Tina Fey
There’s a significant difference between men who are truly loyal and those who just put on a show.
The difference lies in subtle behaviors.
Men who are genuinely faithful aren’t just about grand gestures; they show their loyalty in small, consistent ways.
As Tina Fey, the founder of the Love Connection blog and a relationship expert, I’ve noticed that loyal men usually display eight subtle behaviors that never fail to reveal their true character.
In this article, I’ll be sharing these eight behaviors with you. Now, remember – this isn’t about catching your man out or making accusations. It’s about understanding what genuine loyalty looks like and appreciating it when you see it.
So, if you’re ready, let’s dive into these eight behaviors of men who are always loyal and never cheat.
1) Constant communication
In the realm of relationships, communication is key.
Just like a salesperson understands the importance of staying in touch with their clients, men who never cheat are often very communicative.
Communication isn’t just about talking, though. It’s about truly connecting and understanding each other.
These men don’t just talk at you; they talk with you. They listen to what you say, respond thoughtfully, and genuinely care about your thoughts and feelings.
This constant communication isn’t a chore for them, but a way to show their affection and loyalty. It’s their way of saying, “I’m here for you, and I value our relationship.”
What matters more is the depth and authenticity of your conversations.
2) Genuine respect
In my years as a relationship expert, I’ve found that respect is the backbone of any successful relationship.
Men who are destined to be loyal don’t just love their partners; they genuinely respect them.
They value your opinions, listen to your ideas, and never belittle you. They treat you as an equal, not just in public but in private too. This kind of respect forms a strong foundation of trust and mutual understanding.
So keep an eye out for a man who respects you for who you are. Chances are, he’s the loyal type.
3) Independence and personal space
As a relationship expert, and having written extensively about it in my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I’ve come to understand the importance of independence in a relationship.
Men who are truly loyal understand that love isn’t about owning someone, but about wanting the best for them.
They respect your personal space and encourage your independence. They don’t feel threatened by your success or your social life; on the contrary, they celebrate it.
Such men understand that a healthy relationship requires two complete individuals. Their love isn’t possessive but supportive.
They give you the freedom to be yourself and pursue your interests without feeling neglected or insecure.
A relationship without personal space can lead to codependency, which isn’t healthy for either party.
If you’re interested in learning more about overcoming codependency, do check out my book. It’s packed with actionable tips and insights that can help you build a healthier, happier relationship.
4) They don’t shy away from disagreements
Men who are loyal and never cheat don’t run away from disagreements or conflicts.
You see, disagreements are a natural part of any relationship. But how one handles these disagreements says a lot about their character and their loyalty.
Loyal men understand that conflict is an opportunity for growth.
They don’t sweep issues under the rug or avoid difficult conversations. Instead, they face them head-on, valuing the health of the relationship above their comfort.
They know that dodging disputes might bring temporary peace, but it breeds long-term problems. So they communicate openly, honestly, and constructively even when things get tough.
5) They remember the little things
From my personal experience and years of counselling couples, I’ve realized that men who are loyal and never cheat often have an uncanny knack for remembering the little things.
You see, it’s easy to remember birthdays, anniversaries, and major life events. But remembering the small details? That requires a special kind of attentiveness.
These men remember your favorite book, the name of your childhood pet, that coffee shop you mentioned you liked. They make note of your preferences, your dislikes, and even your quirks.
Why do they do this? Because they genuinely care about you. They value you as a person, not just as a partner. These small details matter to them because you matter to them.
6) They own up to their mistakes
Let’s be raw and honest here; no one is perfect. We all make mistakes, say the wrong things, and sometimes let our emotions get the best of us.
But what separates men who are loyal from those who aren’t is their ability to own up to their mistakes.
They don’t resort to lying or shifting blame but take responsibility for their actions.
These men understand that honesty, even when it’s uncomfortable, is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship
. They value your trust more than their ego. So, they apologize sincerely when they’re wrong and strive to make amends.
A man who can say, “I messed up, and I’m sorry,” is a man who respects you and values your relationship.
This level of honesty and integrity is a clear sign of loyalty.
7) They prioritise your happiness
Over the years, one thing I’ve noticed about loyal men is that they often place their partner’s happiness at the top of their priority list.
These men understand that love isn’t just about feeling happy together, but about wanting to see your partner happy, even if it means making some sacrifices.
They believe in creating a shared happiness that surrounds and embraces both partners.
They take joy in your joy and do their best to contribute to it. They’re there for you, not just in times of trouble, but also in times of joy and celebration.
8) They value you beyond physical attraction
Physical attraction is important in a relationship, but it isn’t everything.
Loyal men understand this. They’re attracted to you, yes, but they value you beyond the physical. They’re interested in your mind, your dreams, your passions, and your quirks.
They’re not just in it for the honeymoon phase; they’re in it for the long haul. They want to grow with you, learn with you and build a meaningful connection that goes beyond the surface level.
In truth, a man who values you for who you are rather than just how you look is likely to stay loyal.
Because he’s not just in love with your looks, which might fade over time, but he’s in love with you as a person. And that kind of love doesn’t cheat or stray. It stays, it cares, and it lasts.
Wrapping up
In the end, loyalty isn’t about grand gestures or lavish gifts. It’s about these subtle behaviors that speak volumes about a man’s character.
Of course, no one is perfect. But if he displays most of these behaviors and respects you for who you are, chances are, he’s a keeper.
For more insights on maintaining a healthy relationship and overcoming codependency, do give my book Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship a read.
And always remember, the most important thing in any relationship is mutual love, respect, and understanding.
Keep these values at the heart of your relationship, and you’ll be on the right path.
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