my friend convinced me to try it out.
Now I know exactly what my soulmate looks like – and it’s crazy as I recognized them right away.
So if you’re ready to find out what your soulmate looks like, get your own sketch drawn here.
4) You lose your breath for a moment
Have you felt that breathing becomes heavy after looking into someone’s eyes? And does it seem like time has stood still?
This usually happens when your soul mate is approaching as your world starts to collide.
You lose track of what’s going on around you. You get confused as to why this person is stealing your breath.
And when your eyes meet, you start to witness their souls.
You can’t believe what you’re experiencing right in front of your eyes. And it’s because your feelings are being carried away by the energy of your karmic link.
As time passes by, your breathing returns to normal as you’ve finally found your missing puzzle piece.
5) You trust and respect each other
In any relationship, even non-romantic ones, trust, and respect are essential factors.
You can’t love without trusting and respecting the other person.
If this person doesn’t admire and care for your feelings and ideas, they’re probably not your soulmate either.
But when you have faith in each other, then it’s definite that you’ve found your true soulmate.
Here’s the thing:
Soulmate connection is about unconditional love and unconditional acceptance.
You must appreciate and treat each other well to strengthen the relationship you have.
6) You are best friends
True friendship is the best foundation of every lasting relationship.
If you have this trusting, healthy friendship with your soulmate, then that’s an amazing sign!
Having your soulmate as your best friend is having someone you connect with on a deeper level than anyone else in your life.
You are each other’s biggest support system. You have a deep bond as you share this special kind of energy. And this bond can’t be broken no matter what.
While it’s healthy to form a friendship outside of your soulmate relationship, you feel like you can’t live with this particular person.
You know that through the ups and downs of life, you are both there for each other and on each other’s side.
7) You feel calm and at home with them
Spending time with your soulmate makes you feel happy and at peace.
You’re comfortable being yourself and everything feels natural. This person is your true soulmate because that is where the truth of who you are resides.
Your soulmate can make you smile after a long day and gives you peace of mind when things get rough.
You can’t help but feel happy as you’re more at home with them than anywhere else you’ve been.
Your soulmate brings warmth and strength into your life because they are part of your soul.
8) Someone is always in your thoughts
You can’t stop thinking about your soulmate as it cheers your mood up.
You spend a lot of your time with this person in your mind.
Your soulmate is constantly on your mind no matter what you’re doing or where you are.
And when you find yourself thinking of this person randomly, there’s a possibility that you’re also running on your soulmate’s mind.
No matter what you’re doing, you can’t help but wonder how they are and what they’re doing.
This is because your mind is completely connected to theirs in everything they do – and your connection can’t be broken.
9) You balance each other out
Your soulmate is the yin to your yang.
Despite your different temperaments, upbringings, and backgrounds, you remain to be for each other. It’s because there’s positive energy between the two of you.
Instead of agreeing to disagree, you have this deep level of respect for each other. You take time to listen, understand, and honor the differences.
You complement each other and help each other become better. And that’s exactly what soulmates do.
You can probably see that your weakness becomes the other person’s strength.
10) You’re on the same page
You have a lot in common with this person. You share the same goals, values, and beliefs – and how you want your life to be.
While you’re not the same person and you have differences too, you share similar dreams and plans.
You both have this overall vision of how you want your lives to unfold. It could be about family, children, career, lifestyle, and purpose.
Those are likely the things that bond you together.
I’m not saying that you both want to do the same things all the time, but you guys agree on the big stuff.
11) You boost each other’s vibrations
When you’re together (and even if you’re thinking of this person), you feel lighter. You raise each other’s spirits and uplift each other in everything you do.
Just seeing your soulmate and knowing that this person exists makes you feel better. And it’s something magical.
It’s not something you can put worlds to or explain.
Your soulmate gives you that amazing feeling, creating such a positive impact on your life.
There’s chemistry, sexuality, love, and connection that you feel down to your soul.
When you bring out the best in each other, it’s a strong sign of spiritual connection with your soulmate.
12) There’s an unspoken understanding
When it comes to a soulmate relationship, it can’t be compared to any other relationship in your life.
It’s like knowing how each other feels and communicating even if you’re far from each other.
Even silence becomes golden – and you’re comfortable with it. Being quiet together is a peaceful place as it becomes comforting like a fluffy down blanket on a cold winter night.
And if something happens, you know what to do for each other.
The special connection you have with your soulmate goes above and beyond anything you’ve ever experienced before.
13) Your communication is incomparable
There’s something about the way you communicate with each other.
It could be from how you call and message each other, the way you look into each other’s eyes while talking, or how you connect when one is away.
You can talk about anything without fear of being judged and there are a lot of topics you can discuss.
You find that it’s easy to speak your mind, share your feelings, and open up with each other.
