If you want to be truly classy, say hello to these 10 etiquette habits

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Imagine you’re at a fancy dinner or a posh event. You want to fit in, right? But it’s not just about wearing a snazzy outfit or having a cool haircut. It’s about how you act – that’s where etiquette comes into play.

In this article, we’re going to explore 10 simple yet super effective etiquette habits that can turn you into the epitome of classiness.

Whether you’re a newbie to the world of manners or just looking to polish your skills, these tips will be like your secret weapon to impressing everyone around you.

Let’s get started.

1. The Magic of Eye Contact and Smiling

Ever noticed how some people just light up the room when they walk in?

A big part of their secret is super simple: they make eye contact and smile.

When you meet someone, look them in the eye and give them a warm smile. It’s like saying, “Hey, I see you, and you matter.”

This small gesture can make a huge difference. It makes people feel important and valued.

And guess what? It’s contagious.

When you smile, chances are they’ll smile back. It’s an easy way to spread some positivity and make a great first impression.

Just remember, don’t overdo it – keep it natural and genuine.

2. Listen Before You Leap

Okay, picture this: You’re chatting with someone, and they’re telling you about their day, their dreams, or maybe just a funny story.

Here’s where you can really shine – by simply listening. Not just waiting for your turn to speak, but really hearing them out. It’s about showing that you care about what they have to say.

When you listen well, you make the other person feel heard and appreciated, and that’s golden.

I learned this the hard way at a friend’s party. I was so excited to share my travel stories that I barely listened to what others were saying.

Later, a friend pointed out how it seemed like I wasn’t really interested in their stories. That was a wake-up call!

Since then, I make a conscious effort to listen more. Trust me, it changes the whole vibe of your conversations, and people will love you for it.

3. The Art of the ‘Thank You’ Note

Let’s talk about a small act that packs a big punch: thank you notes. Now, I know what you’re thinking. “In the age of texts and emails, who writes notes?” But hear me out.

A handwritten thank you note is like a rare gem these days. It shows you care enough to take time out of your busy life to appreciate someone.

I started doing this after receiving a thank you note from a colleague. It was just a simple note for helping them with a project, but it made my entire week.

Since then, I’ve made it a habit to send these little notes of gratitude.

Whether it’s for a gift, a favor, or just because someone made your day a bit brighter, a thank you note is a classy way to express your appreciation.

It doesn’t have to be fancy or long – a few sincere words will do the trick. 

4. Remembering Names is Remembering Hearts

Now, here’s something I’ve been working on: remembering people’s names. It might sound small, but it’s huge in making connections.

When you remember and use someone’s name in conversation, it’s like saying, “You’re important enough for me to remember.” It makes people feel special and respected.

I used to be terrible at this. I’d meet someone, and their name would just slip through my brain like water.

So, I started using little tricks to remember names, like repeating the name when I first hear it or associating it with something familiar.

At a recent community meeting, I surprised myself by remembering nearly everyone’s name!

People were impressed, and the conversations felt more personal and warm. It’s a game-changer in how you relate to others and definitely adds a touch of class to your interactions.

5. Owning Your Mistakes Gracefully

We all mess up sometimes. But there’s something really classy about owning your mistakes. It’s not just saying “I’m sorry” – it’s about being honest and taking responsibility.

This can be tough, especially when you feel embarrassed or worried about looking bad.

I remember a time when I totally forgot to attend a friend’s art exhibition. It was important to them, and I felt awful.

Instead of making excuses or brushing it off, I called them up, admitted my mistake, and sincerely apologized.

It was uncomfortable, yes, but it also felt freeing. Owning up to your mistakes shows that you’re mature and genuine. It builds trust and respect.

And often, people are more understanding than you’d expect.

When you slip up, embrace it as a chance to show your true class by being honest and apologetic. It’s a powerful way to strengthen your relationships.

6. Being Punctual Shows You Value Time – Yours and Theirs

Punctuality is something I’ve learned to value deeply. It’s about showing respect for other people’s time and commitments. Being on time says, “I care about and respect our plans.”

