โThere is something so beautiful inside you that if you knew it, you would fall in love with it. It is irresistible. You can truly experience that.โ
– Prem Rawat
To one man you may just be one of the 3.9 billion women in the world.
To another man, however, you may be the world.
The difference is all in the eyes of the beholder.
Hereโs how to tell where you are on his radarโฆ
31 signs he finds you irresistible
1) His body language is all about you
One of the biggest signs he finds you irresistible is that his body language is oriented toward you.
He leans toward you, licks his lips, plays with his hair and points his feet towards you when youโre together.
If you learn how to read body language, this guyโs behavior will speak volumes.
Hereโs a handy guide that goes through some of the basics of learning to read body language from TopThink.
2) He tries to touch you whenever possible
He also tries to touch you when heโs close to you.
Sometimes this is subtle, like putting a hand on your arm or gently letting his touch linger when your hands meet.
When touching you isnโt an option, heโll try to be physically close to you.
If thereโs a choice to sit next to you or elsewhere, you can bet you know where heโs going to choose.
Being irresistible means exactly that: he canโt resist you.
Even when he knows it looks extra-thirsty to always glom onto you, he just canโt stop himself!
3) He initiates conversations as much as possible
Another of the top signs he finds you irresistible is that he initiates conversations whenever possible.
If he canโt think of a topic, he just starts chatting about the weather, or compliments your new earrings.
If your conversation reaches a lull, youโll also notice him make a conscious effort to keep it going and extend your chat.
Heโs clearly set his mind on talking to you about anything possible.
Hopefully you like all the attention!
4) He makes intense eye contact with you
When we see something we like, we look at it. Itโs in our nature!
A man who canโt get enough of you is going to make intense eye contact and lavish his gaze on you.
Heโll look at you like heโs working on a hot day and eyeing up a dripping ice cream cone of his favorite flavorโฆ
Or an ice-cold beer with condensation beading down the sides.
He finds you irresistible, thatโs for sure.
A shy guy will usually make eye contact and then briefly look down like heโs embarrassed when you catch him.
5) Heโs a nervous wreck
All but the smoothest players get shaken up by a beautiful woman they are attracted to.
When a man finds you irresistible, his body and mind start to go haywire in ways that are beyond his control.
Itโs like a system override switch.
If he finds you irresistible, heโs going to show it with shaky hands, clumsy behavior, fidgeting and tripping over his own words.
Heโll seem like heโs having an anxiety attack, but really heโs just having an attack of being extremely attracted to you.
6) He notices small details about you
Many relationships start to crack up when the guy starts forgetting key dates of his girlfriend or wife.
He also stops noticing little details about her and even some obvious things like her hairstyle.
A guy who finds you irresistible is the opposite.
Heโll pick up on even subtle changes and notice a change in style, that new nail polish thatโs really unique, or even a special perfume scent youโre wearing.
Think of him like a radio thatโs tuned into you all day long.
7) He doesnโt like other guys around you
Another sign that a guy canโt get his mind off you is that he doesnโt like when youโre around other guys.
This can cross the line into toxicity and possessive behavior, but in milder forms itโs usually manageable.
A guy who finds you irresistible will tend to react very badly when you are talking or flirting with other men.
Heโll eye them up like heโs an animal stalking its prey or assessing the competition.
He wants you all to himself.
8) Heโs always getting in touch with you
A guy who canโt get enough of you will try to keep the lines of communication open.
Heโll constantly be texting, calling, or trying to chat with you in some form.
Even if thatโs just a quick โhey, good morning!โ every day before work, you can bet that heโll be thereโฆ
He wants to be in touch with you and know whatโs going on in your life.
And he never gets bored with you, either.
9) He loves to make you laugh
One of the cliches about the โnice guyโ who gets friendzoned is that heโs a bit of a class clown.
He makes a girl laugh and she cares about him, but the romantic feelings just arenโt there.
Laughing all the time might be a bit much, but the truth is that laughter can be deeply tied to romance.
