15 signs she wants you to confess your feelings for her

Do you like a girl, but you’re not sure if she likes you back? Are you afraid to make your intentions known for fear of being rejected?

Or maybe you’re already friends with this girl and have been for some time.

As a result, you can’t help but wonder if she might be more than just a friend. If any of these scenarios sound familiar, then read on for 15 clear signs that she wants you to confess your feelings for her.

Let’s dive in!

1) She wants to spend more and more time with you.

This one is more for those who haven’t made it to the dating zone yet.

So if you’re still in the friendzone this can be even more significant if she says things like “Gosh, I love spending all this time with you, or, I wish we could see each other all day.”

The more time you spend with a woman, the more you’ll get to know her and how she ticks.

If she begins to rely on you more and more, it may be a sign that she’s looking for someone to lean on and might be subconsciously contemplating the idea of dating you.

By spending more time with you, she’s trying to gauge if it’s worthwhile pursuing a romantic relationship with you and work out what that would look like.

The bottom line.

The more time you spend together, the more likely you are to find out what she’s thinking, and, probably, she’ll want you to confess your feelings for her.

2) She initiates physical contact.

A woman who’s into you and is contemplating dating you will likely initiate touch more often than a woman who doesn’t.

If she isn’t touchy-feely by nature, this is an extremely significant sign. If you’re sitting next to each other and she rests her hand on your leg or arm, for example, this is a very clear sign that she likes you.

If she initiates contact, it shows that she is comfortable with you and is opening herself up to the idea of dating you.

Touch is one of the most powerful human emotions and is often used to soothe feelings of anxiety or excitement.

If she begins to touch you more often or initiates contact with you, it’s likely that she’s attracted to you and trying to soothe those feelings.

By her initiating touch, it’s also a non-verbal gesture that she wants you to confess your feelings for her.

3) She compliments you.

If she likes you, she will make an effort to tell you.

Pay attention to the compliments she gives you, as they can be a sign that she likes you more than she thinks.

If you’ve been friends for a while and she has always been complimentary, this is an even better sign that she may be interested in you. If she compliments you, she is likely giving you a glimpse into the amazing things she sees in you.

Compliments are a way of expressing appreciation and affection. If she likes you, she will likely feel the need to express her feelings, even if only in a small way.

If she’s dishing out compliments, it’s likely that she’s fishing for them too and is another sign that she wants you to confess.

4) She shows up when she says she will.

If a woman is interested in you, she will make an effort to be on time for dates and meet-ups.

If you’ve been friends for a while and she suddenly becomes punctual for all your events, this is a very clear sign that she may be interested in something more than friendship.

Also, it’s a sign that she values and respects you and is interested in taking things to the next level.

When somebody doesn’t really care about another person, chances are they wouldn’t bend over backward to be there for them, so, if this is your lady, brace yourself for the fact that she wants you to confess your feelings for her.

5) She wants to hang out alone with just the two of you.

Whether you’ve been dating or are still stuck in the friendzone and she asks that the two of you hang out “alone”, this is a telling sign that she’s waiting for you to spill the beans.

You see, if she gets you alone, there are no distractions nor are there any people around to make things awkward in the event that you say something she doesn’t want to hear.

6) She asks for your advice.

Asking for your advice is a huge sign that she’s wanting you to confess your feelings for her.

Why? Well If she likes you, she will likely be looking for ways to make your relationship more serious.

Usually, it goes a little something like this…

I really need your input, you see my“friend” is currently with a guy and she doesn’t know if he’s serious about her? What do you think?

Ladies are clever! In case you hadn’t figured it out yet, her “friend” is in fact her and she’s trying to get a handle on how you feel about her.

7) She listens when you talk about your feelings.

And she listens intently at that!

If you notice that she’s completely fixated and hanging onto every word you say while you’re talking about how you feel, it’s a pretty huge indicator that she’s waiting for you to confess.

If she has always been a good listener and now she is listening to you with a different look in her eyes, it’s likely that she is trying to understand your feelings so that she can explore her feelings for you.

8) She laughs at your jokes and smiles at the things you do that make her happy.

It doesn’t matter how lame or how cringy your jokes are.

If she’s laughing and smiling at the silly things you do, she’s giving off a huge sign that she has her sights set on you.

This is especially true If she has always been more serious and now she is showing more emotions, she is likely exploring her feelings for you and trying to figure out if there is anything there.

And by anything there, I mean: “Do you like me as much as I like you?”

9) She makes an effort to look good when she knows you’ll see her.

When a woman has feelings for someone, she’s not going to appear before you looking like an extra from the Walking Dead.

She’s going to make sure that her hair, outfit, make-up, and nails are pristine because she’s trying to impress you.

On that note, if she’s raising the bar on her looks it’s a definite sign that she wants you to confess your feelings for her.

10) She looks at you for longer than a few seconds.

A few seconds is a normal amount of time to hold eye contact with someone, but keep in mind that some people just aren’t comfortable keeping eye contact.

If you notice that she is holding your gaze for two to three seconds or more, it may mean that she is interested in you.

This isn’t a sure sign that she likes you, but it’s a pretty good indicator. Holding eye contact is a powerful way to show interest in someone, so if she does it with you, she may be sending you a signal without even realizing it.

11) Her body language signals she wants to be closer to you.

Her body language can be a great indicator of how she feels about you. If she sits or stands closer to you, touches you, or looks at you in a certain way, it could be because she likes you.

She may like you if she constantly seeks your attention, laughs at your jokes, or eagerly asks you to hang out.

That’s because women are highly tuned into the signals a man’s body is giving off…

They get an “overall impression” of a guy’s attractiveness and think of him as either “hot” or “not” based on these body language signals.

12) She’s nervous and flustered around you.

This is a pretty big indication that she’s got the hots for you and is wanting you to confess and (hopefully) say you feel the same way.

If she gets nervous when you are around, this shows interest in you. If she has always been friendly and now she is nervous, it’s likely that something is up with her.

She’s realized that there’s more to you than she initially thought and because of this, she seems flustered and awkward around you.

13) She makes “jokes”

You know how they say that in every joke, there’s a hint of truth peppered in there, well this is a prime example.

In passing your lady might say something like “One day when we’re married, or that apartment will be awesome to raise our family in.

Take note, she’s probably not joking.

She’s trying to gauge your reaction because she wants to know if you’re seeing her as more than just a girlfriend or friend.

She’s testing you bro and in doing so is waiting for you to confess your feelings.

14) She posts things on social media.

In the hopes that you will respond.

You know that type of posts I’m talking about, it could be a meme, or a love quote, or she could be commenting on a post of yours.

Bottom line.

She’s trying to evoke emotion out of you and hopefully, she’ll get a response that will help her to determine your feelings for her.

15) Her friends mention you.

Once her friends become part of the equation, know that things have leveled up!

If her friends have hinted that she likes you, you should probably take that as a positive sign.

It shows that she’s comfortable enough to talk about you with her friends and probably feels pretty secure in her feelings for you.

With that in mind…

If her friends have mentioned that she likes you, you might want to confront her about it.

It’s more than likely that she realizes she has feelings for you and she just wants a way to express those feelings.


Now you know more about the  15 subtle signs that a woman wants you to confess your feelings for her, it’s time for you to take your shot!

Even if she doesn’t feel the same way right now, knowing these signs now will help keep you from getting confused or awkward later on.

So what are you waiting for? There’s no better time than now to tell the girl you like how you feel.

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