Anna Scheucher
Have you ever wondered if you might share a metaphysical connection with someone?
A connection as deep as that is rare, but not unheard of. If you feel like you have met the one, you might want to find out how profound your bond really is.
Here are 32 signs that you are sharing a metaphysical connection with someone!
1) You just know
First and foremost, that’s probably not a sign you were necessarily looking for, but a big indicator of having a deep metaphysical connection with someone is having a feeling about it.
Your instincts are extremely powerful, especially when it comes to metaphysical stuff.
That’s why they will be your biggest indicator of whether or not there is a strong bond with someone.
Can you simply not put your finger on why exactly you are so connected to your partner?
Sometimes there is no physical reason behind a bond.
You might notice that at different times in the past you had very rational and logical reasons for being with someone.
This time, there is no way to explain it.
2) There are many parallels between you two
Sure, some people are as different as salt and pepper and still share a metaphysical connection, but similarities are a big indicator of your spiritual bond with someone.
Have you noticed that your partner and you seem to have a lot in common?
You share hobbies, values, interests, future goals, etc.
But it can also be small things, like the way you drink your tea in the morning.
These common grounds will help you immensely to form a strong foundation of any relationship, especially the metaphysical ones.
3) You have lots of fun together
Joy and bliss are some of the highest vibrations. On top of that, they are also the key ingredient for a strong relationship.
That’s why having fun with your partner is an important indicator as to whether or not you share a metaphysical connection.
How is your relationship? Can you be silly together? Do they make you laugh?
When you have a metaphysical connection with someone, your humor just matches perfectly.
You get each other’s jokes and find them hilarious.
This is not only important for metaphysical connections, though. Any relationship thrives off of fun together.
Imagine spending your life with that person. I think everybody wants somebody at their side who can make them laugh, 2, 5, or 10 years from now.
4) Your conversations aren’t forced
Next on the list is the way you talk to each other. Does your conversation seem to just effortlessly flow?
Having a metaphysical connection with someone means just getting them, and feeling seen and heard in return.
This means that no matter what happens, you never run out of things to say to each other.
And when you do, it’s not that awkward silence you try to cover up with thinking about anything and everything to talk about.
There is no feeling of unease, you can relax and really focus on the conversation at hand.
5) You can relax with them
Speaking of which, when you have a strong metaphysical connection with someone, you don’t feel any pressure to seem like an interesting person.
For the first time, you can let your guard down and relax around them.
You understand each other, so there is no pressure to prove anything.
Sure, it can be quite common to feel this strain with other people, but no matter how “normal” it is, that doesn’t take away from the fact that it’s also incredibly exhausting.
With that strong metaphysical connection, these worries are fears of the past.
There is a sense of comfort, you can let your guard down with that person.
6) There is a sense of freedom
Often we feel conflicted between having a beautiful and committed relationship and feeling free.
Well, what if I tell you that you can have both?
With the right person, a metaphysical connection can show as feeling free even though you also know they are always there for you.
This type of bond allows you to finally let your guards down after what sometimes can add up to years of boundaries and walls.
For me, being with that person felt like having a huge boulder lifted off my chest. I could finally breathe again and I felt light as a feather.
The stronger the metaphysical connection, the stronger the trust. That’s why there is no need to cage or confine your partner.
7) There is a feeling of having known each other for a long time
Do you ever look at your partner and get the feeling that you’ve known them your whole life (even if it might have only been a few weeks or months)?
That can be a huge indicator of a strong metaphysical connection.
These types of bonds open up a sense of familiarity that you might have never experienced before.
Meeting them for the first time felt like meeting an old friend.
This feeling of recognition could even be a sign pointing towards past-life soulmates.
Either way, it means you are meant to be together.
8) Your conversations go way deeper than the surface
When you have a strong metaphysical connection with someone, your conversations are everything but shallow.
What do you usually talk about with your partner?
Do your talks end with the weather and current events, or do you often find yourselves going down a wormhole of ideas, philosophies, and theories?
If it’s the latter, chances are that you share a metaphysical connection with them.
9) There is mutual respect
This is probably the most important of the bunch because it should be a sign of every connection, not just the metaphysical ones.
Mutual respect is crucial in order to be happy and fulfilled with one another.
This could look like taking the other’s opinion seriously, listening to what they have to say, or letting them speak when you have an argument.
A big part of respect is active listening.