And thereโs a certain way of joking that is also seductive and increases the romantic tension.
If heโs doing that around you quite often, then heโs likely very into you.
10) Heโs there for you when the chips are down
A guy who just finds you a bit attractive or likes your personality isnโt going to be there when the crap hits the fan.
But a man who truly finds you irresistible is different.
One of the strongest signs he finds you irresistible is that heโs there for you when the chips are down.
This is the case even when thereโs no clear benefit to him.
Why would he care?
Because heโs extremely into you.
11) He dresses to the nines around you
A guy who finds you stunning will try to look at the top of his game himself.
Heโll dress well, wear accessories, keep his hygiene top-notch and style his hair.
Heโll wear snazzy shoes and a nice belt.
Heโll have on sunglasses that look just that extra bit classy.
If heโs looking like a million bucks whenever heโs around you, but only like about $500 around everyone else, then you can be sure that somethingโs up.
12) Heโs proud of you
A man who finds you irresistible is proud of you.
He loves to be out in public with you, introduce you to his friends and be known to be associated with you.
Heโs not ashamed of anything about you and boosts you up around others even when youโre not around.
If he can help you out in any way, heโs willing and ready.
Heโs your number one fan.
13) His face shows the signs
When a man is intensely attracted to a woman, something interesting happens:
His jaw drops open, his palms start sweating and he gets flushed and short of breath.
His eyes get a hungry kind of look and he even starts drooling in some cases.
Either he hasnโt eaten in awhile or he wants you for dessert.
14) His voice gets super husky
When a man gets very turned on emotionally or physically, he gets husky.
Like the mating call of an animal in the wild, a man who finds you irresistible will subconsciously lower his voice.
This is an ancient caveman instinct which is intended to convey strength and manliness.
15) He asks about your future plans
A guy who finds you irresistible wants to keep you in his life as much as possible.
Heโll be very curious about your future plans and if he fits into them.
So, does he?
Or is he out of luck?
16) He writes you romantic texts
Men arenโt always master-texters.
But the guy whoโs into you beyond the superficial becomes a real Romeo over text.
He may even send you poetry excerptsโฆ
Or inspirational short videos.
Heโs on fire for you, and this is his way of showing it.
17) Heโs all over your social media
One of the other big signs he finds you irresistible is that heโs all over your social media.
Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you name itโฆ
He may even get desperate enough to start scouring your LinkedIn!
Anything is possible when a man is infatuated at this levelโฆ
18) He notices your new outfits
When you put on a new outfit, not everyone notices.
But a guy who finds you irresistible definitely does.
This goes double for new lingerie. Heโll be positively drooling when you throw on a new lacy thong.
19) He wants to be friends with your friends
Another one of the top signs heโs really into you is that he wants you to be friends with his friends, and vice versa.
He introduces you around and takes you to meet his pals, his family and those close to him at work.
He also wants to get close to those who you care about most.
And thatโs a beautiful thing.
20) Heโs respectful even when he disagrees with you
Nobody really loves it when someone disagrees with them.
Why not just be honest and get that out of the way?
Butโฆ
A man who finds you irresistible will tend to have almost limitless patience.
Even when he disagrees strongly with you, heโll be very respectful and hear you out.
21) He gets interested in what youโre into
If youโre into crochet and collecting 1940s movie posters, you wonโt believe your eyes about how fast he latches on.
A man who finds you irresistible canโt resist the opportunity to jump on the bandwagon and share your interests.
Maybe he found that one Clark Gable poster you could never get and he wants to bring it by and give it to youโฆ
Speaking of whichโฆ
22) He brings you thoughtful gifts
Thereโs never a bad time for someone to give you a gift thatโs thoughtful and useful.
And a man who finds you irresistible loves to buy gifts for you.
He will also clearly put thought into it and get you something that he knows youโll like.
It may often be something youโve talked about or expressed an interest in in the past.
23) He finds your mind fascinating
A man whoโs truly into you doesnโt only like your look.
