Hi. I’m Pearl Nash, and I write about dating and relationships for a living.
I’ve just finished reading Infatuation Scripts, a hugely popular dating guide for women.
Is the hype around the program justified? Is it really worth your time and money?
Read my epic Infatuation Scripts review to find out.
What is Infatuation Scripts?
Written by best-selling author Clayton Max, Infatuation Scripts is a series of scripts that will see you through a variety of relationship situations.
In the online bundle, you’ll find:
- The main manual
- Audio files
- A video series
You’ll also receive 3 added bonuses for free – a Commitment Calculator, an eBook called ‘Why Men Shut Women Out’, and another eBook called ‘Make Any Man Yours For Life’.
Infatuation Scripts answers the 3 most pressing questions women have when it comes to relationships:
- How do I attract a man?
- How do I get him to commit to me?
- Is a long-term relationship possible?
The scripts you get are all based on triggering a man’s infatuation instinct, which is a concept Clayton Max has been working on for many years. Based on real science, learning about the infatuation instinct was hands down my favorite part of the program.
I’ll discuss what the infatuation instinct is all about below.
Why I’m writing this review
I actually came across this program by accident.
I wasn’t on the hunt for love, and I certainly wasn’t looking back on my past relationships and over-analyzing each one.
But I did resonate with what the program promised.
Why do amazing men fall head over heels for some women, but not others? Why do some men lose interest in a relationship?
Let’s face it, we’ve all wondered about this.
When I dove into this program, I wanted to understand better what men really want from us. Because that’s what Infatuation Scripts promises to do.
With this in mind, let’s dive into my thoughts on the book.
Who can Infatuation Scripts help?
The great thing about this book is that it can help you at all stages of your relationship, from first meeting a guy to being happily married for a number of years.
Let’s break down the 4 types of women who can benefit most from it.
First meeting a guy
Have you ever bumped into a guy, looked up and felt that instant connection?
But, instead of pursuing it, you’ve simply brushed it off and walked away.
After all, it does seem the easier option.
You’ve already embarrassed yourself by bumping into this guy, you don’t want to make things even worse.
Or you’ve simply just met a guy at the pub, and you know there’s something there, but you can’t seem to hold his attention?
No matter what you say, his mind seems to be drifting elsewhere.
The first date
Do you find yourself sitting with a checklist after each date and trying to work out whether this guy ticks all the boxes?
And then trying to work out how you can go about ticking all of his?
The truth is, no matter how much effort you go to, it isn’t going to make sure you’re the one for him and that your relationship has a future.
There’s no worse feeling than finding yourself attracted to a man who seems to show no interest in you whatsoever. In fact, you watch as his mind wanders off thinking about other women.
Six months in
Do you make it into relationships, but always have the feeling that your guy has one foot out the door?
It seems that every guy you meet and date, is never certain that you’re the one for him.
You’re smart, funny, sexy… all the things a guy wants, but there’s something missing.
And you can’t seem to put a finger on it. And neither can they.
It’s like something about you makes me seem unsure.
Marriage is hard work, and it can certainly lose its spark as the years go by.
You might have found your own marriage seems to be lacking that deeper desire and connection that once drove you.
Your husband doesn’t seem to appreciate you nearly as much anymore.
In fact, if anything he takes you for granted.
Have you resonated with any of these scenarios?
In each one, you get the feeling that the men you want in your life, just don’t seem to see you in the same way.
You’re not alone. But, it doesn’t mean that you have to walk away and give up.
Infatuation Scripts has been designed for exactly this reason.
There are words you can say to unleash that flood of emotions and give him absolute certainty that there’s no-one better for him…than you.
How Infatuation Scripts works
Infatuation Scripts not only dives into this infatuation instinct and just how it can help your relationship.
It also teaches you the techniques you need to trigger this instinct in any man – no matter what stage of your relationship you are in.
The program takes you through the ‘scripts’, so you can learn exact what to say at each stage of the process. However, most women only need to use 3 main techniques to get positive results:
1) Curiosity: This stage is all about encouraging the man to find out more about you, until suddenly you’re the only thing on his mind. He can’t stop thinking about you.
2) Investment: Here is about getting your guy to work for you. That’s right, he will be doing the chasing and trying to prove he is good enough to be with you.
3) Uncertainty: This is the feeling your man will get when he’s with you. The aim is that you don’t give everything away. Don’t let him feel comfortable. He should always be working on winning you over and appreciating exactly what he has when he’s without.
The program goes through another nine techniques that can be used to keep your man on his toes:
- Independence script: Teaches you to stand u for yourself and be more independent (men love the chase).
- Intrigued script: Helps you to get his attention and hold it.
- Cliff-hanger script: Learn how to end conversations like you have so much more to give, to leave them hanging.
- Barrier script: Discover how to draw and line and put boundaries in place.
- Curveball script: Gain leverage in your relationship and remain mysterious and attractive.
- Shaping script: Change his outlook about you, and ‘shape him’ to enjoy the little things.