This means that during a conversation, you don’t just wait impatiently for your turn to talk, but instead, you listen to what the other person has to say.
Sounds easy, right? Unfortunately, the majority of the population does not possess this skill, even though it almost instantly ameliorates all your relationships.
Respect also means knowing each other’s needs and boundaries and communicating on how to best support your partner in meeting them.
This type of communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship and will be an indicator of whether you two share a metaphysical connection.
10) You want to protect each other
Another sign of having a metaphysical connection with someone is when the two of you are very protective of each other.
It’s a very natural mechanism, you want to protect who you love, especially when that person feels like a part of you.
This protectionism might already kick in during the very early stages of dating and seeing someone.
Something inside you just wants to take care of them and prevent any harm from happening, and vice versa.
For some, this can be a challenge, as they have always seen themselves as independent, and past experiences have taught them that they can only rely on themselves.
In that case, it’s a great learning experience to let go of control every once in a while and allow someone else to support you.
Contrary to popular belief, being completely independent and not relying on anybody else is not necessarily a positive thing.
In fact, it can be a trauma response, feeling like you are the only one you can trust.
Metaphysical connections can really help individuals in these cases to open up and trust a bit more.
11) There is a pull between you
Oftentimes, a metaphysical connection can manifest as an unexplainable magnetic pull towards another.
This could be for example running into them by accident in a lot of places, or simply a feeling of wanting to be close to them at all times.
If you feel this extreme pull it’s not unlikely that they feel the same.
This sensation does not always have to be of sexual nature. Sometimes it is the mere enjoyment of each other’s company.
12) You can be yourself with them
This one is probably not only a sign of a metaphysical connection but a sign of a healthy relationship in general.
When you are in the presence of your partner, you can be completely yourself without fear of judgment.
You know that you don’t have to change anything about yourself in order to be “enough” because they love and respect you the way you are.
This authenticity will only increase the strength of your metaphysical connection.
After all, you don’t want to be with someone in whose presence you need to act like somebody you’re not, right?
Sometimes, we do this without our partner ever implying that we are inadequate.
With a metaphysical connection, you will know that you don’t need to pretend, you can be who you are.
13) You learn and grow together
A big sign of a metaphysical connection is when you and your partner catapult each other into new spheres of existence.
Although it’s not always easy, you inspire one another to grow and evolve.
Triggers are not swept under the carpet and instead are used as cues of what still needs work in the relationship, and individually.
Having a partner who is willing to grow and heal with you is huge. In fact, it’s the best thing that could happen to you.
Not only will it be incredibly motivating to have someone there with you, but it will also provide you with the safe space you need to uncover old patterns and behaviors without shame.
Some people need to be single for a while in order to grow on their own. Not, if you have a metaphysical connection, however.
In that case, your partner will open your eyes to all the wounds that need healing and you can work on them together.
14) Your values line up
This is actually very important. Oftentimes, couples are happy in their relationship, but things ultimately fall apart because their values don’t align.
This is important. If your core values aren’t compatible, a future together can be really tricky.
You don’t have to have everything in common, of course. The important things are all the big decisions and goals.
Imagine you want children and a life in the countryside, while your partner never wants to leave the city and is already hesitant with getting a dog, let alone having a kid.
In that case, your early years together might be perfect, but once these decisions come closer, there are only three options, neither of which is very admirable.
Either the entire relationship falls apart, one of you gives up on their dreams entirely, or you compromise and both end up unhappy.
As you can see, none of these options sound appealing.
When you have a metaphysical connection, at least all the big core values and goals line up, so that they will not have to be a reason to break up in the future.
15) You can trust them
When you have a metaphysical connection with someone, you can trust them with your life.
Sure, oftentimes it takes a while to trust someone, but with this person, you almost instantly felt a sense of deep trust.
There are always reasons why trust can waver, like lying or betrayal. In those cases, it can take a while to rebuild this faith in the other person, but it’s not impossible.
If that’s the case, temporary trust issues are normal.
Apart from that exception, you fully trust your partner and have done so since the beginning.
If you’ve always had trust issues, even when your partner has never given you a reason for it, there might be something within you that you can take a closer look at.
Inherent trust issues can stem from childhood or traumas in past relationships. These things unfortunately don’t just disappear with time, as we often hope.
Unless you actively work on it, you might carry that baggage with you forever.
16) There seems to be energy around you
Have you ever noticed how powerful energy can be?
