31 signs he finds you irresistible (complete guide)

โ€œThere is something so beautiful inside you that if you knew it, you would fall in love with it. It is irresistible. You can truly experience that.โ€

– Prem Rawat

To one man you may just be one of the 3.9 billion women in the world.

To another man, however, you may be the world.

The difference is all in the eyes of the beholder.

Hereโ€™s how to tell where you are on his radarโ€ฆ

31 signs he finds you irresistible

1) His body language is all about you

One of the biggest signs he finds you irresistible is that his body language is oriented toward you.

He leans toward you, licks his lips, plays with his hair and points his feet towards you when youโ€™re together.

If you learn how to read body language, this guyโ€™s behavior will speak volumes.

Hereโ€™s a handy guide that goes through some of the basics of learning to read body language from TopThink.

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2) He tries to touch you whenever possible

He also tries to touch you when heโ€™s close to you.

Sometimes this is subtle, like putting a hand on your arm or gently letting his touch linger when your hands meet.

When touching you isnโ€™t an option, heโ€™ll try to be physically close to you.

If thereโ€™s a choice to sit next to you or elsewhere, you can bet you know where heโ€™s going to choose.

Being irresistible means exactly that: he canโ€™t resist you.

Even when he knows it looks extra-thirsty to always glom onto you, he just canโ€™t stop himself!

3) He initiates conversations as much as possible

Another of the top signs he finds you irresistible is that he initiates conversations whenever possible.

If he canโ€™t think of a topic, he just starts chatting about the weather, or compliments your new earrings.

If your conversation reaches a lull, youโ€™ll also notice him make a conscious effort to keep it going and extend your chat.

Heโ€™s clearly set his mind on talking to you about anything possible.

Hopefully you like all the attention!

4) He makes intense eye contact with you

When we see something we like, we look at it. Itโ€™s in our nature!

A man who canโ€™t get enough of you is going to make intense eye contact and lavish his gaze on you.

Heโ€™ll look at you like heโ€™s working on a hot day and eyeing up a dripping ice cream cone of his favorite flavorโ€ฆ

Or an ice-cold beer with condensation beading down the sides.

He finds you irresistible, thatโ€™s for sure.

A shy guy will usually make eye contact and then briefly look down like heโ€™s embarrassed when you catch him.

5) Heโ€™s a nervous wreck

All but the smoothest players get shaken up by a beautiful woman they are attracted to.

When a man finds you irresistible, his body and mind start to go haywire in ways that are beyond his control.

Itโ€™s like a system override switch.

If he finds you irresistible, heโ€™s going to show it with shaky hands, clumsy behavior, fidgeting and tripping over his own words.

Heโ€™ll seem like heโ€™s having an anxiety attack, but really heโ€™s just having an attack of being extremely attracted to you.

6) He notices small details about you

Many relationships start to crack up when the guy starts forgetting key dates of his girlfriend or wife.

He also stops noticing little details about her and even some obvious things like her hairstyle.

A guy who finds you irresistible is the opposite.

Heโ€™ll pick up on even subtle changes and notice a change in style, that new nail polish thatโ€™s really unique, or even a special perfume scent youโ€™re wearing.

Think of him like a radio thatโ€™s tuned into you all day long.

7) He doesnโ€™t like other guys around you

Another sign that a guy canโ€™t get his mind off you is that he doesnโ€™t like when youโ€™re around other guys.

This can cross the line into toxicity and possessive behavior, but in milder forms itโ€™s usually manageable.

A guy who finds you irresistible will tend to react very badly when you are talking or flirting with other men.

Heโ€™ll eye them up like heโ€™s an animal stalking its prey or assessing the competition.

He wants you all to himself.

8) Heโ€™s always getting in touch with you

A guy who canโ€™t get enough of you will try to keep the lines of communication open.

Heโ€™ll constantly be texting, calling, or trying to chat with you in some form.

Even if thatโ€™s just a quick โ€œhey, good morning!โ€ every day before work, you can bet that heโ€™ll be thereโ€ฆ

He wants to be in touch with you and know whatโ€™s going on in your life.

And he never gets bored with you, either.

9) He loves to make you laugh

One of the cliches about the โ€œnice guyโ€ who gets friendzoned is that heโ€™s a bit of a class clown.

He makes a girl laugh and she cares about him, but the romantic feelings just arenโ€™t there.

