Lachlan Brown
Ever felt like you don’t really deserve your success? That it’s all just luck? That’s called Imposter Syndrome.
But guess what? You can overcome it.
Here are 9 habits that’ll help you feel confident and believe in yourself.
1. Celebrate Small Wins
Often, we overlook the tiny victories, waiting for a ‘big moment’ to pat ourselves on the back.
But every step, no matter how small, brings you closer to your goal.
Start by keeping a ‘win journal’.
Every evening, jot down at least one thing you did well that day.
It could be as simple as speaking up in a meeting, finishing a task on time, or even just taking a well-deserved break.
Over time, this habit will remind you of your capabilities and achievements.
By celebrating these moments, you reinforce self-belief and gradually silence that doubtful voice in your head.
2. Talk It Out
Whenever I’m overwhelmed with self-doubt, one of the best things I’ve found is to chat with a trusted friend or mentor.
Just voicing your feelings out loud can provide a fresh perspective.
Many times, I’ve discovered that what seems like a mountain of insecurity in my mind is just a molehill when said out loud.
Plus, you’d be surprised at how many people feel the same way!
By sharing your experience and hearing theirs, you can find comfort in knowing you’re not alone.
Remember, sometimes a heart-to-heart can be the reality check you need to push past those imposter feelings.
3. Embrace Continuous Learning
One of the most empowering things I’ve learned over the years is that nobody knows everything.
There’s always something new to grasp, even in areas where we consider ourselves experts.
Instead of letting what you don’t know feed your imposter syndrome, channel it into a hunger for knowledge.
I’ve made it a habit to set aside some time each week to learn something new, whether it’s a short online course, a book, or even a podcast.
By actively embracing the journey of continuous learning, not only do you equip yourself with new skills, but you also reinforce the idea that it’s okay not to have all the answers right away.
Progress, after all, is a journey, not a destination.
4. Accept Praise—Even When It Feels Uncomfortable
Instead of shying away from compliments, lean into them—even if it feels utterly wrong.
Our intuition often tells us to downplay our achievements or respond with a modest “Oh, it was nothing.”
But doing so only feeds into the imposter narrative.
The next time someone compliments your work or applauds your effort, resist the urge to deflect. Say “Thank you,” and let it sink in.
By consciously acknowledging and accepting praise, you challenge the ingrained habit of underselling yourself and start building a more authentic self-image.
Remember, sometimes growth begins right at the edge of comfort.
5. Set Realistic Expectations
It’s fantastic to aim high and push your boundaries, but setting unrealistically high expectations for yourself can become a breeding ground for imposter feelings.
Understand that it’s okay not to be perfect all the time.
When setting goals, be genuine about what’s attainable, taking into consideration your resources, time, and current abilities.
Mistakes and setbacks are natural parts of growth.
When they occur, rather than seeing them as proof of inadequacy, view them as valuable lessons on your journey.
By setting realistic benchmarks, you foster a healthier self-view and create a more sustainable path to success.
6. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences
The company you keep plays a significant role in shaping your mindset.
Surrounding yourself with supportive and uplifting individuals can make a world of difference.
These are the people who will remind you of your strengths when you forget, challenge you in constructive ways, and celebrate your achievements, big or small.
On the flip side, try to limit exposure to negative or overly critical voices that exacerbate feelings of inadequacy.
By curating a positive environment, both online and offline, you create a safety net of encouragement that helps combat those nagging imposter thoughts.
7. Reflect on Past Achievements
When I’m caught in a loop of self-doubt, I find it incredibly grounding to take a stroll down memory lane.
I keep a folder of past projects, feedback, and even small thank-you notes I’ve received over the years.
Every once in a while, I dive into this collection to remind myself of the impact I’ve made and the challenges I’ve overcome.
It’s so easy to forget our accomplishments, especially when we’re constantly looking ahead.
By taking a moment to reflect on where you’ve been and what you’ve achieved, you can find renewed confidence in your abilities and potential.
It’s a gentle reminder that you’ve faced hurdles before and come out on top, and you can surely do it again.
8. Seek Out Constructive Criticism
Sometimes, the best way to fight imposter syndrome is not to seek praise, but constructive criticism.
While it might sound counterproductive, understanding areas for improvement can give you a tangible path to betterment.
Instead of being in the dark and assuming you’re not good enough, you get clear insights on where to focus.
By actively asking for feedback and then working on those areas, you’re taking control of your growth.
Over time, this proactive approach demystifies the vague fears of not being “enough” and replaces them with actionable steps to enhance your skills and confidence.
It’s not about dwelling on weaknesses, but about transforming them into strengths.
9. Practice Self-Compassion
At the heart of battling imposter syndrome is the relationship you have with yourself.
Be kind, understanding, and forgiving to yourself, just as you would with a close friend.
Everyone, no matter how accomplished, faces moments of doubt or feels out of their depth at times.
It’s part of the human experience.
When you stumble or grapple with feelings of inadequacy, instead of being overly critical, offer yourself words of comfort and encouragement.
Taking a moment to practice self-compassion can help reset your mindset and provide the emotional strength needed to move forward with confidence.
Remember, you are your most enduring ally—treat yourself with the care and understanding you deserve.
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