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He’s moving in slowly and leaning in, but suddenly backs away. You feel some tension, but you’re not sure if he’s going to kiss you.
You enjoy hanging out with him, and you can tell he enjoys your company. You like him, your conversation is going great – and you hope he feels the same way.
But sometimes, dating can be confusing – and enough to drive you crazy – like that awkward first kiss.
Lucky for you, there are signs to know that a guy wants to kiss you, so check them out!
Is he thinking about kissing you? 20 unmistakable signs he does
There’s no better way to end your date than with a sweet kiss. That perfect moment where you’re both filled with waves of emotions, and everything seems to fade away.
And this will happen when you notice signs he wants to kiss you. While some of these signs are pretty obvious, sometimes guys keep their feelings low-key.
Here is how to tell if a guy wants to kiss you right this second and is picking up the courage to do it.
1) You feel it
Most of the time, your feelings are right.
It’s like there’s a warmth in your heart, and you can almost taste the sweetness of his lips.
The desire and intimacy seem to be empowering. You can feel the sexual tension that surrounds both of you.
Try not to ignore these feelings as it’s telling you that you’re onto something.
But maybe, he’s too nervous and scared to make the first move. So if you can break that barrier and be comfortable, then that perfect kiss is about to happen.
2) His eye contact lingers
He doesn’t just look at your eyes and stare but gazes into you.
When he keeps locking eyes with you, then you can be positive that he likes you more than just a friend. You can exactly tell from his eyes that he feels something for you.
For if a guy isn’t interested, he won’t focus on you. Instead, he will focus on his phone, look around, and won’t hold your gaze.
So if he stares at you with that burning desire, you got him!
He’s telling you undoubtedly what he wants from the way he looks at you – so better prepare for that first kiss.
3) He licks or bites his lips
The sexiest and sweetest kisses are those from supple and moisturized lips.
Does this guy keep bringing attention to his lips? He could be licking them, biting his lower tips, or touching them with his hands.
He’s doing this subconsciously, but he’s already preparing himself for the big kiss.
Take this as a sign that he’s planning on using his lips on you. So probably, apply chapstick or lick your lips too.
So pay attention when he does this.
You see, for guys, it’s all about bringing out their inner hero.
I learned about the hero instinct concept from relationship expert James Bauer, and it’s about what drives men in relationships.
This is something most women don’t have any idea about.
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4) He’s moving close to you
He’s already right up in your space. That space plays a big part when it comes to kissing.
Whether he planned it or not, the gap between you is so close. And you know you’re not going to get your personal space back anytime soon.
He’s leaning and hovering a bit but not doing it aggressively. Probably, he’s not quite sure whether to go for it or not, but for sure, to be close to you for the chance of a kiss.
Maybe you’re walking at the park or just standing, and his head starts moving closer to you – it’s definite that he’s going in for a kiss.
The thing is, it’s impossible to kiss from a distance. The magic won’t happen if you’re too far from each other.
But if he leans closer, puts his hand on your waist, or touches your hair, then be prepared for the kiss.
5) He gives gentle touches
Are those little touches intentional or accidental?
While some braver guys will openly hold your hand or put their arms around you, on the first date, they won’t immediately grab the side of your face to kiss you.
Instead, they would test the waters to know how you will react to their touches.
He would gently touch your arm or back, strokes your hair, or brush a speck of imaginary dirt on your shoulders.
His hands might also land on your knee while you’re sitting side by side or moves your hair away from your face.
He’s still testing the boundaries but finding ways to get closer to you.
So if he gives you those subtle touches, whether they are accidental or not, be ready because that’s the first move when going in for a kiss.
6) He always lingers
This is probably one of the cutest and sweetest signs to notice when a guy likes you – and wants to kiss you.
Before you leave, he’ll give you a gentle hug and hesitates to pull away. Or he lingers at the doorway as if he’s waiting to do something.
When you’re at this point, telling him that you had a great time will be enough for him to finally go for it.
And when you touch his arm or lean into him, for sure he won’t turn you down when you kiss him.
7) He’s showering you with compliments
Not all guys give compliments on their first dates.
If he keeps complimenting you and you can feel that he means it, it shows that he enjoys being with you.
He notices the color of your eyes, your adorable freckles, or your lovely eyes.
Maybe he’s also a bit sexual that he mentions how your lipstick makes you look sexier or how good your fragrance is.