Laughing all the time might be a bit much, but the truth is that laughter can be deeply tied to romance.

And thereโ€™s a certain way of joking that is also seductive and increases the romantic tension.

If heโ€™s doing that around you quite often, then heโ€™s likely very into you.

10) Heโ€™s there for you when the chips are down

A guy who just finds you a bit attractive or likes your personality isnโ€™t going to be there when the crap hits the fan.

But a man who truly finds you irresistible is different.

One of the strongest signs he finds you irresistible is that heโ€™s there for you when the chips are down.

This is the case even when thereโ€™s no clear benefit to him.

Why would he care?

Because heโ€™s extremely into you.

11) He dresses to the nines around you

A guy who finds you stunning will try to look at the top of his game himself.

Heโ€™ll dress well, wear accessories, keep his hygiene top-notch and style his hair.

Heโ€™ll wear snazzy shoes and a nice belt.

Heโ€™ll have on sunglasses that look just that extra bit classy.

If heโ€™s looking like a million bucks whenever heโ€™s around you, but only like about $500 around everyone else, then you can be sure that somethingโ€™s up.

12) Heโ€™s proud of you

A man who finds you irresistible is proud of you.

He loves to be out in public with you, introduce you to his friends and be known to be associated with you.

Heโ€™s not ashamed of anything about you and boosts you up around others even when youโ€™re not around.

If he can help you out in any way, heโ€™s willing and ready.

Heโ€™s your number one fan.

13) His face shows the signs

When a man is intensely attracted to a woman, something interesting happens:

His jaw drops open, his palms start sweating and he gets flushed and short of breath.

His eyes get a hungry kind of look and he even starts drooling in some cases.

Either he hasnโ€™t eaten in awhile or he wants you for dessert.

14) His voice gets super husky

When a man gets very turned on emotionally or physically, he gets husky.

Like the mating call of an animal in the wild, a man who finds you irresistible will subconsciously lower his voice.

This is an ancient caveman instinct which is intended to convey strength and manliness.

15) He asks about your future plans

A guy who finds you irresistible wants to keep you in his life as much as possible.

Heโ€™ll be very curious about your future plans and if he fits into them.

So, does he?

Or is he out of luck?

16) He writes you romantic texts

Men arenโ€™t always master-texters.

But the guy whoโ€™s into you beyond the superficial becomes a real Romeo over text.

He may even send you poetry excerptsโ€ฆ

Or inspirational short videos.

Heโ€™s on fire for you, and this is his way of showing it.

17) Heโ€™s all over your social media

One of the other big signs he finds you irresistible is that heโ€™s all over your social media.

Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you name itโ€ฆ

He may even get desperate enough to start scouring your LinkedIn!

Anything is possible when a man is infatuated at this levelโ€ฆ

18) He notices your new outfits

When you put on a new outfit, not everyone notices.

But a guy who finds you irresistible definitely does.

This goes double for new lingerie. Heโ€™ll be positively drooling when you throw on a new lacy thong.

19) He wants to be friends with your friends

Another one of the top signs heโ€™s really into you is that he wants you to be friends with his friends, and vice versa.

He introduces you around and takes you to meet his pals, his family and those close to him at work.

He also wants to get close to those who you care about most.

And thatโ€™s a beautiful thing.

20) Heโ€™s respectful even when he disagrees with you

Nobody really loves it when someone disagrees with them.

Why not just be honest and get that out of the way?

Butโ€ฆ

A man who finds you irresistible will tend to have almost limitless patience.

Even when he disagrees strongly with you, heโ€™ll be very respectful and hear you out.

21) He gets interested in what youโ€™re into

If youโ€™re into crochet and collecting 1940s movie posters, you wonโ€™t believe your eyes about how fast he latches on.

A man who finds you irresistible canโ€™t resist the opportunity to jump on the bandwagon and share your interests.

Maybe he found that one Clark Gable poster you could never get and he wants to bring it by and give it to youโ€ฆ

Speaking of whichโ€ฆ

22) He brings you thoughtful gifts

Thereโ€™s never a bad time for someone to give you a gift thatโ€™s thoughtful and useful.

And a man who finds you irresistible loves to buy gifts for you.

He will also clearly put thought into it and get you something that he knows youโ€™ll like.

It may often be something youโ€™ve talked about or expressed an interest in in the past.

