10 signs of twin flame sexual energy (+ tips to enhance your connection)

Your twin flame is the other half to your soul.

Twin flames have an undeniably intense connection that cosmically draws them together.

But just how far does this bond stretch?

Are there signs of sexual energy present between the two of you?

Twin flames have an almost psychic ability to know when their other flame is thinking about them, wanting to be around them – and yes – when they’re feeling aroused.

You can actually feel your ‘mirror soul’ thinking about you sexually.

Arousal from twin flames is on another level altogether. It can happen when you’re together, when you’re apart, or even with someone you’ve never met yet. It’s that telepathic connection between your mirror souls that produces the sexual energy.

Here are 10 signs to look out for when it comes to twin flame sexual energy, along with tips to enhance that connection.

10 signs of twin flame sexual energy

1) You feel a strong sexual urge

Do you feel strong sexual urges overcoming you out of nowhere?

The pull is much stronger than simply wanting to be intimate with someone.

It’s one of the biggest signs that your twin flame is thinking and feeling the same things in that moment.

This urge is unpredictable.

It might happen first thing in the morning when you’re waking up for the day.

It might come out of nowhere in the middle of the day.

You have a silver cord of connection that binds the two of you together. This is essentially an energetic structure that connects our physical selves to our spiritual selves.

This cord is what opens that gateway for energy to be shared between the two of you.

This is what enables you to feel those strong sexual urges from your twin flame.

Of course, it’s not just limited to sexual urges and also connects you emotionally on a whole new level.

2) You have erotic dreams

It’s no secret that dreams are very much a mystery to us.

There are so many different theories out there about why we dream and exactly what it means. Psychologist Sigmund Freud believed that our dreams act as a gateway to our unconscious mind. Science, however, has never been able to find anything conclusive.

But, there is one thing we know. Our dreams are very powerful. In some instances, people have even shared the same dream.

That has to mean something…

It suggests there is a psychic energy between two people that enables them to connect through their dreams. Twin flames are the most likely candidates to be able to experience this connection.

If you’re experiencing erotic dreams at night, then there’s a chance you’re picking up on your twin flame’s energy, or even having a shared experience.

Perhaps it’s worth asking your twin flame the next morning what they dreamt about that night.

If you want to learn more about twin flame dreams, this video talks about 9 potential meanings of twin flame dreams:



3) You have sexual thoughts about them

These sexual thoughts don’t just come to you when you’re dreaming. You’ll also experience them while completely conscious throughout the day.

It’s normal for people to have sexy thoughts about someone they desire.

Our libido drives these thoughts.

Once again, the silver cord mentioned above means you and your twin flame are likely experiencing shared sexual thoughts.

You are reflecting what they feel sexually.

And they are doing the same with you.

4) You feel them touching you

This might be enough to make you jump the first time you experience it. After all, the thought of someone being able to physically touch you when they aren’t even present is a lot.

This is how far the twin flame connection extends.

It’s actually referred to at the twin flame telepathic touch. It’s a bond that permanently exists between the two of you.

There’s nothing you have to actually do to trigger it, but you do have some kind of conscious control over it at the same time.

It’s unlikely to feel like a warm embrace, so be on the lookout for the smaller signs.

For example, their fingertips lightly caressing your skin.

These feelings will come over you without any warning, however, there is a way for you to harness this energy and take control of it.

The telepathic touch enables you or your twin flame to instantly share a connection or transmit a specific touch to your other half.

I share some tips on how you can enhance this connection between you and your twin soul and actually take control of that energy. You can learn how to make these telepathic connections when and how you desire.

5) You have chemistry

It’s normal to have a degree of sexual chemistry when it comes to your partner. But when you find your twin flame, you’ll find that chemistry explodes.

The intimacy you share goes right down into your soul and comes straight back out again in the bedroom.

You can’t help but feel overwhelmed by your twin flame’s presence.

It excites you, it invigorates you and it takes over every single inch of your body.

As soon as you give into those desires, the sexual energy in the room takes over.

You’ve no doubt experienced sexual relationships before you met your twin flame (though not necessarily) …

How did those compare?

How does it feel different?

That’s the twin flame sexual energy.

You’re drawn to this energy in them. You want to be around them all day long and can’t get enough of their presence in your life.

The connection between the two of you is so absolute that the sex is next level. It’s a sign that your twin flame sexual energy is at work.

6) You mirror each other’s body language

Contrary to popular belief, flirting isn’t all about licking your lips and touching each other physically.

When it comes to your twin flame, the signs of sexual energy between the two of you will be much more subtle, but much more intense.

Eye contact: it’s all in the eyes. They say that your eyes are the window to your soul, and when it comes to your twin flame, this couldn’t be more correct.