I wasn’t always great with time. I used to think being a few minutes late wasn’t a big deal. But once, I was late to a dinner, and I saw the inconvenience it caused. That was a turning point.

Now, I aim to be on time, if not a bit early. It’s not always easy, but it makes a difference.

When you’re punctual, it sets a positive tone for whatever you’re doing, whether it’s a meeting, a lunch date, or a professional commitment.

It’s a simple but powerful way to show that you’re reliable and considerate.

Plus, it saves you from that rushed, stressful feeling of being late – and who needs that, right?

7. The Power of Proper Introductions

There’s this quote by Maya Angelou that I absolutely love: “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

This is so true when it comes to introductions. Making proper introductions is about helping people feel comfortable and connected in a new setting.

Whenever you’re in a situation where you can introduce people to each other, do it with a bit of thought.

Mention each person’s name and maybe add a little detail about them, like their job or a hobby.

This not only breaks the ice but also gives them a starting point for conversation. I remember being at a networking event where I didn’t know anyone.

Then, someone introduced me to a group, highlighting my interest in photography. Suddenly, the conversation flowed, and I felt included and valued.

Proper introductions can turn awkward silences into meaningful conversations. They’re a simple yet powerful way to make people feel seen and important, just like Maya Angelou said.

8. Giving Compliments Sincerely

Giving compliments is an art. It’s not just about saying something nice; it’s about being sincere and specific.

When you compliment someone genuinely, it can brighten their day and boost their confidence.

But if it’s not sincere, it can come across as fake or even patronizing.

I’ve learned the importance of this through my own experiences. Once, I complimented a colleague on a presentation, but my words were vague and rushed.

Later, I realized it might have sounded insincere. So, I made a point to be more thoughtful with my compliments.

Now, I take a moment to notice specific things I appreciate about people’s efforts or achievements.

Like, “I really admired how you handled that question in the meeting today. Your response was insightful.”

When you give compliments that are true and specific, people can feel the authenticity. It not only makes them feel good, but it also strengthens your relationships and builds trust. 

A genuine compliment can go a long way in making someone’s day a little brighter.

9. Dining Etiquette: More Than Just Forks and Knives

Dining etiquette is about more than just knowing which fork to use. It’s about making the meal enjoyable for everyone at the table.

I learned this lesson in a memorable way during a formal dinner. I was so focused on using the right utensils that I almost missed out on the conversation and the company.

Now, I focus on the basics that really matter: chewing with my mouth closed, not speaking with food in my mouth, and keeping my phone away.

These little things show respect for the people you’re dining with and for the meal itself. It’s also about being considerate, like not reaching across the table or starting to eat before everyone is served.

Good dining etiquette is not about strict rules; it’s about creating a pleasant experience for everyone, including yourself.

When you’re at a meal, think about how your actions contribute to the atmosphere. It’s a simple way to make any dining experience, whether casual or formal, more enjoyable for everyone.

10. Offering Help Graciously

One of the most underrated yet classy etiquette habits is offering help.

Whether it’s holding a door open for someone, offering to carry something heavy, or just being there when someone needs a hand, these small acts of kindness speak volumes about your character.

I remember being at a grocery store once when an elderly lady dropped her shopping. Instinctively, I went over to help her pick everything up.

It was a small gesture, but she was so grateful. That moment stuck with me.

Offering help isn’t just about the act itself; it’s about showing empathy and being aware of the needs of those around you.

When you offer help, do it with a smile and without expecting anything in return. It’s not about being a hero; it’s about being humane and considerate.

In a world where everyone seems busy with their own lives, stopping to help someone can be a refreshing change.

It’s these small acts that can make a big difference in creating a kinder, more connected community.

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Lachlan Brown

I’m Lachlan Brown, the founder, and editor of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 15 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. Check out my latest book on the Hidden Secrets of Buddhism and How it Saved My Life. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter.

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