Meeting your soulmate is perhaps one of the most important moments in your life. And it should be, for a reason.
It’s encountering the person you are destined to be with — the person who can instantly move you off your feet and paint a smile on your face.
They say that before such a moment happens, the Universe sends you some signs your soulmate is about to come into your life.
Therefore, it can be useful to know these signs to best prepare yourself and not worry too much when they’re coming.
Here are 14 signs to look out for when you’re about to meet your soulmate:
1) You’ve been working on yourself
It’s true that in order to welcome your soulmate into your life, you have to be in your best possible self — emotionally and mentally.
We all have a backstory. Perhaps you have ghosts you’d rather forget from your past or struggles you’d prefer to be faded out in your memory.
The truth is, you might have already crossed paths with your soulmate before.
But since you two weren’t ready yet for each other, the Universe chose to let the chance pass by.
But this time, it’s different — you have spent more time now improving and fixing yourself.
Perhaps you already came to terms with your dark past and have forgiven whoever it was who wronged you. And instead, you are now focused on the lessons you’ve learned from those experiences and make positive changes in your life.
So, if you have done all this healing of your past wounds lately and made valuable changes in your lifestyle, then there’s a great chance that your soulmate is already waiting for you at the corner.
2) You have found balance
Life is replete with competing commitments that you need to manage.
You may have to juggle through your roles at work, in your family and friends, and your social life.
Finding a healthy balance between all these aspects in your life takes time, and it’s not something that will just readily dawn on you.
To do this, you may need to be able to truly know and love yourself so that you can narrow down your priorities and strike a balance among those things on your list.
However, once you get there, everything will just flow naturally and feel so right.
You know you’re up for good things because everything just works according to plans.
And you know what? This is the Universe’s way of helping you figure out everything in your life before sending in your soulmate to fit into that.
Your life now seems to have fallen perfectly into place — you love what you do in your job, your finances are thriving, your social life is blooming, you have regained confidence in yourself.
You won’t even feel that you still need someone to complete your life. But the Universe knows you’ve gotta have one — and they’re just out there waiting for you.
3) You have reached self-love
The saying, “We can only truly love another when we love ourselves” turns out to be an important factor in finding your soulmate.
It’s normal for us, human beings, to be so full of self-doubts and so concerned about what others think of us that we tend to forget that the only one that truly matters is ourselves.
Self-love is the beginning of other forms of love. But how do we exactly achieve self-love?
Here are some ways:
- Nourish yourself. Look after yourself. Are you feeding yourself the right amount of healthy food, enough fluids, and positive thoughts? You only have one body; you need to take good care of it.
- Treat yourself often. Don’t just sit there and wait for a man or a woman to come along and give you company. Go out there and show people how you can take care of yourself. Do something that makes you happy — enroll in that yoga class, explore a new place, or enjoy some quiet time at home.
- Start a journal. You can never love yourself if all you think is the negativity in your life. Hence, by starting a gratitude journal and writing down a few things you are blessed with each day, you may begin to realize how beautiful your life has been.
Once you learn to love yourself, you’ll be ready to share yourself with that special someone the Universe has prepared for you.
4) You experience deja vu
In French, deja vu literally means “already seen.”
Have you ever experienced meeting someone for the first time or visiting a new place and it all feels very familiar to you? That’s deja vu.
This is your subconscious self telling you that you are heading in the right direction.
If you’re looking for your soulmate, this feeling of deja vu will guide you — as when you meet your soulmate, you get the sense that you have met them before and you can instantly connect with them as if you’ve known them all your life.
So next time you meet someone you feel an instant connection with, don’t shrug the feelings off. It might be a good sign that the stars have finally aligned for your love story to be told.
5) You find your purpose in life
Are you conflicted through your career choices? Wanting to travel the world but you don’t know how and where to start? Or do you just want to live somewhere else?
We’ve all been at such a point in our life where we don’t know what we’re doing in this world.
But guess what? Until you figure out what your life purpose is, you’ll be closed off to your soulmate.
Good things happen to those who are ready for them — and It’s the same with meeting your soulmate.
Once you find your purpose and know the direction you want your life to take, the universe will then send you your soulmate to walk that road with you.
Of course, sometimes it is also your soulmate who will help you find your life purpose. But this doesn’t mean that you’ll just sit there and wait for them to come.
Instead, get out there and work out what you want — and somehow you will be able to work out who you want and find that soulmate.
And if you have recently found your purpose, know that your soulmate is just around the corner.
6) You know what you want
After finding your life purpose and the right path for you, you will then have the inner peace to know exactly what type of relationship you want and need in order to fulfill your deepest dreams and desires.
Sometimes, people just accept whoever comes first into their life — and thereby settling for less — because they aren’t exactly sure what type of person they want to be with.
But if you know what it is that keeps your passions aflame, you will have the capacity to filter through the signals that the Universe has given you — letting you know it’s brewing something just for you.
This means that you have a clear picture of the type of relationship you want to be involved in, but you will not try to attach it to a specific person because you have enough trust for the universe to do it for you.
7) You have “closed the accounts” with all of your exes
Let’s be honest, forgetting your ex can be as hard as trying to reach the peak of Mount Everest — it may take forever.
