Amazing things happen when you meet your soulmate and connect on a romantic level.
You are not just experiencing the normal symptoms of a person in love, but much more.
The connection between you and this person has the potential to change your life for the better.
It can change you on a personal level too, and even have positive effects on your health.
How is this possible you may wonder? I’ve prepared all the explanations you need below!
1) Your intuition speaks louder than ever
You are already reading about the amazing things that happen when you meet your soulmate, so in a way, I think you know the answers.
These things are already happening to you. You just need confirmation.
Even if you don’t trust your gut, you can still hear it louder than ever.
What’s intuition, anyway? Just because you sense something, this doesn’t mean you’re right. In fact, according to the Association of Psychological Science, intuition is more than a feeling.
“These data suggest that we can use unconscious information in our body or brain to help guide us through life, to enable better decisions, faster decisions, and be more confident in the decisions we make,” says Pearson, co-author of Measuring Intuition.
In other words, your gut recognized your soulmate before your conscious mind was able to perceive it. Don’t get me wrong; you and your instincts are one and the same. It’s not like a separate entity.
However, when you meet your soulmate, you don’t hear the “danger voice”. Instead, you feel especially drawn to this person (in the best way possible) before your conscious mind realizes why.
Pearson adds that “another interesting finding in this study is that intuition improved over time, suggesting that the mechanisms of intuition can be improved with practice.”
This means that your soulmate’s presence in your life has jump-started your intuition, and you can use it further to gain insights that you can’t think of by yourself.
You can use these insights to shed light on other areas of your life that need improvement.
2) You experience intense familiarity
“Our souls already know each other, don’t they? he whispered. It’s our bodies that are new.”
Even if your first encounter with your soulmate didn’t start like that, you can’t deny that you were feeling it. You still can’t shake the feeling that you’ve known them before. It’s like you’re destined to be together.
Celebrity love coach, Nicole Moore, confirms it: “When you meet this person, you feel like you’ve known each other before. It’s intangible yet entirely clear at the same time.”
This is an amazing sensation that you should explore for as long as you can. Although it might be confusing at first, you’ll soon realize (if you haven’t already) that it has comforting effects.
Due to this intense feeling of familiarity, you feel free to be yourself. You might experience lower anxiety levels. You might even feel safe. All of this happens without a logical explanation.
You are experiencing all 3 stages of love at the same time and something extra too.
Are you unsure whether they feel the same? Read these 11 definite signs someone is comfortable around you.
3) You feel an ardent desire to be with them
When you meet your soulmate, it doesn’t matter how independent you are or how much time you spend at work. Almost instantly, you crave this person’s presence no matter what you do.
There is a scientific explanation for this. You are falling in love and this makes your brain release a neurotransmitter, called dopamine, responsible for making you feel pleasure.
Your experience with your soulmate floods your brain with dopamine, making you feel especially good and happy, too. So, when they are not around, you might feel a strong desire to be with them.
Sometimes, this craving is so strong, that it makes telepathic communication possible. The bond between you and this person goes beyond the chemicals released by the brain.
Although it might sound like addiction or co-dependency, your need to be together is in your best interest. Numerous experts believe that soulmates meet for a reason.
When one of your soulmates enters your life, they have a clear purpose. Alison G. Bailey, a best-selling author, agrees that “sometimes in life, you meet people when you need them, and there is an immediate connection.”
Each soulmate relationship is different, so embrace this amazing thing that happens when you meet your soulmate!
4) You discover your telepathic abilities
I remember reading a story about a villain who was immortal, but who became vulnerable in the presence of the woman he loved.
While she was his weakness, your soulmate is your strength. They enhance your ability to communicate telepathically, but not with everybody. Just with them.
Signs of soulmate telepathy are when you both call each other on the phone at the same, random, time. Or, when you think about them and they call you seconds later.
There are times when you have the same ideas, without previously talking about them altogether. So if you thought these were coincidences, think again!
Another sign of telepathic communication can be observed in dreams. You might share the same dream with your soulmate, or it could be a prophetic dream.
According to Sandra Luck, a psychic medium and spiritual mentor, your soulmate can communicate with you in your dreams. She says that “if you remember your soulmate talking to you in your dream, it’s a type of telepathic dream.”
5) You become an empath
The same goes with feeling what your soulmate is feeling. Due to your special bond, you are both empathic.