Those are signs that he wants you to know that he’s into you. And he’s also taking the risk to show you that he wants to kiss you.
8) He keeps staring at your lips
He focuses his attention on you and is drawn to your lips. He keeps glancing at your lips and can’t seem to take his eyes on them.
As you speak (and even if you don’t), you’ll notice that his focus shifts from your eyes to your lips and back while you’re talking.
He might be doing it intentionally, hoping that you’ll get the hint that he wants to plant a kiss on you. It could be that he’s not aware of it too.
There’s a huge chance that he’s waiting for that perfect moment to kiss you.
And if he’s thinking of kissing you, you will feel it with every fiber of your being.
9) He’s fidgeting nervously
Some guys act completely smooth while others get too nervous leading up to the kiss. This is understandable.
The thought of kissing someone you like for the first time can be nerve-wracking, exciting, and satisfying all at the same time.
If you can sense that he gets nervous or starts to fidget, there are probably going to be over a million scenarios in his head.
But try not to act like you’re feeling uncomfortable as he’ll get more nervous around you. There may even be awkward pauses during your conversations.
So if he suddenly becomes fidgety, it’s definite that he wants to kiss you but is scared of making the first move.
This relates to the fascinating concept I mentioned earlier: the hero instinct.
When a man feels needed, wanted, and respected, he’s more likely to be confident about what he feels and initiate that kiss.
And it’s as simple as knowing the right words to say to trigger his hero instinct – and make him into the man he’s always wanted to be.
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10) He’s squeezing some mouth maintenance
He sprays breath freshener or gargles with mouthwash after eating. He may even apply chapstick on his lips.
Probably he’s touching or licking his lips while looking you straight in your eyes. Also, take note when he’s doing some flirty eye contact with you.
Don’t find it weird when he does this. And don’t get offended when he offers you chewing gum.
He’s preparing for that sweetest kiss moment to happen.
This is a telltale sign that shows he’s thinking of pressing his lips against yours.
11) His tone changes
Pay attention to the tone of his voice. If it softens, know that he likes you and wants to kiss you.
You may also notice that his tone changes when he’s flirting with you. He may tell you that he finds you pretty hot instead of telling you how you make him laugh.
According to psychologists, when a guy speaks calmly and his voice softens, he’s attracted to you.
For some reason, whispering also goes along with passion and proximity.
When he uses a soft voice and whispers, he’ll start leaning and get closer to your face. This gives him that perfect opportunity to kiss you.
12) He gets silent in an instant
You notice that he gets quiet suddenly – and there’s a reason why.
It’s not because he got bored or ran out of things to say. He has a lot to say but there’s a possibility that his mind gets busy.
Falling silent is another sign of being a bit nervous before an impending.
Probably he’s thinking about making his move. He’s also calming himself or trying to know if this is the perfect moment for the first kiss.
He got lost in his thoughts because he’s building up the courage to show how he feels about you.
And that awkward silence only means that he’s focusing on kissing you.
13) He admires your fragrance
Does he often lean towards you and notice how amazing you smell?
Maybe he keeps telling you that you smell great.
This isn’t because he’s interested in the perfume you’re wearing, but it’s because he’s thinking of something else. He’s not even complimenting Chanel, Gucci, or Lanvin perfumes for that matter.
Admiring your fragrance gives me a reason to get closer to you and create intimate flattery.
Probably, he’s trying to find out how you would react. If he senses that you’re comfortable with it, there’s a chance that he’ll end your date with a kiss.
14) He plays romantic music
Music, wine, and a candle-lit dinner create a romantic scene. Think about those kissing scenes in movies with romantic music in the background.
If you’re hanging out at his place or driving around, and he puts on romantically slow music, he could be setting the scene for something else.
Whether he’s cooking dinner for you, you’re playing board games, or just relaxing while looking at the stars, love songs can make the moment more special.
When you’re out on a date, music keeps you relaxed so that you get to enjoy being together. Some songs can even turn up the heat on romance.
It could be tunes like All Of Me, Truly Madly Deeply, Lets Get It On by Marvin Gaye, Just The Way You Are by Bruno Mars, or anything else.
Soothing tunes help you both relax and feel comfortable for that kiss.
He’s certainly thinking of kissing you anytime.
15) He’s flirting with you
People tend to flirt when they desire to create sexual tension.
If he’s acting flirty around you, this is one surefire sign that he wants to kiss you.
