What makes a man of high value? Is it his wealth, physical strength, or perhaps his looks? While these traits may first come to mind, they’re far from the complete picture.
So let’s see what traits are non-negotiable for these highly-desired men.
A man is but a husk if he doesn’t have good manners. It’s a timeless trait that can open doors to many hearts.
A high-value man is a gentleman who knows how to talk to women without using offensive language, raising his voice, or engaging in derogatory remarks.
He offers assistance, remembers important dates or events, and goes out of his way to make others feel appreciated.
Next on the list of non-negotiable traits are reliability and dependability. A high-value man is reliable and can be counted on. He follows through on his commitments, keeps his promises, and is consistent in his actions.
He won’t be late or leave abruptly. But above else, he’s someone who can be trusted with confidential information, sensitive matters, and important tasks.
Women value trust in relationships, and a reliable man is someone they can count on and feel secure with.
Have you ever met a person without any drive or ambition? I have, and I must tell you, it’s not a pretty sight.
For some time, I was that man. Lying on the couch after a low-paying work, doing nothing to improve myself or my position in society. I wasn’t a high-value man in any word, shape, or form.
A high-value man is motivated and has goals. He strives for personal and professional growth, constantly seeks self-improvement, and encourages those around him to achieve their own aspirations.
But he also needs to have this next trait.
4) Sense of humor
Taking life too seriously, not cracking jokes or laughing, is no way to live. A high-value man will know that a healthy dose of playfulness makes life worth living and can make people around him feel good.
He can bring lightness and joy to situations and can make others feel at ease and comfortable.
It’s definitely one of the top traits anyone can have and a life skill.
Optimism goes hand-in-hand with having a positive outlook on life. A man of substance tends to maintain a positive outlook on life, even in the face of hardship.
Women are also drawn to the positive and cheerful vibes that come with optimism, as it creates a pleasant and enjoyable atmosphere.
This doesn’t mean he’s always unrealistically cheerful but capable of finding hope and opportunity under challenging circumstances.
This list makes me self-reflect on my characteristics, and I have to say that patience isn’t my forte. It has never been, unfortunately. I’ve been working on it for many years, and hopefully, I’ll reap the benefits soon.
That said, a high-value man is patient and understanding. He recognizes that not everything in life will always go as planned or desired.
And most importantly, he has the same consideration for other people.
7) Respect for others
Another trait that’s on-negotiable is respect for others. There’s nothing worse than a man behaving disrespectfully to someone.
Regardless of gender, race, religion, or socioeconomic status, a high-value man treats everyone with dignity and respect.
The same goes for compassion. He’s kind-hearted, compassionate, and empathetic towards others. He actively seeks to help and support those in need and shows genuine care and concern.
9) Emotional intelligence
Another thing high-value men should have is emotional intelligence, or the ability to understand and manage their emotions. This allows them to form deep, meaningful relationships and effectively navigate social situations.
EI is also instrumental in building and maintaining healthy relationships. A high-value man establishes strong connections by promoting trust, respect, and emotional intimacy.
He validates and supports others’ emotions, strengthening the bond between people.
A high-value man also needs to have passions and hobbies that he actively pursues throughout his life. He engages in activities that bring him joy, fulfillment, and a sense of accomplishment and action.
Whether playing an instrument, practicing a sport, or pursuing creative endeavors, his passion fuels his commitment and growth, giving him depth and richness to his character.
Another trait or even a life skill that every high-value man should have is the ability to express his needs and feelings clearly and directly without resorting to aggression or passivity.
In other words, he has to be assertive.
He should believe in his worth and not let fear of criticism or rejection prevent him from expressing himself.
Accountability should probably be higher up on the list because it’s such an important trait. A man that’s accountable will take responsibility for his actions and decisions, admitting when he’s wrong and taking steps to make amends.
It won’t be hard for him to apologize and make things right. If only more people were like that.
13) Adventurous spirit
There’s nothing better than a good adventure, isn’t there? Whether going across the planet or exploring a nearby national park, an adventurous spirit is a highly sought-after personality trait.
A man that’s open to new experiences, ideas, and challenges is everything but boring. He’s not afraid to step out of his comfort zone and encourages those around him to do the same.
A high-value man is also one that remains true to himself and doesn’t conform to societal expectations or pressures.
He embraces his unique qualities and encourages others to do the same, promoting an environment where everyone can be their authentic selves and where no one has to put up an act.
Above all, he’s comfortable with vulnerability and expresses his emotions authentically. He encourages open and honest communication about feelings and emotions.
15) Intellectual curiosity
Curious people that have an open mind are very attractive. They listen to your stories attentively and always have a hunger for more knowledge.
Intellectual curiosity often leads to engaging and stimulating conversations. Women who value intellectual discussions and enjoy exchanging ideas find a man with the intellectual curiosity to be stimulating and engaging.
And ultimately, a high-value man knows the importance of balancing various aspects of life – work, leisure, relationships, and personal growth.
He knows that extreme focus on one aspect often leads to neglect of others, which can mess everything up.
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