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Do you want to keep a man’s eyes on you and only you? Would you love to make him absolutely addicted to you?
If so, you’re in the right place.
As you may already know, there are certain things women can do to hook men.
The good news is that these have nothing to do with looks, but rather attitude.
Once you can get yourself in the right mindset, you’ll not only have his attention, but like a lovesick puppy dog, he won’t leave your side.
Here’s what you need to do.
1. Be mysterious
Have you ever left a date feeling mentally drained, or like you knew everything there was to know about a man? If so, you probably had little interest in seeing him again.
The same rings true for men.
If you’re the kind of woman who takes over a conversation or shares everything from your childhood memories to your deepest secrets then he’s isn’t going to be compelled to call you.
Instead of spilling your heart out to him it’s important that you hold back some information, and keep him coming around for more.
Also note that this isn’t only for in-person conversations, but it applies to text messages, phone calls, online messaging, the works.
To find out how tricks to keep your man coming back for more, click here and watch this free video from relationship expert, Amy North.
2. Be positive
More than just smiles, emotions in general are contagious. This means that if you’re the pessimistic or self-pitying type, those feelings are going to affect your date, too.
Even more importantly, men are attracted to happy, outgoing women. Just like you wouldn’t want to date someone who was always down, nor do men. That’s why it’s so important to be positive and try to find the good in everyday situations.
Once your man realizes that you’re the one to keep him smiling he’ll become hopelessly devoted to you.
3. Be hard to get
Now this one has been disputed over the years, but believe me, it works.
Since men are hunters at heart, making him work for your love and attention will keep him chasing you. When this happens, he’ll become addicted to you.
To do so, it’s important that you’re not “too available.” This means that you don’t drop what you’re doing to see him, and you set certain standards for yourself when it comes to making plans with him.
For instance, if he calls and asks if you want to go for dinner that night, tell him that you’re busy and suggest rescheduling for a day or two later. Even if you have no plans for that night, keeping him on his toes to see you will get him hooked.
It’s also important that you’re not always the one to initiate contact with him. If you’re doing all the texting, messaging, phoning, etc., it’ll take away from his pursuit for you.
Instead let him be the one to woo you.
Now, I have one more question for you.
Are you frustrated with dating?
Then I highly recommend you check out this free video by relationship expert Amy North.
Finding the right guy and building a relationship with him isn’t as easy as swiping left or right.
I’ve been in contact with countless women who start dating someone only to encounter really serious red flags.
Or they’re stuck in a relationship that’s just not working for them.
No one wants to waste their time. We just want to find the person that we’re meant to be with. We all – both women and men – want to be in a deep passionate relationship.
But how do you find the right man for you and establish a happy, satisfying relationship with him?
Maybe you need to enlist the help of a professional relationship coach…
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I recently discovered a great book that can make a huge, practical difference to your dating life.
I’ve reviewed a lot of dating books on Hack Spirit but The Devotion System by Amy North (pictured above) is the best one I have come across.
A professional relationship coach by trade, Ms. North offers up her own comprehensive advice on how to find, keep, and nurture a loving relationship to women everywhere.
This book can be helpful for any woman struggling to find and keep a quality man.
Now, I know what you may be thinking: Why am I (a guy) recommending a dating guide for women?
Well I actually have a personal connection to The Devotion System – a strong one.
The Devotion System helped me in a big way
I met my girlfriend 6 months ago (that’s us above). And she seemed to understand me from the get go. That, combined with her infectious personality, meant I was immediately hooked.
I’m still hooked. This is easily the best relationship I’ve been in, and touch wood, it’s going to be a long and happy one.
Soon after we started seeing each other my girlfriend confided in me that, before we met, she had been reading a lot about relationships and male psychology. And that one guide in particular had completely changed her approach to dating.
It was The Devotion System by Amy North.
My girlfriend says that The Devotion System resonated with her more than any other book. And that she wouldn’t have had the confidence to date and build a meaningful relationship with me without it.
As I write a lot about relationships on Hack Spirit, I knew I had to check it out. My girlfriend is armed with a pretty good bulls**t detector, so if she found any book to be genuinely helpful, I want to find out more about it.
Now I know why my girlfriend spoke so highly of The Devotion System.
Amy North is smart, insightful and straightforward, she genuinely cares about her clients, and tells it exactly how it is. This was clear from the very start of the book.
Add to that actionable psychology and science-based tips on texting, flirting, reading him, seducing him, satisfying him and more, and you have a book that will be incredibly useful to its owner.
The Devotion System worked for my girlfriend. And I have no doubt it can work for you too.
If you’re frustrated by continuously meeting disappointing men or by your inability to build a relationship when a good one comes along, then this book is a must-read.
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