Natasha Combrink
You know when someone tells you that they like you? Especially when you like them, too? It’s great, isn’t it?
Well, sometimes they don’t.
And you’re left wondering exactly what’s going on.
This is where body language comes in. And believe me, it can say way more than words possibly could.
Truth is, being honest and upfront isn’t always easy.
The person you think likes you might be afraid that telling you they do will lead to rejection.
But even when they try to, their body can’t hide how they’re feeling.
If someone is falling in love with you, you’ll notice that they usually make…
1) Intense eye contact
One of the most obvious signs that someone likes you is a lot of eye contact.
Ever felt someone’s gaze linger a little longer than usual? You know, like they’re trying to connect with you on a deeper level?
This isn’t just about looking at you. It’s about them seeing into you.
If someone is falling for you, they’ll want to understand you better and feel closer to you.
And there’s no better way to do this than intimate eye contact.
It’s honestly one of the most direct forms of human connection!
Fact is, distractions are everywhere.
So when someone chooses to keep eye contact, it’s like they’re saying, “Right here, right now. It’s all about us.”
The same is true when you’re in a group, and they’re…
2) Facing you
When someone starts falling in love with you, they’ll naturally want to be closer to you, even when you’re with other people.
And instead of making it seem too obvious by sitting next to you or only talking to you, they’ll probably position themselves to face you.
It’s like among all the chatter and the crowd, their body subconsciously chooses you as their focal point.
This is a huge sign that their attention and interest gravitate towards you.
Out of everyone in the room, you’re the one they’re most interested in connecting with.
3) Relaxed breathing
When we fall in love, our bodies reflect our emotional state – even down to how we breathe.
Now, you might think rapid breathing shows someone likes you because they feel a little nervous or excited to be around you.
While this is true in the early stages of attraction, when someone feels comfortable with you, their breathing will be calm.
This isn’t something they can easily fake or control, either. It’s a natural response.
And it usually signals that they’ve moved beyond the surface-level jitters and not only feel excited to be around you but also genuinely happy.
It’s as if their body is saying, “I’m exactly where I want to be,” allowing them to be fully open to the experience of falling in love.
4) Glowing
Glowing? It’s actually true!
You know that unmistakable radiance someone has when they’re truly happy? Well, this glow isn’t just a figure of speech.
When someone is falling in love, a biochemical reaction is triggered. This increases their serotonin and dopamine levels, making them appear more vibrant and alive.
You’ll see it in their smile, eyes, and overall attitude.
Happiness and other positive feelings someone gets when they feel in love can also lead to better self-care. Which can contribute to their glowing appearance.
5) Leaning in during a conversation
This is a super simple gesture, but it means a lot!
When someone leans in while you’re talking, it’s like saying, “Hey, I’m really into this chat and, maybe, into you too.”
This isn’t just about being physically closer. It’s also about showing they’re mentally and emotionally invested in your conversation.
6) Dilated pupils
Okay, so this is pretty hard to notice. But it’s a fascinating and probably unknown (to you) sign of attraction!
Dilated pupils are a physiological natural response to excitement, arousal, or interests.
And this includes romantic and sexual attraction.
Simply put:
When people see a person they’re attracted to, their central nervous system is stimulated, which can lead to pupil dilation.
This is because the emotional and psychological excitement caused by seeing someone you’re interested in triggers the release of certain neurotransmitters in the brain, affecting the muscles of the iris and causing the pupils to expand.
How sciencey, right?
And the best part?
Unlike other bodily gestures, people can’t control this one. Making it a genuine sign that they’re falling in love with you.
Another thing people typically don’t have control over when they like someone is a…
7) Different voice tone
You might’ve never noticed this before, but when you’re around someone you like, the way you sound changes.
Your voice could become a little softer, warmer, or even slightly higher pitched.
This isn’t just random. It’s rooted in our biology.
A softer tone signals tenderness and care. It can also make conversations feel more personal and meaningful.
So, if someone speaks to you this way, they might feel a strong emotional connection to you.
And it can be their way of expressing intimacy through sound and showing they like you.
A higher pitch, especially in women but sometimes also in men, can be an unconscious attempt to sound more youthful – a trait traditionally associated with attractiveness.
Although, thankfully, it seems like most women are steering away from this!
On the flip side, a deeper tone can also be a sign of attraction.
If someone speaks to you this way, they could be trying to sound more serious and reliable, making them seem like a better partner choice.
8) Protective gestures
Without being overbearing, someone falling in love with you will want to ensure you’re safe.
They might stand in a way that shields you from an upcoming crowd, guide you through a door with a hand on your back, or even walk on the side of the sidewalk closest to traffic.
This isn’t about possessiveness or control, though.
It’s just an instinctive way to protect someone from physical discomfort or harm.
And a subtle way of saying, “You’re important to me, and I want to keep you safe.”
9) Fleeting touches
Think about brief, often subtle touches:
A brush on the hand, a gentle hand on your back, or a light touch on your arm…
These speak volumes!
If someone’s falling for you, fleeting physical touch can be a way for them to express their interest and try to create more intimate moments of connection without using words.
Each touch is like a spark, trying to see if there’s a fire…
A test of the chemistry between two people.
These touches can be especially telling because they’re usually done somewhat unconsciously or impulsively.
The desire to be close to the person you like drives them.
10) A unique laugh or giggle
Having a different-sounding laugh is another unconscious thing that could happen to someone when they’re falling for you.
This is usually because their laugh or giggle will be more spontaneous.
And it won’t simply be a reaction to something they find (or are supposed to find) funny.
They’ll genuinely want to be happy around you and show you they enjoy your company.
If someone likes you, they’ll probably also let their guard down to show you a more playful, real side of their personality.
When someone laughs in a way that’s reserved just for those moments with you, it’s a subtle cue that their feelings are growing deeper.
It shows they’re not just physically present – they’re emotionally invested.
11) Constantly smiling
This might not be as uncommon, but if someone stares at you with a smile that looks glued into place, you’re doing something to them.
This smile isn’t just any smile—it’ll be persistent, radiant, and often uncontrollable.
They might start smiling when they see you across the room or smile while you talk.
Whenever they’re around you, you’ll just see them do it!
Smiling is a powerful non-verbal cue that someone is not only happy but finds genuine joy and comfort around you.
This type of smile goes beyond being nice.
It’s something they can’t easily fake, and you’ll know this when you look into their eyes – there’ll be a sparkle!
If someone can’t help but smile when they’re around you, it means they’re deeply attracted to you and enjoy every moment you have together.
This smile will be something you can’t miss!
So, even if you don’t pick up on any of the other signs, this will tell whether someone really likes you and is possibly developing deeper feelings for you.
If you feel the same, consider confessing!
There’s really no reason to keep quiet and waste time.