They will gaze deep into your eyes and hold their contact. It doesn’t have to be an intent stare. The two of you are so comfortable with each other, that a look is enough.

Their pupils dilate: while they are staring into your eyes, not the size of their pupils. Research suggests that chemical reactions in our nervous system cause the eyes to dilate when we’re attracted to someone or feeling aroused by them in the moment.

Body signs: our body language can tell us so much about what the other person is thinking and feeling. Every time you sit with your twin flame, they face their body towards you. They give you their undivided attention.

They mirror your actions and where you put your hands. They lean into you. All these are signs of their sexual energy being projected onto you in the most subtle ways.

7) You can hear their voice

This is one of the more obvious signs that some twin flames are lucky enough to experience for themselves.

It’s not just a feeling or a touch that comes across you, but you actually hear your twin flame’s voice talking to you.

When they can’t be with you, they can still reach out to you telepathically and arouse you.

Even if you don’t hear their voice, you might use your mind to play out conversations between the two of you that are enough to get you sexually excited.

This is a strong sign that your sexual energy is very strong.

Some twin flames use this connection to get off when they are alone. Using the energy from their twin flame is enough to arouse them and allow them to enjoy some self-pleasure with their twin flame’s help.

You don’t even need your twin flame to be physically present to be aroused by them. Just the thought is enough to trigger that sexual energy between the two of you.

You may even find yourself experiencing a telepathic sexual encounter.

When you please yourself, but the connection feels so strong that you believe your twin flame has to be experiencing the same thing with you in that moment.

8) Your tarot cards tell you so

If you’re into tarot cards, then trust your guides to share deeper insights into your twin flame relationship.

There are a number of different cards that signify sexual encourages and connections.

These sexy tarot cards include:

  • The Knight of Wands
  • The Ace of Wands
  • The Three of Cups
  • The Star
  • The Ace of Pentacles
  • The Four of Swords
  • The Eight of Swords
  • Temperance

Each of these cards individually will bring deeper meaning to your life and the relationship you have with your twin flame.

It helps to trust your guides and the cards they show you and to read into them to discover the deeper meaning behind them.

If you notice a number of these ‘sexy’ tarot cards appearing in your reading, it’s a sign that the sexual energy between you and your twin flame is very strong.

Embrace it.

9) You feel a sudden change in your energy

Wondering whether or not your twin flame is thinking about you sexually?

This is one of the biggest signs: a sudden change of energy.

If you find yourself feeling aroused or turned on for no reason whatsoever, it’s likely that this energy has been sent to you from your twin flame.

At the same time, if you embrace these feelings that come to you, you, in turn, send a signal back to your twin flame.

It becomes a moment that the two of you can experience together.

10) Your gut tells you so

There’s something so surreal about a twin flame connection that it can almost be hard to put it into words.

But you don’t need words to tell you that something is there.

Something meaningful.

Something intense.

Something amazing.

It’s a strong sexual energy that exists between the two of you as a result of your mirror souls.

The one thing it is: undeniable.

Trust this intuition of yours. When you know, you know. Trust that feeling and every other feeling that comes with it, and know you have something great going for you.

By embracing what your intuition is telling you, it will enable you to become more attuned to your twin flame’s sexual thoughts and enable you to enhance the sexual energy surrounding you both.

6 tips to enhance your connection

Now you understand just how strong the twin flame connection really is, you might be looking for ways to enhance that sexual energy between the two of you. Here are 5 tips to help you out.

1) Work on your telepathic touch

This is something I touched on above. The telepathic touch is at work in a twin flame relationship without you needing to lift a finger.

However, if you’re looking to harness that sexual connection between the two of you, then there are ways you can reach higher energy. It starts with a clean aura – which offers a clean body.

Here are some ways you can achieve this:

  • Bath salts: you not only clean your physical body, but the salts help the energy flow and remove the aura that comes from the dirt.
  • Swimming: there’s something magical about floating in water. Take a trip to the ocean and allow the mineral salts to cleanse your body.
  • Sunlight: so many benefits come from soaking up some Vitamin D. It gets rid of those negative vibrations in your body and welcomes the positive.

You have to have a very strong emotional connection with your twin flame to enhance this sense of touch.

Enter into meditation in a quiet space where you can really focus on your twin flame. Feel what they feel. Think what they think.

Feeling their love so deeply will enable to you help them feel just as loved.

The high energy vibration you feel physically from this love will then be transmitted to your twin flame. They will feel it physically and know you’re thinking of them sexually.

2) Be open to healing

Why sexual encounters with your twin flame will mostly be of the physical variety, the spiritual realm very much comes into the equation.

Achieving that level of harmony with your twin soul takes a very unique connection that departs the physical world and enters your soul.

This process alone is enough to help heal you on a much deeper level than you ever thought possible. It can heal your past hurts, your karmic leftovers and so much more to take you on an engaged process of coming to terms with who you are now.