23) He finds your mind fascinating

A man whoโ€™s truly into you doesnโ€™t only like your look.

He also finds your mind to be its own world of wondersโ€ฆ

He approaches you with genuine curiosity and plumbs your depths to find out what makes you tick.

If you look closely you can see heโ€™s not faking it.

Heโ€™s sincerely intrigued by the way you think.

24) He forgives you when you mess up

We could all use someone who forgives us when we make a mistake.

And a big sign that man finds you to be the ultimate temptation is that he keeps letting you mess up and get another chance.

Sometimes he even does this to the point of beingโ€ฆ

Wellโ€ฆ

A bit of a sucker!

Try to be a good person and not take advantage of him.

25) Heโ€™s understanding about your life

A guy who finds you sizzling hot does his best to understand you.

The oddities and unique parts of your life donโ€™t faze him.

He rolls with the punches and understands that youโ€™re a unique human being with her own priorities and obligations.

This includes if you have kids or elderly parents to look after.

Heโ€™s very understanding about it, because youโ€™re on another level for him.

26) He admires your career and interests

When a man admires your career and interests, heโ€™s really saying he admires you.

The fact that youโ€™re an architect or a nurse may wow him for real.

But if it was someone else doing it, heโ€™d likely be less impressed.

Itโ€™s you who really impresses and overwhelms him with attraction.

27) He sometimes gasps when he sees you

Overly obvious signs like this sometimes get left out when dating advice writers are penning an article.

Thatโ€™s a mistake.

Because sometimes itโ€™s the extremely obvious signs which women miss.

After all, what guy would literally gasp when he sees you?

Thatโ€™s just in comics, right? Well, no.

Extreme attraction can make a man literally gasp when he sees you. Even if he brushes it off as indigestion or says he just has a cough, youโ€™ll know it if you know what to look for.

A gasp is a gasp.

28) He doesnโ€™t notice other women

Another one of the most important signs he finds you irresistible is that he doesnโ€™t notice other women.

Sure, he physically sees a smoking hot brunette who just walked by your table at the restaurant.

And he registers that the bartender asking what heโ€™d like is a buxom and attractive lady.

But he doesnโ€™t care.

Heโ€™s completely focused on you and other women donโ€™t arouse his real desire and interest.

29) He takes you out on thoughtful dates

A guy who takes you for granted shows it with his every move.

He does the bare minimum and just scrapes by, leading to fights every few weeks.

A guy who thinks youโ€™re the best woman heโ€™s ever met in his life goes the extra mile.

He takes you out on thoughtful dates and never forgets important dates like your birthday.

30) He opens up and shows you his real self

One of the top signs he finds you irresistible is that he shows you his real self.

Even if itโ€™s hard to do, he opens up to you about his challenges and what heโ€™s working on in his life.

Whether itโ€™s popular or not, he bares his soul.

And in taking that risk he gains your respect, and maybe your heart.

31) He mirrors you

Mirroring is a physical and emotional phenomenon that happens when a man is very interested in a woman.

When a man is very attracted to you, he will often begin to unconsciously copy what you do.

Your gestures, words, way of sitting, even the way youโ€™re talking and acting.

He may not realize it, but this is his body and mindโ€™s way of telling you that heโ€™s very into you.

Is resistance futile?

If a guy finds you irresistible, it could be the start of something beautiful.

Or it could just be a flash in the pan and a night of passion.

In our wild world of modern dating, itโ€™s easy for lust to look like love.

And sometimes real love sneaks up on you when you least expect it.

But amidst all the joy and disappointment, thereโ€™s a key part of relationships that many people are missingโ€ฆ

The truth is, most of us overlook an incredibly important element in our lives:

The relationship we have with ourselves.

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He covers some of the major mistakes most of us make in our relationships, such as codependency habits and unhealthy expectations. Mistakes most of us make without even realizing it.

So why am I recommending Rudรกโ€™s life-changing advice?

Well, he uses techniques derived from ancient shamanic teachings, but he puts his own modern-day twist on them. He may be a shaman, but his experiences in love werenโ€™t much different to yours and mine.

Until he found a way to overcome these common issues. And thatโ€™s what he wants to share with you.

So if youโ€™re ready to make that change today and cultivate healthy, loving relationships, relationships you know you deserve, check out his simple, genuine advice.

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