Does she like me? Here are 17 signs she’s totally into you!

If you find yourself falling for a girl, it can be hard to know if she is feeling the same way.

There’s so many ways to communicate with each other that it’s still surprising to find that people struggle to be honest about their feelings.

It seems the more ways we have to talk to someone, the less we actually talk to them.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

If you are into a girl and want to know if she’s into you too, check out these 17 signs that she is picking up what you’re putting down.

If you can’t find some of these actions in her behavior, she’s probably not that into you.

1) She lingers in your area.

Even after her friends have moved on down the line, she is hanging back and wanting to talk to you.

She’ll ask questions and suggest another drink. Or, she’ll just sit quietly and wait for you to talk to her.

2) She wants to know more.

She’ll probe for more information when you offer her information about yourself, and she’ll ask lots of questions.

She’ll want to know about your life, friends, work, hobbies, favorite everything, and more.

3) She laughs at your terrible jokes.

You know these are bad jokes but she’s laughing, so you can rest assured that she’s into you.

4) She keeps locking eyes with you.

If you keep catching her looking at it, then it’s a no brainer. Unless, of course, you have something on your face.

Then, take that opportunity to make a joke and get her number.

5) She pays attention to you.

She’ll listen and pay attention to what you are saying. She doesn’t interrupt and is enjoying you being the center of attention.

6) She won’t stop smiling.

She just likes looking at you and that makes her happy. If she is smiling a lot, don’t let it weird you out. It means she likes you. Or, you know, you have something on your face.

7) She seems relaxed around you.

She’ll just chill out when you are around and doesn’t feel like she needs to be anything but herself. You dig that about her and she knows it.

8) She wants to know if you have a girlfriend.

Women aren’t subtle these days so don’t be surprised if she just comes right out and asks if you have a girlfriend.

9) She tells you something personal.

If a woman gives up some personal information shortly after meeting her, she’s into you.

Don’t take it for granted. Offer something up in return.

10) She’s present and accounted for when you are around.

She’s not looking over your shoulder or talking to her friends. You’ve got her full attention.

11) She’s pretty active on your social media.

She’s always commenting and liking your posts and sharing things with via direct message.

Private jokes and things that mean something to her are a sure sign she’s into you.

12) She’s teasing you and picking on you.

We might as well be in grade school again, but sometimes, that’s how it goes. If she’s teasing you about a mustard stain on your shirt, it probably means she likes you.

13) She keeps dropping hints to hang out one-on-one.

She’s free Saturday afternoon and has said it three times already. Take the hint. She wants to hang out.

14) She’s not pulling away when you lean in.

You might be surprised to find she’s also leaning in, so go with it. What’s the worst that could happen?

15) She’s physically close to you in public.

She’ll take the seat next to you anytime.

16) She tells her friends about you.

If her friends mention you, it’s a good sign she’s been talking about you, and that she likes you!

17) She makes herself available.

She’ll happily cancel plans to spend time with you so try not to take advantage of it, but definitely take her up on her offer to hang out if she says she’s suddenly free.

Lachlan Brown