He also finds your mind to be its own world of wondersโฆ
He approaches you with genuine curiosity and plumbs your depths to find out what makes you tick.
If you look closely you can see heโs not faking it.
Heโs sincerely intrigued by the way you think.
24) He forgives you when you mess up
We could all use someone who forgives us when we make a mistake.
And a big sign that man finds you to be the ultimate temptation is that he keeps letting you mess up and get another chance.
Sometimes he even does this to the point of beingโฆ
Wellโฆ
A bit of a sucker!
Try to be a good person and not take advantage of him.
25) Heโs understanding about your life
A guy who finds you sizzling hot does his best to understand you.
The oddities and unique parts of your life donโt faze him.
He rolls with the punches and understands that youโre a unique human being with her own priorities and obligations.
This includes if you have kids or elderly parents to look after.
Heโs very understanding about it, because youโre on another level for him.
26) He admires your career and interests
When a man admires your career and interests, heโs really saying he admires you.
The fact that youโre an architect or a nurse may wow him for real.
But if it was someone else doing it, heโd likely be less impressed.
Itโs you who really impresses and overwhelms him with attraction.
27) He sometimes gasps when he sees you
Overly obvious signs like this sometimes get left out when dating advice writers are penning an article.
Thatโs a mistake.
Because sometimes itโs the extremely obvious signs which women miss.
After all, what guy would literally gasp when he sees you?
Thatโs just in comics, right? Well, no.
Extreme attraction can make a man literally gasp when he sees you. Even if he brushes it off as indigestion or says he just has a cough, youโll know it if you know what to look for.
A gasp is a gasp.
28) He doesnโt notice other women
Another one of the most important signs he finds you irresistible is that he doesnโt notice other women.
Sure, he physically sees a smoking hot brunette who just walked by your table at the restaurant.
And he registers that the bartender asking what heโd like is a buxom and attractive lady.
But he doesnโt care.
Heโs completely focused on you and other women donโt arouse his real desire and interest.
29) He takes you out on thoughtful dates
A guy who takes you for granted shows it with his every move.
He does the bare minimum and just scrapes by, leading to fights every few weeks.
A guy who thinks youโre the best woman heโs ever met in his life goes the extra mile.
He takes you out on thoughtful dates and never forgets important dates like your birthday.
30) He opens up and shows you his real self
One of the top signs he finds you irresistible is that he shows you his real self.
Even if itโs hard to do, he opens up to you about his challenges and what heโs working on in his life.
Whether itโs popular or not, he bares his soul.
And in taking that risk he gains your respect, and maybe your heart.
31) He mirrors you
Mirroring is a physical and emotional phenomenon that happens when a man is very interested in a woman.
When a man is very attracted to you, he will often begin to unconsciously copy what you do.
Your gestures, words, way of sitting, even the way youโre talking and acting.
He may not realize it, but this is his body and mindโs way of telling you that heโs very into you.
Is resistance futile?
If a guy finds you irresistible, it could be the start of something beautiful.
Or it could just be a flash in the pan and a night of passion.
In our wild world of modern dating, itโs easy for lust to look like love.
And sometimes real love sneaks up on you when you least expect it.
But amidst all the joy and disappointment, thereโs a key part of relationships that many people are missingโฆ
The truth is, most of us overlook an incredibly important element in our lives:
The relationship we have with ourselves.
I learnt about this from the shaman Rudรก Iandรช. In his genuine, free video on cultivating healthy relationships, he gives you the tools to plant yourself at the center of your world.
He covers some of the major mistakes most of us make in our relationships, such as codependency habits and unhealthy expectations. Mistakes most of us make without even realizing it.
So why am I recommending Rudรกโs life-changing advice?
Well, he uses techniques derived from ancient shamanic teachings, but he puts his own modern-day twist on them. He may be a shaman, but his experiences in love werenโt much different to yours and mine.
Until he found a way to overcome these common issues. And thatโs what he wants to share with you.
So if youโre ready to make that change today and cultivate healthy, loving relationships, relationships you know you deserve, check out his simple, genuine advice.