Can he feel me thinking about him? 11 big signs

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Have you found yourself spending far too much time thinking about one person in particular?

No matter what you’re doing in your day, they always seem to pop into your thoughts. You just can’t seem to shake them.

It always begs the question: can they feel you sending off these thoughts?

If they’re on your mind, you might be keen to know if you’re also on their mind?

Here are 11 big signs that he can feel you thinking about him…

1) Hiccups

While they might come across as a nuisance at first, if you experience random hiccups (that don’t come at the end of a meal), it’s considered a psychic sign that someone is thinking about you in that moment.

If your man is experiencing these random hiccups, it’s not a good sign.

They generally only occur when someone is having negative thoughts about them.

Whether you’re thinking about your ex and have some unresolved issues there, or simply have a crush on a guy who is involved with someone else – if you’re sending bad thoughts his way, there’s a chance he can feel you thinking about him.

These hiccups will likely occur when you’re around him, so keep an eye out. If you find yourself thinking about him and look across the room to see him experiencing hiccups, it’s a good sign that he’s very aware you’re thinking about him in the moment.

Just be sure to try and keep those thoughts positive!

2) Burning sensation in his cheeks

This can be a very confusing sign. At first, your guy won’t remember getting embarrassed over anything, yet his cheeks are heating up, turning red and suggesting otherwise.

Every thought will run through his head:

  • Am I embarrassed?
  • Did I say or do something?
  • Is it cold outside?

But the main question he will have is: why am I so red!

Flushed cheeks is one of those psychic signs that someone is thinking about you. The blood instantly rushes to your cheeks and sends them blushing.

Many believe that this is a sign that there’s romantic feelings involved. If that’s exactly how you’re feeling from your end, then there’s a good chance he can feel these thoughts as well. His cheeks are clueing him into it.

If you’re hoping he’ll pick up on this sign and experience a connection between the two of you, then keep it positive and passionate and focus your energy. You can determine what kind of thoughts cross your mind about him.

3) Bouts of sneezing

Ahhh-chooo. Your guy might just think there’s a bit of extra pollen in the air, but really, sneezing is one of those psychic signs that someone is thinking about you.

While it might start off as a simple nose itch, it escalates quickly into repeated bouts of sneezing.

Of course, it could very well be that pollen in the air, and if your guy experience hay fever, or happens to have a cold at that point in time, then he might just miss this sign altogether.

Sneezing twice, and it means you’re sending negative thoughts his way.

Sneezing three times is a sign you only have positive things to say about him.

If he sneezes even more then this, then there’s a chance you’re experiencing some sexual tension and he can feel this.

4) Feeling like someone is touching him

Another sign that your man can feel you thinking about him is through the sensation of touch.

This might be something you have experienced yourself. When you’ve felt a hand brush you, only to turn around and discover that there’s no-one there?

If you’re thinking about your man with a high degree of intensity, then these feelings can manifest through the sense of touch to him. He might not realise it in the moment, but the energy you’re sending is mimicking that feeling of touch.

Often this sign is related to sexual tension between the two of you, and this sense of touch is a positive sign for what the two of you are experiencing.

5) Dreams

This is one of the clearer psychic signs that someone is thinking about you.

While this guy might already be making an appearance in your dreams, there’s also a chance you’re making an appearance in his as well.

If you’re thinking about him actively from day to day, this can trigger a psychic manifestation in his dreams.

It’s something that can occur across a number of nights. If he’s not the type to remember his dreams, he might simply find himself thinking about you during the day, without realising why his thoughts are wandering this way.

You may hear from him soon after this – so take it as a sign that he can feel you thinking about it. Dreams can often feel so real, he made find the need to reach out and check in with you to see how you’re going.

He may even let you know that he had a dream about you and to see where that leads!

6) He finds himself smiling

When it comes to psychic signs someone is thinking about you, often the body will react to something your mind feels.

Your guy might find himself smiling for no reason, simply because he’s feeling you thinking about him (without even realising it).

He might begin to realise something going on if he feels the urge to smile at inappropriate times. He might be in a professional work meeting, and find himself grinning from ear to ear. Otherwise, he could be in the middle of a presentation and have the same urge.

No matter how much he resists in the moment, he won’t be able to help what is happening.

It’s a clear sign that you are thinking about him and sending very positive vibes his way.

7) He suddenly feels the need to be with you

If your man experiences this sign, then you’re going to know about it.

He will reach out to you completely out of the blue, unable to resist the urge to be with you in that moment. He won’t be able to pinpoint why he’s feeling this way – but it’s definitely because he can feel you thinking about him. Even if he doesn’t know it.

He might pick up the phone to call you. Choose to send you a text message. Or perhaps even reach out through a friend to see how you’re going.

Once again, the positive vibes you’re sending his way through your everyday thoughts are putting you front and centre in his mind.

He may not even reach out to you, depending on where his own mind is at. He could lose himself in his own thoughts and choose not to act on them.

He might simply be experiencing something fun, such as an amazing view, and find himself wishing you were there next to him to experience it as well.

He will feel this undeniable attachment to you, as he feels you thinking about him.

8) He experiences a random eye twitch

Eye twitching is commonly known as a psychic sign that someone has you on their mind. If your man is eye twitching, then it’s likely because he can feel you thinking about him.

The meaning behind the twitch can change, depending on the energy you’re sending over to him in the moment.

If his right eye is twitching, then that signifies that you’re having positive thoughts and sending positive energy his way.