Pay attention to his body language as this will reveal everything you need to know. You can also notice this from his facial expressions and the way he says his words
He could be touching you gently, joking with you, laughing at your jokes, or gazing at you lovingly.
And the more he flirts with you, the higher chances that he’s thinking of kissing you.
It’s okay if you want to flirt with him too. This way, you can build chemistry, and it will make your first kiss even better.
16) He makes your conversations more intimate
When a guy is interested in you and wants to kiss you, he won’t just talk about himself or the weather.
Instead, he will ask more about you – your wants, your dreams, your desires, etc. This paves the way for creating an intimate discussion which leads to increased intense feelings and emotions.
Probably, he would also compliment your looks, personality, and skills genuinely. And he’s making your date more fun and interesting.
Most of the time, memorable first-date conversations can even spark connection and romance.
Having those connective experiences together makes you more comfortable sharing that first kiss.
You can feel the conversations flowing positively and you can feel the sparks flying between you. And you’re enjoying each other’s company.
17) He makes it clear he likes you
Even if you didn’t kiss on your first date, you’ve been going out together.
We don’t go out again with those we don’t like, right?
So one reason you’re dating is that you like each other and enjoy each other’s company.
It’s clear that he has strong feelings for you – and is telling you so you can move things forward.
And if he tells you straight up that he likes you, there’s a very high possibility he wants to kiss you. For sure, you can tell right from how he acts during your dates.
18) He sets the mood
This wants to make you feel more special.
He’s confident and knows his way around the romance department. And for him to win that kiss, he has to prove how much he wants you to feel like the best woman on earth.
He may even create the ambiance that’s worthy of a movie smooch.
Aside from cueing in some romantic mood music, he might also include:
- Giving you a bouquet and chocolates
- Lighting candles around
- Preparing a sweet and romantic setting
- Whispering something sweet into your ears
So when he sets the mood for romance, be prepared as he’ll surely come in for a kiss.
19) He’s kissing you elsewhere
He notices that you’re already comfortable with him touching you gently.
He’ll be on the lookout for how comfortable you are with him when he kisses your hand or cheeks.
And if he gives you those small and sweet kisses elsewhere, it’s an obvious sign he wants to kiss you on the lips.
He likes you and may even be falling in love with you.
Those kisses mean he’s trying to work up the nerve to get close to your lips and get more emotionally intimate with you.
20) He says he wants to kiss you
Some guys would just go for the kiss when the moment feels right, but some guys would even tell you, “Can I kiss you?” or “I dream of kissing you.”
Or he even asks you what you think about first kisses or if kissing on the first date is okay with you.
No matter what it could be, if he talks about this, it’s definite that he wants to kiss you.
Not every guy out there has the courage to do that.
He’s doing it because he wants to find out if you’re also interested in kissing him.
So if you’ve also been thinking of kissing him, then there’s no more need to analyze what’s going on.
For when you’re both on the same wavelength, you can feel it. And that’s when you can give each other that first kiss.
Or you can curiously ask him why he wants to kiss you.
When he replies, you can lean in, be coy and reply with something like, “I only kiss the guy I like.”
So if you also feel something for him, then initiate the kiss!
When he wants to kiss you
That first kiss is one of the most exciting experiences you can have with the person you’re dating.
While you’re not obliged to kiss on your first date, if your guy shows any of these signs, then it’s definite that he’ll ask you out for another date.
Let your kiss happen in that perfect moment. The more anticipation there is leading up to the kiss, the sweeter it can be.
If you like him and you’re certain that he wants to kiss you, smile back and use your body language to convey that you’re open to it.
But even if he makes the move for that first kiss, you’re not obliged to reciprocate if you’re not into it. You have the choice to decide if you want to kiss him back or not.
If you want to kiss him back, maybe you should just go for it and see what happens next.
A guy who is thinking of kissing you admires you and wants to love you sincerely.
And when he makes that moment seems to last forever, you know for sure that the kiss meant a lot to him.
What to do next?
When he kisses you like he truly means it and more than his words, you will undoubtedly feel it.
And you’ll know he’s kissing you for all the right reasons.
By now you should have a better idea if he’s thinking about kissing you.
The key here now is getting through to your man in a way that empowers both of you.
I touched on the hero instinct earlier – as it’s the best remedy for the situation you’re facing.
This free video reveals exactly how to trigger your man’s hero instinct, and you could make this change as early as today.
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