Sharing your soulmate’s feelings and the other way around is possible. This can lead to a better mutual understanding, but it can also be confusing.
Sometimes, you won’t be able to differentiate your feelings from theirs.
Grace, a psychic and spiritual healer, says that “your soulmate’s emotions could definitely be affecting your emotions more strongly than in a conventional relationship versus a soulmate relationship.”
At the same time, you can use this newfound ability to get closer to other people. You are now more sensitive and open to understanding what other people are feeling.
This doesn’t happen only because you’ve met your soulmate, but also because of oxytocin. Since you feel safe in this person’s company and you trust them, your brain releases a hormone called oxytocin.
A study from the Stanford University of Medicine found that this hormone may contribute to the feelings of closeness you suddenly experience with other people, too.
6) You get along better with other people
When you meet your soulmate, your relationship with other people changes too. It’s not just due to oxytocin. It’s because you learned how important love is in your life and you want to share it.
Without thinking too much, you are able to find ways to get closer to important people in your life. You also spend more time with your family, relatives, and dear friends.
You are tempted to seek the company of those who approve of your relationship and encourage it. However, you might also feel a strong desire to talk about your newfound love excessively.
Your soulmate’s presence in your life has a positive influence on you. Your attitude towards other people changes for the better because you feel more confident and less afraid.
Since we’re at it, another amazing thing that happens in the case of soulmates is that they get along perfectly with each other’s families and friends.
You don’t have to go through any drama when the right person is by your side. Well, at least not regarding friends and family.
7) You feel more confident
Your soulmate is a person who can help you look at things from another angle. They can boost your optimism levels and make you feel more confident.
Rachel Dack, licensed psychotherapist, and dating coach confirm it: “Finding your soulmate leads to a confidence boost and more energy to tackle problems.”
This happens because of two main reasons.
On one hand, your soulmate empowers you and highlights your qualities. They motivate you to improve your strengths and strive for perfection.
On the other hand, the simple presence of this person in your life makes you feel calmer, more capable of handling your responsibilities, and more confident when it comes to making decisions.
It’s like this individual gives you strength and helps you see the things you want in life more clearly.
When you feel confident, you have more courage to try new things and get out of your comfort zone.
That’s exactly what you’re going to do (if you haven’t started already) because meeting a soulmate implies a change in the way you look at the world.
To make sure this is you, read about the 10 things confident people always do (but never talk about).
8) You start seeing things differently
When we are in love, we tend to see the world through rose-colored glasses. Everything seems easier. We can skip eating, sleeping and still function properly.
These things also happen when you meet your soulmate. However, such a special union can help you experience a change in perspective as well.
I’m not talking about some spiritual practice that will trigger this change. Just by taking an interest in this person, you can learn new things and try new things.
These new experiences could change the way you think and may get you out of your comfort zone without feeling any discomfort.
If you were previously focusing on the negative side of the world and were cynical, you might be surprised to catch yourself looking at the bright side of things from now on.
Another example that I can give you is related to a problem that you might have. With this person by your side, you can find solutions to all of your problems.
You can even solve the most difficult aspects of your life because you can analyze them with a different set of eyes.
According to Suzana E. Flores, clinical psychologist and author of Facehooked: How Facebook Affects Our Emotions, Relationships, and Lives, a soulmate “can shake up your soul by providing experiences that change the way you perceive yourself and the world.”
In this regard, your soulmate’s insights could prove to be exactly what you need. They also tend to come at the right time, exactly when you need them.
In case you don’t relate to this point, you can find inspiration in the following 12 Quotes From Ancient Chinese Philosophy That Will Change Your Perspective on Life. A change in perspective might help.
9) You find solutions to your problems
Neil Clark Warren, best-known relational psychologist and author of Date or Soul Mate?: How to Know if Someone is Worth Pursuing in Two Dates or Less, thinks that your soulmate is the person who becomes your financial partner for life, your roommate for life, and common parent for each child.
According to him, when you find your soulmate, making crucial decisions becomes easier. Solving problems no longer concerns you as much because you have someone to rely on.
You experience a feeling of certainty saying that you two can overcome any obstacle. They accept your dreams and they want you to be happy, so they empower you and support you.
Thanks to this energy and your heightened intuition, you get better at problem-solving.