Whether it’s a simple gut feeling, or you notice someone’s happiness radiating from them, energy is all around, we just often aren’t able to perceive it as such.
You also radiate energy, affecting everything around you.
When you have a metaphysical connection with someone, this sense of energy is especially strong.
You might feel the energy around you whenever they think about you and vice versa.
In their presence, you can sense how they are feeling, and when both of you are in a state of high energy, the mood is impeccable.
This person with whom you share the metaphysical bond might even be the reason you noticed the power of energy in the first place!
17) You have individual lives and goals
We talked about sharing values and goals earlier.
While this is definitely important, a big sign of a metaphysical connection with someone is having your separate dreams and lives apart from the relationship.
Many couples make the mistake of putting their partner on a pedestal and putting their entire life on hold in the meantime.
This can get very unhealthy over time.
Not only will it make the two partners codependent, but they might even get insecure at the thought of their love having a life of their own.
When the metaphysical connection is strong, there is no need for such insecurities and doubts.
You know that your relationship is not the only thing in your life, and you also know that both you and your partner have individual needs and dreams.
This is a two-way street, both of you should feel this security.
The connection between you gives you confidence that you won’t be leaving each other, even when you have a life of your own.
18) Time doesn’t exist when you’re with them
A big sign of a metaphysical connection is that time doesn’t seem to exist anymore when you’re together.
Sometimes, time seems to come to a halt while you are experiencing a beautiful moment with them, and other times hours fly by because you’re so drawn into the conversation with them.
All of a sudden, they are the center of your attention, and everything else scoots into the background.
19) You don’t need words to communicate
There is nothing more frustrating than trying to explain yourself to someone, and even after you explain it, they still don’t get what you mean.
It’s a good thing you don’t have to worry about that when you have a metaphysical connection with someone.
One way this connection shows is by not having to verbalize everything in order for your partner to understand.
They pick up on your mood immediately, without you having to say a word.
This makes communication a lot easier, as you will not have to explain yourself as much as you would with anyone else.
20) Being with them makes you happy
Sometimes, connecting with someone metaphysically can be an overwhelming experience, flooding you with the happiness you’ve never known before.
The mere fact of being seen and understood is already extremely fulfilling, but when you truly connect with someone, it will feel like the last puzzle piece just fell into place.
Whether you spend time together or apart, simply thinking about them makes you happy.
This is a really good sign, as you will want to spend your life with a person who brings you joy.
21) Sometimes it feels like telepathy
Do you know how people sometimes say something at the same time? This happens especially often when they spend a lot of time together.
With a metaphysical connection, it works similarly. Your thoughts seem to be connected, and sometimes you might even question the existence of telepathy.
For example, your partner says something and you were just thinking the same thing – does that happen a lot?
22) The physical attraction is through the roof
I know, we’re talking about metaphysical here, not physical, but believe it or not, the two are very interlinked.
Of course, spiritual and emotional attraction are big building blocks of a metaphysical connection, but so is physical attraction.
That doesn’t mean you need to be all over each other 24/7 and have sex a lot, it simply means you enjoy physical affection and want to be close to them!
Having this attraction will only strengthen your metaphysical connection even more.
23) You can heal together
We already talked about growing and evolving together, but another big indicator of having a metaphysical connection with someone is when you heal each other.
Being able to help one another through their triggers and traumas just for the sake of it, without ulterior motive, means you are very connected.
The stigma of healing on your own is only partly true. In fact, while we’re single, we’re often oblivious to many of our issues.
Because of that, relationships can be an incredible mirror to show us the wounds we still carry with us.
My friend Eileen for example never had an issue with insecurity. But she was always single, so she never really needed to think about it too much.
Once she felt the least bit insecure, she could flirt with another guy and get that external validation to soothe all insecurities.
It wasn’t until she got into her first serious relationship (and external validation from different guys was off the table), that all her insecurities came bubbling up.
Together with her partner, she managed to pinpoint them and start to heal.
24) You don’t make it easy for each other
A good metaphysical connection is not all sun and rainbows. Quite the contrary, you push each other out of your comfort zones.
These challenges are what ultimately help you grow and expand into new versions of yourself.
Your partner might also encourage you to try new things, never letting you settle for less.
Sometimes, they can even point out flaws that you suppress about yourself.
While that’s not always fun, these challenges are what will ultimately make you a better person.