On the other hand, if it’s the left eye then perhaps your thoughts haven’t been on the kind side towards him.

Of course, eye twitches can happen for all number of reasons, whether the sun catches your eye, some dust gets into it, or something else completely. It’s about recognising when it’s happening randomly and understanding that someone is thinking about you.

If your man is able to eliminate all other causes for eye twitching, he’ll be left with a good indication that you’re thinking about him.

9) Goosebumps appear on his skin

If you don’t have the chills, then goosebumps are a well-known sign of something hair-raising taking place.

Whether it’s seeing something amazing happen before your eyes, remembering a crazy theme park ride, or thinking back on thrilling memories, goosebumps can appear for a whole range of different reasons.

If the goosebumps come completely out of the blue, then it’s a sign that you’re manifesting this guy and he can feel you thinking of him at that point in time.

Your thoughts are reaching him on a sub conscious level, drawing him back towards you in the process.

If he’s experiencing goosebumps for no reason at all, then he’s definitely feeling you think about him and sending positive thoughts his way.

10) A butterfly lands on him

In many cultures, the butterfly is considered a spiritual being that transmits energy from one person to another.

If a butterfly lands on your guy, then it’s bringing the positive energy from your thoughts and delivering them to the recipient, so he can feel you thinking about him.

Of course, if you’re in a butterfly enclosure, then you can’t read into this sign too much.

But, if he’s indoors, or somewhere butterflies aren’t commonly found and one makes its way to land on him, it’s a clear sign to him that you’re thinking of him.

This is one of those clear signs that can be much harder to explain as pure coincidence.

Hopefully, it’s all that’s needed to let this guy know of the good thoughts you’ve been sending his way.

11) You lock eyes

If you’re close to this guy and see him out and about frequently, then see what happens next time you get together. It will help you work out whether or not he can feel you thinking about him.

One of the most obvious signs that he can feel you thinking about him is if you happen to lock eyes directly the moment you walk into a place.

It’s clear the two of you share a deep bond, and he can feel your thoughts around him. You’re happy to find each other in a crowded environment, and it’s clear that there’s something there between the two of you.

The question is, where will it take you?

Positive thoughts or negative thoughts?

Thinking about someone doesn’t always mean you’re sending positive thoughts their way. You might be struggling to get someone off your mind – someone who has wronged you recently and is taking up all your thoughts.

If this is the case, then it’s up to you to try and put it behind you so you can move on and focus your energies elsewhere.

Why waste all that valuable energy to send someone negative thoughts?

You can put those thoughts to much better use and help yourself move on and forward with your life.

One of the best ways to do this is through journaling. It’s a chance to write down all your feelings and to process them and leave them in the past.

It’s definitely worth a try to help you forget about this guy and move forward in your life.

Whether or not he can feel you thinking about him, it doesn’t matter. Your energy is much better spent on useful things that will bring joy to your life.

If you’re having positive thoughts for a guy you like, it might be time to act on these thoughts and see whether or not there’s any feelings there between the two of you.

Does he know I’m thinking about him?

The truth is, while there are plenty of big signs that someone is thinking of you, if he doesn’t know how to read them, then he’s probably very much still in the dark.

It’s so easy to dismiss many of these random occurrences: hiccups, sneezing, dreams, smiling, flushed cheeks… all these things can happen day to day, without them being connected to a psychic sign.

So while it’s no secret that he’s definitely feeling you thinking about him, in all likelihood he hasn’t recognised these signs for what they are. He might not be aware that he’s even getting the signs in the first place.

On the other hand, he may be experiencing this strong connection with you and find himself very much aware of it.

If he can’t get you off his mind either, then there’s a chance that he’s tuned in and completely feeling every single time you think about him.

Either way, it’s still up to you to decide what happens next.

There’s a clear reason he’s always on your mind. The connection is there whether you want to admit it or not.

You can either continue to daydream about the guy in every waking moment, or see if something might come from this relationship.

If you’re ready to explore whether or not a relationship is a possibility, then read on for some tips and advice. We have the key to relationship success, and it all comes down to triggering his inner hero.

Triggering his hero instinct

It’s clear you have feelings for this guy, so now’s the time to see whether they reciprocated. Stop wondering whether or not he can feel you thinking about him, and put yourself at the forefront of his mind.

I learned about this from the hero instinct. Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept is about what really drives men in relationships, which is ingrained in their DNA.

And it’s something most women don’t know anything about.

Once triggered, these drivers make men into the heroes of their own lives. They feel better, love harder, and commit stronger when they find someone who knows how to trigger it.

Now, you may be wondering why it’s called “the hero instinct”? Do guys really need to feel like superheroes to commit to a woman?

Not at all. Forget about Marvel. You won’t need to play the damsel in distress or buy your man a cape.

The truth is, it comes at no cost or sacrifice to you. With only a few small changes in how you approach him, you’ll tap into a part of him no woman has tapped into before.

The easiest thing to do is to check out James Bauer’s excellent free video here. He shares some easy tips to get you started, such as sending him a 12-word text that will trigger his hero instinct right away.

Because that’s the beauty of the hero instinct.

It’s only a matter of knowing the right things to say to make him realize that he wants you and only you.

Click here to watch the free video.


Felicity Frankish

My name is Felicity (Flick) Frankish and I am mum to Cassandra, Vivienne and Elliot. After studying journalism and digital media, I naturally fell into the online world - and hasn't left since!

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