The role of a partner, kindred soul or not, is to help you improve your skills, grow spiritually, and accomplish your goals.
To fully understand the difference between a life partner and a soulmate, you can read this article. However, you don’t have to choose. In rare cases, a soulmate can also become a life partner.
10) You smile more often
Since your better half has entered your life, you feel calm, peaceful, and less anxious. You have your doubts, of course, but this doesn’t stop you from smiling more often.
When you connect with your soulmate on a romantic level, you experience all the symptoms of falling in love. This leads to an overall more optimistic attitude towards life.
To make sure it’s you, read this list of 15 things optimistic people always do (but never talk about).
You smile more often and without apparent reason, a fact which has amazing benefits on your health. I think it’s safe to say that your kindred spirit has indirect positive effects on your health.
When you set your mind to an optimistic way of thinking, your mood can improve. Smiling is also known to lower blood pressure and relieve stress.
All these benefits contribute to your overall appearance, making you look younger. There is scientific evidence to prove that smiling has rejuvenation effects.
In addition, let’s not forget that people who smile are more attractive.
So, even if you don’t recall smiling much lately, now you have all the reasons to do so.
11) You experience electric intimacy
The sexual compatibility between you and your better half goes beyond physical attraction. Having great sex is part of the amazing things that happen when you meet your soulmate.
Even so, it feels like nothing you’ve ever felt before. This is not because your soulmate is a great lover (they could be); it’s because you are also connected on a spiritual level.
“With a soulmate, it is simply magical. We are talking of an out-of-this-world experience because it goes beyond your bodies, this time, your heart, souls, and spirits become one. Nothing can connect individuals this way except when they are with their soulmates and no better way to connect soulmates than uniting them in sex.”, says love coach Gail de Souza.
Even if the intimacy part goes really well, it isn’t the main focus of your relationship. It blends naturally with the other aspects that make it a whole.
The feeling of freedom that I mentioned earlier applies here as well. You shouldn’t feel the need to hide your sexual desires from your kindred soul.
On the contrary, this is an opportunity for you to fully express your sexuality and make your fantasies come true.
Your union is special and transcends physical pleasure, but this doesn’t mean you can’t explore and enjoy the erotic part of your relationship.
Still unsure whether they think about you sexually? Read this list of 12 signs someone is thinking about you sexually.
12) You have a new best friend
When you are romantically involved with your soulmate, they also become your best friend.
They have more than one role in your life because their love is unconditional and based on mutual understanding.
As you spend more time together, you can discover that you and your better half have many things in common and similar goals in life.
Even if you don’t have the exact same hobbies, you are both curious about each other’s interests.
It’s like you both want to look at the world through each other’s eyes and deepen the connection you already have.
That’s why you most probably won’t find it difficult to get out there and try new things with this person. If you are an introvert, this applies to you as well.
When you meet your soulmate, the amazing thing that happens is you have someone by your side who is genuinely interested in everything about you.
As actress Nicole Richie once said, “True friends are like diamonds; bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style.”
If you’d like to read more heartwarming friendship descriptions and quotes, check out this link.
I think it’s always a good time to remember how important friends are in our lives and treat them with consideration.
13) Your zest for life is back
When you feel that nothing makes you excited anymore and you meet your soulmate, your perception changes. As I said before, you start seeing things in a more positive light.
However, you’re not just an observer of the outside world who appreciates what they see. You are all in, happy to be alive and capable of moving the mountains if necessary.
This benefic energy that you’re feeling comes from your soulmate. In case you are wondering, you have the same effect on them.
Excitement slowly crawls back into your life. The best part about it is that you have someone to share it with. You’re not only open to trying new things. You are genuinely interested and feel thrilled.
Regardless of how jovial you think you are, when you meet your soulmate, you become even more cheerful.
Even so, what you’re feeling isn’t due to being in love only. To fully understand, read this list of 20 spiritual signs of true love.
Your feelings are so positive and intense because your soul recognizes theirs.
This type of union has the ability to make everything in life seem easier to do.
You can easily manage the most difficult tasks because you know that someone has your back, and you’re not alone in this journey.
Managing these tasks doesn’t bring you down like it used to. Instead, you deal with them and look forward to the things that make you happy.
14) You can’t tell a lie
It’s not just that you can’t lie to this person. You don’t want to lie to them.