That’s understandable though, especially if you’ve been together for a long time that you’ve always thought you were in for the long haul.
But, at the end of the day, it didn’t work out and you’ll have to let them go.
So even when you know you’re doing the right thing, moving on is still too daunting a task.
Therefore, if you find that you’ve started to forget about your ex, and you’re healing from the wounds that relationship has inflicted you with, it could be a sign that you’re meant to be with someone better.
And they’re already about to enter into your life.
Similar to working on yourself, having moved on from your past relationship means you have closed that door and you’re now in the best place to meet your soulmate and make the most of this new adventure — free from the pain of the past.
8) Your gut tells you so
When it comes to matters of the heart, trust your instincts – they’re most often right.
But to do this, you need to be able to truly listen to yourself and let your body speak for you.
Your intuition will likely tell you when your soulmate is already near, and you’ll have to prepare for it.
You may feel butterflies in your belly, you might feel it in your gut, or you could just simply know — without any explanation for it.
Worried that you aren’t in tune with your deepest thoughts and feelings? You may try these tips:
- Meditate. Try taking some time out each day to think about how you think. You can simply close your eyes and be aware of your surroundings, of the present events.
- Listen. Set aside some time each day to simply listen to what you feel. Our busy lifestyle often impedes us from listening to what our body is telling us, so take a pause and deliberately listen to what your higher self is whispering to you.
- Trust yourself. If you have already developed self-love, then trusting yourself should come naturally for you.
So, have you had any feelings lately that your soulmate is already near?
Trust them and be on the lookout — it’s the Universe’s way of preparing you for what’s to come.
9) You have been having romantic dreams about your partner
If you’ve been dreaming about a mysterious person who makes you feel so great about yourself when you wake up — that could be a sign.
At times, these dreams can feel so real — like you’re literally there with them, talking, laughing, and even cuddling.
What’s more interesting is that you might have this dream more than once, but the person will always be the same.
These dreams serve as a reminder for you that someone is coming into your life, and they prepare your subconscious so you’re ready when the right moment comes.
So if, lately, you’ve been having dreams similar to what’s described here, embrace them.
It won’t be long until your dreams will turn into reality.
10) You start to see love all around you
Wherever you go, you’ll see lovers holding hands or cuddling each other as if they’re the only ones in the world.
Love becomes the buzzword in your surroundings, and you don’t know why.
You will hear love discussion on television, and even your social media feeds are filled with love birds — and it’s not even February yet!
This might annoy you at first (because, well, you’re single) but it does not happen to tease you.
Instead, love wants to show up to you so you can be ready to accept it in your life.
So if you start seeing these signs everywhere, don’t be upset. Keep calm and make the final adjustment in your life because your soulmate is about to knock at your door.
11) You have put your trust in the Universe
You have laid all your cards and let the Universe will decide for your relationship status.
You are no longer desperate to meet someone like you were in the past.
Once you’re in this stage where you put everything in the hand of the Universe and surrender to whatever it will bring you, you’re on the right track that will lead you to your soulmate.
Did you notice that all those special people you’ve met in your life came out of nowhere, that you’re not even anticipating to meet them?
It turns out, great relationships happen when we least expect them.
When you’re not actively looking for love, it will likely show itself to you. This may sound ironic, but that’s just how the Universe works.
12) You will encounter similar types of people
This is a crucial piece of advice from psychics that’s often neglected by a lot of people.
Before you’ll finally meet “the one”, you often have to date a potential partner who you thought was already it, but then they’re not. And then you meet another, and then another.
They might have similar physical features, family details, careers, and even names!
This “copycat phenomenon” is a sign that your soulmate is on their way to you. You’ve just got to get past those copycats first!
Patience and strong intuition are important in this stage, as you wouldn’t want to be stuck in a hole with the wrong person.
13) You’re embracing new opportunities
Because you feel ready to allow someone into your life, you open yourself to more opportunities for meeting new people.
Hence, receiving invitations from family and friends becomes surprisingly frequent.
This socializing and leaving your comfort zone increases your chances of meeting your soulmate.
And it is often your subconscious that is trying to free you from your comfortable prison and help you find the love of your life.
So don’t feel weirded out about your sudden urge to go out and socialize. Listen to your body when it says you have to embrace new opportunities.
It’s often an indication that your special someone is just a few steps away.
14) Divine timing
This is the most magical of all stages in finding your soulmate.
Divine timing refers to that special moment in which the big revelation happens — you are to meet your soulmate!
Your moment has come, and the universe sets this day for you to meet your soulmate. And believe me, it will happen.
It can be in the form of a missed train, a canceled holiday, or suddenly finding yourself at a party you vowed not to attend.
Remember that when two souls are destined to complete each other, they will find each other.
So next time something goes wrong or something unexpected happens, and you feel that something beautiful is about to transpire out of it, trust your instinct — this could finally be the moment your soulmate will meet you.
And if you do meet someone out of that situation and feel an instant connection with them, they might be the soulmate you’ve been destined to meet along, after all.
And when you look back at all those things you’ve had to go through before this very moment, you’d say that everything is worth it.
That meeting your soulmate is worth it.
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