The best thing is that telepathic communication with your soulmate is much easier. There is such depth to your relationship that you can hear the other person’s silent thoughts.
As you have this incomparable bond, somehow you know what the other person is going to say.
14) You take each other on
Your soulmate will come into your life as a blessing and a catalyst for change.
For when you meet, this person will trigger that deep spiritual, mental, or emotional work inside of you.
This person brings out the best in you and you challenge each other to be better.
You admire and respect your soulmate for who they are, but you’re also encouraging them to achieve their goals.
Your soulmate also gives you a nudge so you’ll try a bit harder.
After all, a healthy relationship is also about growing as a person. You and your soulmate help each other heal, grow, and love.
Your soulmate connection will set free a better version of yourself.
And when you both grow together, it’s clear that you have a true soulmate relationship.
15) Sparks fly when you’re together
Your soulmate connection is perfect, and you can sense it from within every time you meet or speak with them.
The passion you share makes everything more exciting.
Your soulmate appears to light a fire in you that causes your entire body to tremble. And it’s something you can’t control.
The connection and chemistry you share are impossible to ignore. And there seems to be some sort of magnetic force pulling your bodies together.
16) You make each other whole
The thing is, you are completely on your own. But your soulmate fills in the spaces for you.
Your soulmate continues to inspire you to complete yourself.
It’s wonderful to know that someone supports your direction, motivates you, and challenges you to challenge yourself.
When this person makes you feel entirely whole, healed and intact – then that’s your soulmate right there!
And this means that you complement one another. With this person, you create the perfect balance.
17) You can be your true self
There’s no faking it and making pretensions when it comes to your soulmate.
You don’t need to wear a mask and put on a persona, for with this person, you can be vulnerable.
With this person, you can share your weird quirks, deepest secrets, and guilty pleasures.
A soulmate accepts and loves you despite your imperfections. This person sees your rough edges and the parts of you that have been torn by life – and chooses to stand with you.
Your soulmate helps you address your scars from within and helps you heal in your own time.
18) You feel one another’s pain
It’s a clear sign that this person is your other half by the way they react to your pains.
Your soulmate is filled with empathy and compassion for you – the way you feel for them.
When you receive bad news, they will feel it just as much.
And when times get tough, you know that you can count on this person to be there with you through it all.
Your soulmate will help you confront your scars from the inside and encourage you to keep going.
19) They came into your life at the exact right time
There are things in life that can’t be planned. Like knowing the moment when someone will walk into your life and change it forever.
If this person enters your life at perfect timing, then take it as a sign that you’re with your true soulmate.
Whether you’ve found yourself after years of being in toxic relationships or just experienced a loss recently, when your soulmate enters your life, cherish it.
Know that your soulmate will come into your life when you need them.
For with your soulmate, timing is everything!
It’s also likely that you’ve crossed paths before, but it wasn’t right for you to be together yet.
And when you meet, your souls are meant to be together eternally.
20) You fall in love almost immediately
Love takes time to grow. But when you’ve found your soulmate, it’s like falling in love instantly.
You know that it’s real for there’s the warmth of love when your eyes meet at the same time.
When you see their face and hear their voice, your heart tends to skip a bit. And that’s because you’re opening the door to your soulmate.
When you’re together, you also want them to feel loved and appreciated.
For you know that this person is the one and only one for you.
With your soulmate, there is a warmth in your heart, and inner peace you can feel.
Embrace your true soulmate connection
The beauty of meeting and finding the other half of your soul is that they are uniquely designed to make you happy.
With this person, your souls are linked in a significant way – transcending the practical details of your relationship.
And keep in mind that you can have many soul connections. So if you find a soulmate connection, never let it go.
So when someone makes you feel complete from the inside and this person has the missing piece to your soul that you’re looking for all along, then it’s a true soulmate connection.
Don’t miss your soulmate connection signs.
With your soulmate, everything around you makes sense. That’s the beauty of soulmate connections.
But if you haven’t found your soulmate yet, no need to worry. Great things are yet to happen and you will meet at the right time.
And when you have a soulmate connection, it means that you’ve found the person you can be yourself with.
And when you’re with your true soulmate, life will never be the same again!
Putting yourself first
What’s your number one goal at the moment?
Is it to buy that car you’ve been saving up for?
To finally start that side-hustle that’ll hopefully help you quit your 9-5 one day?
Or to take the leap and finally ask your partner to move in?
Whatever your goals are, there’s a hidden trap in how you set them.
The trap is this:
You’ll only experience genuine life satisfaction when your goals are aligned with your values.
Because when values and goals are aligned, you enjoy the journey much more. And this makes achieving your goals much more likely.
If you find it hard to articulate your deeper life values, I suggest downloading the free values exercise by career coach Jeanette Brown.
It takes only a couple of minutes and will reveal a number of powerful insights about your underlying values.