Adrian Volenik
Do you believe someone secretly likes you, but you aren’t quite sure, and you don’t want to embarrass yourself by taking the first step?
Well, that’s quite a situation you’re in. It’s also very exciting.
But let’s get to the bottom of it once and for all and discover what signs and behaviors they display that reveal they do, in fact, secretly like you.
1) They remember details about you
A person who likes you will not only remember the big things but also the small details.
Think of it like this – they’re not just hearing your words; they’re diving deeper into what you’re saying.
They ask questions like, “How did that make you feel?” or “What were you thinking at that moment?”
In other words, they’re reading between the lines of your words to truly understand your emotions and thoughts.
They’ll remember stuff like your favorite color, the fact that you take your coffee with two sugars and a bit of cream, and even those quirky stories you’ve shared about your pet turtle.
It’s not just a good memory. It’s their way of showing they care about the details of your life.
2) They want to spend time with you
Another thing you can quickly and easily notice is that they want to spend time with you and around you. If that means making fairly obvious excuses to be with you, they’ll do it.
Wanting to hang out with you is a clear sign they like having you around. They’ll propose stuff you both enjoy doing and make sure they’ve got time for meetups, a date, or just to chill together.
They’re trying to strengthen your bond through shared moments.
3) They text you regularly
When someone’s into you, they’ll keep sending you text messages regularly. You might wake up to a “Good morning!” from them or get little check-ins throughout the day.
You send each other memes or funny GIFs regularly, and they always make you both burst into laughter. It’s like a fun little meme exchange between just the two of you.
Above all, you have a friendly presence in your daily life, and it’s because they genuinely care about what’s going on with you.
They want to be a part of your world because they secretly like you.
4) They laugh with you
When someone secretly likes you, they’re totally into your sense of humor. Your jokes crack them up, and they love sharing those funny moments with you.
Laughing together isn’t just about giggles. You have a secret language that connects you both because you have these inside jokes that no one else really gets.
They playfully tease you, and you both laugh about it. It’s all in good fun, and it creates a lighthearted, flirty atmosphere.
Plus, it’s a sure sign that you’ve got a special place in their heart.
5) They’re initiating physical contact
Another fairly obvious sign of them liking you is if they’re not shy about getting physically close.
You know, like holding your hand, giving you a warm hug, or playfully poking your arm. It’s their way of saying, “I’m really into you,” without needing to say a word.
Physical contact just speaks volumes when it comes to affection and desire. But another good giveaway is this:
6) They introduce you to their friends
You don’t just introduce anyone to your friends, right? Just think about the people you introduced to your friends.
They were probably worth it, and you were comfortable with answering awkward questions about them.
That’s why when they bring you into their friend group, it’s like saying, “Hey, you’re not just a passing interest.”
They want their buddies to meet you, and it’s a sign they’re thinking long-term.
7) They give you sincere compliments
I think it’s safe to say that many compliments we get are run-of-the-mill and insincere. Still, we take them because even they can give us a confidence boost.
But when the person who secretly likes you genuinely compliments you, it’s more than a little confidence boost. It can make your day!
They see your talents and qualities, and they’re not shy to let you know how much they appreciate them.
They give you a warm pat on the back, reminding you of your awesomeness.
8) They’re interested in your hobbies
When someone’s into you, they’ll show a real interest in the things you’re passionate about. They’re curious and genuinely want to understand why you love those hobbies.
If you’re really into painting, for instance, they’ll ask you about your favorite painting techniques, what inspires your art, or even join you in a painting session.
They won’t just nod and pretend to be interested. They actively want to be part of your happiness.
9) They support your goals
When someone’s there to support your goals, they also genuinely care about your aspirations and dreams.
For example, I’m trying to learn to play the guitar. My wife is the one who encourages me to pick it up and practice, even on days when I feel like giving up.
I also know she’ll be the first to celebrate with me when I finally play our favorite song, even if it’s just a few chords.
The same goes for the person who secretly likes you. They’re your personal motivator, offering kind words and helping hands when you hit roadblocks.
10) They’re jealous (in moderation)
A hint of jealousy when you mention someone else signifies that they see you as more than a friend. It’s a protective instinct, and they don’t want to lose your attention to others.
Think about it like this: You’re chatting with them about a friend you’ve been spending some time with.
And then, you notice a subtle change in their tone or expression. It’s not an over-the-top, dramatic reaction, but there’s a hint of…well, jealousy.
So, that hint of jealousy is kind of like a subtle way of them letting you know that they’ve got strong feelings for you.
It’s not a bad thing, but it’s a sign that they want to be a significant part of your life.
11) They share personal stories
Sharing personal stories is like inviting someone into your inner world. It’s in these stories that we reveal our vulnerabilities, our past joys, and our moments of growth.
When you’re sitting across from someone, maybe over a cup of coffee, and they start sharing a story from their childhood, they’re not just narrating events; they’re sharing a piece of their heart.
In return, you share your own stories – the embarrassing high school mishaps, the time you overcame a personal challenge, or the funny family anecdotes.
It’s a beautiful exchange that deepens the bond between two people.
12) They’re there for you
But perhaps the most telling sign someone secretly likes you is if they’re with you through the thick and thin.
When someone’s there for you during tough times, you have a reliable anchor in the storm of life.
They genuinely care about your well-being and happiness.
Ultimately, they’re the person you can lean on when things get rough, just like a trusted friend or family member.
13) They prioritize your happiness
I don’t know about you, but I often prioritize the happiness of my family over my own.
When my wife has a tough day and she’s feeling drained and stressed, I sense her mood and want to make it better. I go the extra mile to see her smile again.
That’s why the person who secretly likes you will also try to make you smile or make you feel better when you’re down.
They might whip up your favorite meal, knowing it’s your comfort food, or just be there to lighten the mood on a tough day.
It’s all about those little gestures that warm your heart and show they truly care.
14) They give you that special look (you know the one)
The person who genuinely and secretly likes you will often give you that special look.
You know that look, right? It’s that moment when their eyes meet yours, and you can feel something special in the air.
It’s a secret international language of affection. They don’t have to say a word because their eyes do the talking.
It’s the kind of gaze that makes your heart skip a beat, a silent connection that makes you feel truly cherished.
It’s a warm, fuzzy blanket of love and attraction wrapped around you, and it’s a beautiful, unspoken way of saying, “I really, really like you.”
Final thoughts
So what can I say in the end? I think you have all the info now to come to a conclusion whether they like you or not.
I mean, it’s not exactly rocket science, is it? If you notice five or more of the signs we just went through, it’s fairly safe to say they’re really into you.
Now, the ball is in your court.