You will suddenly begin to look at yourself in a whole new light.

In turn, you will become even more aware of your flaws and faults, as you focus on that emotional healing from the past. It’s about breaking down those barriers and stopping any negative cycles that are dragging you down.

Make sure you embrace this healing process. Open yourself up and accept it into your life. You need to both confront and deal with this healing process to be able to enjoy that sexual energy on a whole new level.

The physical connection that you share with your twin flame, isn’t just about how you feel about each other physically. It’s about the energy you both feel when you’re together.

By ridding the negative energy from your life and healing those past hurts, the two of you can enjoy a blissful connection on many different levels.

3) Trigger a natural male instinct

hero instinct in men

If you want to enhance your twin flame sexual energy, you must make the guy feel like your provider and protector, and someone you genuinely admire.

In other words, you have to make him feel like a hero (not exactly like Thor though).

I know it sounds a bit silly. In this day and age, women don’t need someone to rescue them. They don’t need a ‘hero’ in their lives.

And I couldn’t agree more.

But here’s the ironic truth. Men do still need to be a hero. Because it’s built into their DNA to seek out relationships that allow them to feel like a provider.

And the kicker?

Twin flame sexual energy won’t be at its peak when this thirst isn’t satisfied.

There’s actually a psychological term for what I’m talking about here. It’s called the hero instinct. This term was coined by relationship expert James Bauer.

Now, you can’t trigger his hero instinct just giving him admiration next time you see him. Men don’t like receiving participation awards for showing up. Trust me.

A man wants to feel like he has earned your admiration and respect.


The best way to learn how to trigger the hero instinct in your guy is to watch this free online video. James Bauer reveals the simple things you can do starting today.

If you can trigger this instinct successfully, then you’ll see the results immediately.

When a man genuinely feels like your everyday hero, he’ll become more loving, attentive, and interested in being in a committed, long-term relationship with you.

Top tip:

Some ideas really are life-changing. And for romantic relationships, this is one of them. That’s why you should watch this free online video where you can learn how to trigger the hero instinct in your guy.

4) Manage your expectations

It can be so easy to get caught up and carried about in a twin flame relationship.

It’s a cosmic connection like no other and can take on a life of its own.

But that doesn’t mean your relationship and sex life is going to be smooth sailing. It doesn’t make you immune to the issues that normal couples face in their day-to-day lives. So don’t expect that.

If you’re expecting bliss for the rest of your life, it will cause hurt and anger when things don’t go to plan.

This can seriously sever that sexual twin flame energy you have between the two of you and make it near impossible to repair.

Our twin flames know and understand us on a level that no one ever had before in our lives.

They see your insecurities.

They know your deepest fears.

But they are also human. Just like you. There will be periods of up and down and disconnect along the way, which is completely normal.

Being open to this discord and embracing it, will allow you to keep that strong connection time and time again.

It will make you both more in tune with each other’s needs and able to build that strong sexual connection through shared experiences.

5) Raise your vibration

Are you looking for increased sexual energy between you and your twin flame?

Then you have to project that same energy for the universe to send it back to you.

It’s hard to be happy, positive and energetic all the time. But it can have such a powerful impact on your mindset, and can help you manifest positive things into your life.

Here are some ways you can work to raise your vibration:

  • Balance your chakras
  • Stare at flowers
  • Play with your pets
  • Take a warm bath (light some candles to maximize effect)
  • Connect with nature
  • Listen to music

The fact is, the sky is your limit when it comes to raising your vibrations and giving off that positive energy.

It’s about seeing the joy in life and projecting that joy onto others. If you’re always in a good mood and ready to embrace the good around you, it will strengthen that sexual energy with your twin flame and make it even more positive for the two of you.

You reap what you sow. It’s time to change your outlook on life and work on your twin flame sexual energy at the same time.

6) Give them the space they need

Finding your twin flame is a momentous occasion.

The connection you share is like no other. It’s no secret that you want to spend as much time with them as possible and to be around them all the time.

But, it’s just as important to give your twin flame the space they need to grow and be the person they want to be.

Back off and give them the time to reflect on their life – and take that time for yourself as well.

If you push your twin flame too much, they will drift away from you and that connection will be lost.

Instead, encourage them to take the time they need and be supportive of this.

You will find that connection will deepen through this.

Your twin flame sexual energy

The sexual connection you feel towards your twin flame is like no other.

Don’t expect to experience everything at once.

Some of these signs will come to you in time, as that sexual connection deepens and you grow together on your journey.

Felicity Frankish

My name is Felicity (Flick) Frankish and I am mum to Cassandra, Vivienne and Elliot. After studying journalism and digital media, I naturally fell into the online world - and hasn't left since!

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