- Temptation script: Make him want you in the bedroom and to come back for more.
- Uninterested script: While you will be giving him attention, the technique will teach you to give him mixed signals. Signals that tell him that he’s missing something.
- Urgency script: Teaches you to make him panic, to have the feeling that he could lose you.
What is the infatuation instinct?
The idea behind the infatuation instinct is actually quite simple: with the words and gestures you use, you can tap into a man’s brain and trigger his infatuation instinct.
Once this chemical is triggered in a man’s brain, that cuts off his feelings for other women and makes him unable to stop thinking about you, even if he really wants to.
Here’s what it’s supposed to do:
- Gets rid of any lingering doubts he has.
- Removes any logical barriers holding him back.
- Convinces him that you’re the only one for him.
Is the infatuation instinct legit?
Plenty of research has gone into the infatuation instinct with researchers from:
- Rutgers: Rutgers Business School Newark and New Brunswick
- Stony Brook University
- Einstein: Albert Einstein College of Medicine
Here are the brain chemicals that researchers found to be involved in the process:
- Dopamine: the chemical for pleasure and pain.
- Serotonin: stabilizes a person’s mood and feelings of happiness.
- Norepinephrine: this increases blood sugar levels to help him feel energetic and positive.
Once you activate this emotional tripwire, he begins to idolize you, and forgets any reasons he might have doubted you were right for him in the first place.
He’ll see only your positive qualities.
When can you trigger it?
The best part is, you can use this technique in a huge variety of scenarios:
- On a guy you’ve just met: to separate you from all the other women, right from the start. He will see you as the only choice for him.
- On a guy you’ve just started to date: to erase any doubts he might have about you, so all that he cares about is securing your love.
- On your long-term boyfriend or husband: to make him realise how lucky he is to have you and so he sees you as the centre of his world.
All in all I think the infatuation instinct is a fascinating take on what really drives men romantically.
How much does Infatuation Scripts cost?
Infatuation Scripts consists of the main manual, audio files and a video series, along with a Commitment Calculator, an Ebook titled ‘Why Men Shut Women Out’ and an Ebook titled ‘Make Any Man Yours For Life’.
It’s a pretty comprehensive package.
The price for everything is $49.95.
Because it’s online, you also get access to it right away. Click the files, download them, and get working on your relationship today.
I think it’s great value considering all the resources you get. And if it can help you find love (or save your relationship), then the price will be forgotten pretty quickly.
Who is Clayton Max?
Clayton Max has an expansive career over the past decade coaching men and women through relationship issues.
During this time, he developed the infatuation instinct theory, which he’s used as the basis for this program.
The pros of Infatuation Scripts
Here is what I liked most Infatuation Scripts.
- Step-by-step instructions: The last thing you want is some wishy-washy information about triggering a man’s emotions. Instead, you get some very practical advice that you can put into use straight away in your relationships. The step-by-step guide is nice and easy to follow, giving you clear advice on the measures you need to take.
- Appeals to all: One of the great things about this program is that you can pick it up no matter what stage you are at in your relationship. Whether you’ve just met the guy, six months in, or have been happily married for a number of years, you can get something out of this program.
- Backed by research: Knowing that research has gone into the infatuation instinct is a huge bonus for me. It shows there’s merit behind the idea, making it something you can trust.
The cons of the book…
Here is what I think could be improved.
- Online only: Let’s face it, when you’re forking out the money, it helps to have a physical book you can hold and refer back to at any point you like. This is the main downside to this program. The tips do need to be read over a number of times to help them sink into your memory. I advise printing them off and sticking them up somewhere in your home, so you can always refer to them when you need them.
- Personal touch: As you might expect, you can only get so personal over paper. It’s definitely not the same as sitting in a room with a psychologist and talking out your relationship problems. This program would probably work best if you have the help of a friend or family member or professional to talk it out with to help make it even more relatable to your personal situation.
The 3 bonus ebooks
Here’s what you get with free bonuses.
1) Commitment Calculator
This was written by relationship coach Carlo Cavallo. It teaches you how to get a man to commit to you, even if he’s not looking for a serious relationship.
2) Why Men Shut Women Out
Written by relationship coach Slade Shaw, this book shows women exactly what it is they do that makes men shut them out. It also looks into how a man’s mind works, and how you can take action based on this knowledge.
3) Make Any Man Yours For Life
Written by relationship and psychologist expert Amy North, who is also the author of Text Chemistry. Amy shows you the secrets to make a man commit to you and only you. Amy also shows you the real reasons why men cheat and how you can prevent cheating in your relationship.
Relationships are hard work.
And it seems no matter what stage you are at in your relationship, problems can arise.
Infatuation Scripts puts you back in control of your love life and to make relationships work for you.
The great part is that it’s all very doable. The step-by-step guide offers very clear advice and instructions, and you can see the results straight away.
There’s no doubt that it gives you the power to change your current or future relationship for the better.
I’d recommend Infatuation Scripts to any Hack Spirit reader willing to put in a bit of work for love.