He could be pulling away... 😢

Based on your answers, it seems like your man is pulling away — or at least he’s not as committed to the relationship as he used to be.

The simple truth is that men pull away all the time.

One day you might have the most amazing relationship in the world, and then next you feel like your man is little more than a stranger.

Here’s what you need to know:

Men pulling away is much more common than you think.

The good news is that there is something you can do about it.

Based on what you answered in the quiz, we have determined that the most important thing you can do to save the relationship is to trigger his hero instinct.

What’s that?

The hero instinct is a new concept that’s generating a lot of buzz at the moment. It goes to the heart of why some men pull away and other men commit wholeheartedly to a relationship. 

Simply put, men want to be your hero. They don’t want to be an action hero like Thor, but an everyday hero to you. He wants to step up to the plate for you and be appreciated for his efforts.

This is deeply rooted in male biology.

The hero instinct is probably the best kept secret in relationship psychology. And I think it holds the key to a man’s love and devotion for life.

Click below to excellent free video about the hero instinct.

(Personalized video recommendation)

I know it sounds kind of silly. In this day and age, women don’t need someone to rescue them. They don’t need a ‘hero’ in their lives.

And I couldn’t agree more.

But here’s the ironic truth. Men do still need to be a hero. Because it’s built into their DNA to seek out relationships that allow them to feel like one.

Because if you can make your guy feel like your everyday hero, it unleashes his protective instincts and the most noble aspect of his masculinity. Most importantly, it will unleash his deepest feelings of attraction towards you.

Now, you can’t trigger his hero instinct just giving him admiration next time you see him. Men don’t like receiving participation awards for showing up. 

Trust me.

However, there are phrases you can say, texts you can send, and little requests you can use to trigger this very natural male instinct.

To learn how to trigger the hero instinct in your guy, check out this free video by James Bauer. He’s the relationship psychologist who discovered the hero instinct in men.

Some ideas are life changing. And when it comes to stopping your man from pulling away — and giving him what he craves from a relationship with you — this is one of them. 

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