25) Even the mundane tasks feel intimate
To enjoy time with someone you have a metaphysical connection with, you don’t need to be doing anything crazy.
The most mundane activities, like doing chores or getting groceries can feel like little adventures filled with intimacy.
It has nothing to do with what you’re doing, the mere fact that this person is present is already enough to make you feel good.
These are the kinds of people you want to be with for life. Everyone can enjoy the highlights of life – vacations, holidays, and activities.
But someone who makes you enjoy the mundane? There is definitely a deeply-rooted connection there that you don’t want to miss out on.
With the right person, every day feels like a little adventure.
26) You make each other better
Having a metaphysical connection with someone means wanting the best for them, and that shows.
After being together for a while, you notice visible changes about yourself and them – positive, of course.
They don’t complete you, but they help you to see that you are already complete all on your own.
A metaphysically connected partner will want to see you grow and bloom into the best version of yourself, and you want the same for them.
They allow you the space to grow and expand in whatever direction you want, without limiting you or making you feel small.
Oftentimes, these connections will leave you feeling inspired to finally take the plunge and follow your dreams!
Your partner will always be there to support you.
27) You would do anything for one another
When you have a metaphysical connection with someone, you would do anything to help them out, no matter what it is.
A little disclaimer here, the things you’d do are to a healthy extent, of course.
You don’t let yourself be manipulated and do whatever for them, even if it hurts you.
Instead, you help each other out in a healthy way. If you could give them the world, you would.
28) There is unconditional support
Having a metaphysical connection with someone can show as unconditionally supporting them, and being supported in return.
Whatever you are going through, the other person is there to have your back.
This can be physical support, pitching in with tasks and chores to help each other out, but it can also be emotional support.
No matter what you decide to try, be it quitting your job, having a new athletic goal, or wanting to finally write a book – your partner is there to support you through it all.
A big thing to mention here is that some people want to help but all they end up doing is making more work for you.
With a metaphysical connection, your partner knows exactly how to best support you, in a way that actually helps!
29) You feel immense gratitude
A very good sign that your partner and you are sharing a metaphysical connection is when you feel immense gratitude towards them.
Many relationships, unfortunately, resort back to taking each other for granted after a while.
In a metaphysical relationship, this doesn’t happen. You make the time to regularly thank each other and express your gratitude in one way or another.
As an example, I cook for my boyfriend and myself every night, and even though I’ve done that for a long time (and we’ve been together for years), he still surprises me with flowers frequently to express his gratitude for me.
Flowers aren’t even necessary, to be honest! A simple “thank you” goes a long way.
In a metaphysical connection, this is nothing new, but you’d be surprised how many couples lack even the most foundational gratitude for one another!
30) It feels like the universe is blessing this relationship
An undoubted sign of having a metaphysical connection with someone is when it feels like the entire universe is conspiring to bring you together.
Maybe you’ve noticed that ever since you’ve been with them, everything in your life seems to be going well – career, friendships, etc.!
This could be a sign of the universe that you are on the right path, and that the connection between you two is real.
Some people even experience angel numbers! Angel numbers are messages from the universe, and if you’ve been noticing them a lot ever since you’ve known this person, it’s a sign!
31) They help you to get to know yourself better
Being close to someone can be scary, vulnerability and opening up to them also means letting them see you as who you are.
For some people, this is terrifying, because they’ve not only hidden their true self from others, but also from themselves for years.
When you have a metaphysical connection with someone, they can help you to get to know yourself better.
You can take off your mask (metaphorically) and learn to love yourself for who you are.
With the right person, you don’t only get to know them, but you also get to know yourself in the process.
32) You love each other unconditionally
Unconditional love – this phrase gets thrown around a lot, but many people aren’t very clear on its true meaning.
Loving someone unconditionally is a beautiful thing. It also requires lots of emotional intelligence and maturity.
It means you want the best for them, regardless of what your own ego wants.
This doesn’t mean you should neglect your own needs by any chance! It simply means accepting your partner for who they are without wanting to change them.
It also means loving them without expecting anything back in return.
So much is conditional nowadays. People think they do something out of love, but in reality, they do it to feel better about themselves, and to get something back.
For example, some people shower others with presents, and while they might think they are doing it out of the good of their hearts, in reality, their subconscious is trying to buy the other’s affection.
This depends entirely on your mindset. You can shower your partner with presents, of course, just pay attention to what your underlying motive might be!
With a metaphysical connection, there are no underlying motives, only love!
