If a man says these 7 phrases to his partner, he loves her unconditionally

Have you ever noticed how a few heartfelt words from the one you love can make your whole day brighter? 

American film writer and book author Stephen Kendrick once wrote, “The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this: love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love.” 

With this thought in mind, we explore 7 simple yet powerful phrases a man might say that show he’s truly in it for the long haul. 

If you find him saying these phrases often and showing it in his actions, he’s likely a keeper.

1) “We’ll get through it together.”

This one is huge. 

When a man says, “We’ll get through it together,” it’s not just words; it’s a promise of partnership and unity. It highlights the essence of teamwork and solidarity in a relationship. 

Love isn’t just about the good times; it’s about standing side by side, facing challenges, and overcoming obstacles as a united front. This phrase reassures you that no matter what life throws your way, you won’t have to face it alone.

This promise of partnership means that whether it’s financial troubles, health scares, or any of life’s unpredictable twists and turns, you have a steadfast ally in your corner.

In essence, when a man earnestly says, “We’ll get through it together,” he’s not just offering consolation; he’s pledging to be an unwavering pillar of support, affirming that no hurdle is too high when you tackle it as a team.

2) “I love you just the way you are.”

Yes, yes, this line might immediately remind you of that famous Billy Joel song of the same title., 

He beautifully sings, “I said I love you, that’s forever. And this I promise from the heart, mmm. I couldn’t love you any better. I love you just the way you are.”

Sure, it might sound a bit cheesy, but this idea isn’t just for the dreamers and artists among us. 

Renowned researcher and author Brene Brown tells us, “When you love someone unconditionally, you accept them for who they are, flaws and all.” 

Similarly, psychologist David Tzall noted that when someone accepts us as we are, faults and all, and does not try to change us, it’s a sign of unconditional love.

This phrase, when genuinely expressed, goes beyond mere words—it’s a declaration of unconditional acceptance and love.

3) “You make me a better person.”

Isn’t it amazing how the right person can make you want to be even better?

When a man says, “You make me a better person,” it’s really about how love can push us to grow and improve. It’s a sign that he has found someone (you?) who makes him aim a little higher and try a little harder. 

And if said genuinely, it isn’t just sweet talk; it’s a sign that your relationship has the kind of love that lasts, the kind that makes both of you reach for the best version of yourselves.

4) “I will always be here for you.”

We’ve all heard those classic vows, “…to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.” But how often do we hear such dramatic promises outside of weddings? 

It’s not exactly everyday conversation. 

Yet, in his own way, when a man says, “I will always be here for you,” he’s echoing that same timeless promise. It’s about offering reassurance and security through constant support

This phrase carries the weight of commitment, assuring you that no matter what life throws your way, you won’t have to face it alone. 

Of course, for these words to truly hold meaning, they need to be backed up by actions. It’s not just about saying he’ll be there; it’s about being a steadfast presence in your life, come what may.

5) “When we’re old…”

I must admit, Ed Sheeran’s “Thinking Out Loud” is one of those guilty pleasures for me. Do you ever find yourself belting out those lyrics and dancing around your living room like no one’s watching? Just me? Alright, then. 

But seriously, those opening lines, “When your legs don’t work like they used to before…” 

The song reminds us of the beauty of growing old with someone, cherishing the memories made together and the stories that will be recounted in the years to come. 

It encapsulates the idea that love is not just a fleeting moment but a journey that spans a lifetime; that even as physical beauty fades and youth is a distant memory, the bond between two people can remain strong and become the foundation of their legacy.

But most men…well, they’re not as poetic as Ed Sheeran. Instead, they might say, “When we’re old…”But the sentiment remains similar; him envisioning a certain life well into old age and building a life with someone

6) “Let’s make it happen.” (and he actually does)

Ever had a dream that felt a bit out of reach, and then someone special simply said, “Let’s make it happen,” and truly meant it? 

When a man not only supports your aspirations but actively helps bring them to life, it speaks volumes about his respect and commitment to you.

This goes beyond mere words of encouragement; it’s about taking tangible steps together to turn those dreams into reality. 

It’s a partnership in the truest sense, where your goals become shared endeavors, and his willingness to be part of that journey shows a deep level of care and dedication to your happiness and success.

7) “Your happiness is my happiness.”

I stumbled upon this quote on Instagram a while back, and it truly made me pause and reflect. 

When a man says, “Your happiness is my happiness,” it’s a beautiful expression of empathy and the shared joy that are at the heart of unconditional love. 

This phrase signifies that he finds joy in your joy and feels contentment in your contentment. It’s about putting your happiness on par with his own.

But, as with all things in love, it’s not just about saying these words; it’s about living them. 

Actions that back up this sentiment might include him remembering small details that matter to you, making sacrifices that contribute to your well-being, or simply being there for you in the moments you need support the most.

When his actions consistently align with this sentiment, it’s a clear sign that his love is deep and lasting. 

The bottom line? 

Love isn’t just about grand gestures; if we look carefully, we can hear what might seem like normal day-to-day phrases. 

When these phrases are not just spoken but lived, you know you’ve found something truly special.

Isabella Chase

Isabella Chase, a New York City native, writes about the complexities of modern life and relationships. Her articles draw from her experiences navigating the vibrant and diverse social landscape of the city. Isabella’s insights are about finding harmony in the chaos and building strong, authentic connections in a fast-paced world.

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