When your man starts to pull away the first thing to go isn’t his attraction for you…
It isn’t his affection…
And it isn’t his love…
It’s his ATTENTION.
That’s why the key to restoring the balance in your relationship has nothing to do with being the best partner you can be. Or convincing him you’re the one for him.
It has everything to do with making sure he’s thinking about you when you’re not around.
The biggest mistake many women make is this…
You’re texting him wrong
The thing most women do wrong when their texting a guy..
Which practically ensures he’ll leave you hanging….rather than texting you back right away.
Is that they don’t text in a way that HOOKS HIS ATTENTION.
The simple truth is that men are actually pretty simple. We’re easily distracted by shiny new objects, and yes, sometimes by new women too.
And if your messages don’t grab his attention, and force him to think about you when you’re not around, he’ll easily get pulled aside by something (or someone) else.
He’ll never develop those deep feelings of attraction that make him desperate to hear from you, to be around you…
And ultimately to lock you down.
Fortunately, my friend Amy North has come up with a series of text messages that guarantee the man you send them to won’t be able to stop thinking about you.
When you send these texts to guy you’ll pop into his head again and again throughout his day. He won’t be able to shake you from his mind
What makes them so powerful?
They work by using something called “Attention Hooks” which gives him a feeling of overwhelming psychological tension…
That only getting in touch with you will release. It’s like an itch in his brain that only hearing back from you will scratch.
So HE’S the one going crazy waiting to hear back from you, and not the other way around.
The cool thing about Attention Hooks is…
Hollywood screenwriters do the exact same thing
Have you ever been so hooked on a TV show you couldn’t stop watching?
But something at the end of each episode made you click “Watch Next Episode” again and again…
…almost as if you couldn’t help yourself.
What many people don’t realize is that the writers of these addictive shows use a set of very predictable formulas. They give you this compulsive feeling that you NEED to keep watching.
Here’s the cool part:
Amy North took these exact techniques and adapted them for TEXTING MEN…
She has created texts that give a man this same feeling of compulsion so that he absolutely HAS to get back to you.
She found that by sending texts using the same formulas screenwriters use to keep you watching an addictive show stirs up emotions inside him. He can’t stop himself from responding to you right away.
He thinks about you non-stop when you’re not around. And this causes his feelings for you to deepen and intensify.
If you want to know what to text a man to make him feel a compulsive need to text you back, to see you, and to be with you…
So you’re always on his mind…
Go watch the free video Amy put together for you.
Why I’m recommending this video by Amy North
I have recently come across a great book that can make a huge, practical difference to your dating life.
Last month I decided to purchase and read Text Chemistry by Amy North (pictured above). You can read my comprehensive review of the book here.
What did I think of it?
I feel that the techniques used in this book are several cuts above anything else you will find online— due to the fascinating psychological tricks they employ.
This cheeky program teaches women how to keep men interested via text messages during the initial stages of dating and throughout a relationship.
Whether you’re gloriously single or in a monogamous relationship, Amy North’s Text Chemistry does work —just ask the thousands of women she has helped all over the world.
I believe that Text Chemistry contains some powerful techniques for women who are trying to survive out in the dating jungle.
And for any man reading the book, it brings up some incredibly valid points about the ‘inner workings’ of our gender.
The psychology behind why men pull away
If you feel like you’ve tried everything and your man is still pulling away, it’s probably because his fears of commitment are so deep-rooted in his subconscious, even he’s not aware of them.
And unfortunately, unless you can get inside his mind and understand how the male psyche works, nothing you do will make him see you as “the one”.
That’s where we come in.
We’ve created the ultimate free quiz based on Sigmund Freud’s revolutionary theories, so you can finally understand what’s holding your man back.
No more trying to be the perfect woman. No more nights wondering how to repair the relationship.
With just a few questions, you’ll know exactly why he’s pulling away, and most importantly, what you can do to avoid losing him for good.
How did I discover this book?
That’s an interesting question!
Well, I learned about Text Chemistry because my girlfriend (that’s us pictured above) is a big fan of the author, Amy North.
I met my girlfriend 6 months ago. And she seemed to understand me from the get go. That, combined with her infectious personality, meant I was immediately hooked.
Soon after we started seeing each other my girlfriend confided in me that, before we met, she had been reading a lot about relationships and male psychology. And that one guide in particular had completely changed her approach to dating.
It was The Devotion System by Amy North —her best-selling companion to Text Chemistry.
My girlfriend says that The Devotion System resonated with her more than any other book. And that she wouldn’t have had the confidence to date and build a meaningful relationship with me without it.
As I write a lot about relationships on Hack Spirit, I knew I had to check it out. My girlfriend is armed with a pretty good bulls**t detector, so if she found a book to be genuinely helpful, I want to find out more about it.
I quickly discovered that Amy North is smart, insightful and straightforward, she genuinely cares about her clients, and tells it exactly how it is. This was clear from the very start of the book.
I haven’t come across dating books as comprehensive or insightful as these ones.
Click here to check out Text Chemistry for yourself.
Can a relationship coach help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach.
I know this from personal experience…
A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track.
If you haven’t heard of Relationship Hero before, it’s a site where highly trained relationship coaches help people through complicated and difficult love situations.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a certified relationship coach and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my coach was.
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