You feel so familiar, free, and safe with them, that your need to hide anything just vanishes. The same goes for exaggerating or altering the truth.
You don’t even do it involuntarily or out of habit because your instinct is no longer telling you to protect yourself. It is telling you the opposite.
In a strange and inexplicable way, you feel that your soulmate does the same for you. Or, maybe you’ve already seen your soulmate preoccupied and asked what was the matter.
Even if they tried to hide a negative feeling from you, they couldn’t do it. You sensed it. That’s why it’s pointless to include lies in your relationship with your kindred spirit.
The best thing to do is come clean immediately and take responsibility for your actions. If you’ve truly met your soulmate, you can count on a very understanding reaction from them.
A soulmate doesn’t judge you. They try to understand you and be there for you whenever you need them.
According to the American Psychological Association, when people begin to lie less, they experience better mental and physical health.
In addition, their study found that telling fewer lies has a positive impact on relationships of all kinds.
So, your soulmate’s presence in your life can help you improve your health, and have better relationships with other people.
Make sure to keep the right people in your life, and avoid the fake ones. Don’t know where to start? Here are 12 tips on how to deal with the fake people in your life.
15) Your relationship works like magic
Any type of relationship needs work. Everyone knows it. However, it seems that your relationship with your soulmate flows naturally.
You may argue from time to time, but these are not serious issues that have the power to affect your relationship.
When it comes to this person, all the questions you had to ask yourself in the past are no longer relevant.
You can feel that something is very different about your relationship, even if you are not entirely sure.
This is one of the beautiful sides of having a romantic relationship with your soulmate. They make you reconsider the concept of a romantic relationship. They make you see love differently.
Just because things are going so well with this person, it doesn’t mean that you have to expect certain things from it. It would be best not to set expectations.
My advice for you is to forget everything you think you know about relationships and focus on your feelings only.
In the case of a soulmate union, the most important part is the spiritual one, even if you can’t fully separate it from the physical world.
The romantic relationship between soulmates is characterized by independence. Soulmates discuss their future in the most natural way possible.
Soulmates pay attention to one another and forgive each other. In addition, mutual understanding and support and part of such a relationship.
Do these points resonate with you?
Hopefully, you’ll have read the points above and felt secure and happy with the life changes happening to you due to meeting your soulmate.
But what if you were left wondering whether you’ve actually met your true soulmate or not? What if these points didn’t match up with your reality?
Let’s face it:
We can waste a lot of time and energy with people who ultimately we’re not compatible with. Finding your soulmate isn’t exactly easy.
But what if there was a way to remove all the guesswork?
I’ve just stumbled upon a way to do this… a professional psychic artist who can draw a sketch of what your soulmate looks like.
Even though I was a bit skeptical at first, my friend convinced me to try it out a few weeks ago.
Now I know exactly what he looks like. The crazy thing is that I recognized him right away,
If you’re ready to find out what your soulmate looks like, get your own sketch drawn here.
The amazing things that happen to you when you meet your soulmate are impossible to overlook.
Their influence is so strong, that it has a positive impact on both your mind and body.
Most probably, without being fully aware, you do the same for them.
So, the sooner you accept your union wholeheartedly, the better for both of you.
Putting yourself first
Hey, Lachlan from Hack Spirit here.
What’s your number one goal at the moment?
Is it to buy that car you’ve been saving up for?
To finally start that side-hustle that’ll hopefully help you quit your 9-5 one day?
Or to take the leap and finally ask your partner to move in?
Whatever it is, you’re not going to get there, unless you’ve got a plan.
And even then…plans fail.
But I didn’t write this to you to be the voice of doom and gloom…
No, I’m writing this because I want to help you achieve the goals you’ve set.
I’ve recently been taking part in a workshop called Life Journal created by teacher and career coach Jeanette Brown.
Covering all the basics and more on what’s needed to reach your goals, Jeannette tackles everything from creating habits and new behavior patterns to putting your plans into action.
She doesn’t mess around – this workshop will require effort on your part but that’s the beauty of it – Jeanette has carefully designed it to put YOU in the driving seat of your life.
So…think back to that important goal I asked about at the start of this message.
How much do you want it?
Are you willing to put the effort in to get there?
If so, check out the workshop here.
If you do take part, I’d love to hear how your Life Journey goes!
All the best,