10 words you should stop using if you want to sound intelligent

We all use certain words in our day-to-day conversations without realizing how they may be impacting our perceived intelligence.

Yes, you read that right.

Some words, surprisingly common ones, can actually make us sound less intelligent than we are. And who wants that?

In this article, I’ll share the 10 words you should stop using if you want to sound intelligent. It’s not about being pretentious or snobby; it’s about highlighting your best self. 

Let’s get started. 

1) Literally

This is literally the first word that needs to go from your vocabulary if you want to sound intelligent.

Now, don’t get me wrong.

The word “literally” isn’t bad in itself. It’s a perfectly good word that can be used effectively. But here’s the catch – most people use it wrong!

It’s not a dramatic emphasis tool but a statement of fact. So when you say, “I’m literally dying of laughter,” unless you’re really in a life-threatening situation caused by excessive giggling, you’re using it wrong.

And guess what?

Every time you misuse “literally”, it chips away at your perceived intelligence. So, unless it’s absolutely necessary and accurately used, let’s leave “literally” behind, shall we?

2) Like

I confess, I’m guilty of this one too. The word “like” has a way of creeping into our speech, like, all the time.

I remember a time when I was presenting a proposal to my team. I was confident, well-prepared, and passionate about my ideas. But when I played back the recording of my presentation, I cringed.

Why?

Because I had used the word “like” so many times it had diluted my message and made me sound unsure and less intelligent than I am. “The results were, like, really impressive” or “It’s, like, a really innovative solution”.

It was a wake-up call.

“Like” is a filler word that we often use without thinking. But it can make us seem immature or unsure of ourselves. So take it from me: be mindful of your usage of “like”. Your credibility will thank you.

3) Irregardless

Here’s the thing about “irregardless”: it’s not actually a word. Or rather, it’s a non-standard word often used in place of “regardless” or “irrespective”.

When you use “irregardless”, what you’re actually doing is combining two words that mean the same thing. It’s like saying “without without regard”. Sounds redundant, right?

More importantly, using “irregardless” can make you sound less intelligent because it indicates a lack of understanding of basic English grammar. 

4) Actually

“Actually” is a word that’s often used incorrectly and unnecessarily. It’s a word that’s meant to signify something surprising or contradicting, but it’s often used as a filler, similar to “like”.

Moreover, it can make you sound condescending or argumentative. When you start a sentence with “Actually…”, it can come off as if you’re correcting the person you’re talking to, even if that’s not your intention.

Be cautious about when and how you use “actually”. It can sometimes do more harm than good to your perceived intelligence.

5) Basically

“Basically” is another one of those words that has a tendency to sneak into our conversations more often than we realize.

It’s used when we want to simplify a concept or idea, which isn’t a bad thing. However, overuse of “basically” can inadvertently send a message that you’re talking down to your audience, as if they can’t understand the full complexity of the topic.

Intelligent communication involves respecting your audience’s capacity to understand. Instead of resorting to “basically”, try explaining things in a way that’s both clear and respectful.

6) Just

“Just” is a small word with a big impact.

We often use “just” to soften our requests or statements, but it can end up diminishing the importance of what we’re saying. For instance, “I just think that…” or “I’m just wondering if…”.

Subconsciously, it’s as if we’re apologizing for our thoughts or ideas before they’ve even had a chance to be considered.

Your thoughts and ideas are valuable. Don’t minimize them with “just”. Stand behind your words with confidence. It’s not just about sounding intelligent; it’s about valuing your own intelligence too.

7) Um

“Um” is a word that was my constant companion during public speaking. Every time I stood in front of an audience, “um” would pop up in my speech like an unwelcome intruder.

“Um” is a filler word we use when we’re thinking, nervous, or unsure. But its frequent usage can make us sound less confident and articulate than we truly are.

It took practice, but I’ve learned to replace “um” with pauses. These silent breaks not only make me sound more intelligent but also give me time to collect my thoughts. 

8) Very

The word “very” is often used to emphasize something. For instance, you might say, “I’m very tired” or “It was very interesting”. But here’s an unexpected twist.

Using “very” can actually weaken your statement rather than strengthening it. It’s a vague word that doesn’t add much value. Saying “I’m exhausted” or “It was fascinating” is much more powerful.

Ditch “very” and opt for more descriptive and impactful words. It’s a small change that can make a big difference in how intelligent you sound.

9) Honestly

“Honestly” is a word we often use when we want to emphasize our sincerity or truthfulness. But consider this: shouldn’t everything we say be honest?

Using “honestly” frequently can inadvertently imply that your other statements might not be truthful. It’s a bit like saying, “I’m not lying this time”. Not exactly the impression you want to give if you’re aiming to sound intelligent.

Instead of relying on “honestly” to ensure your listener believes you, focus on the credibility of your statements and the consistency of your truthfulness.

10) Always/Never

“Always” and “never” are absolute words that leave no room for exceptions or variations. They can make your statements sound overly simplistic or exaggerated, which can detract from your perceived intelligence.

Life, ideas, and situations are rarely black and white. They’re full of nuances and exceptions. Using words that reflect this complexity can help you sound more intelligent and thoughtful.

Try to replace “always” and “never” with more nuanced phrases like “often”, “rarely”, “usually”, or “seldom”. It’s a small change that speaks volumes about your understanding of the world’s complexity.

The power of words

The beauty and complexity of language lie in its ability to shape our thoughts, perceptions, and interactions. Words are not just mere combinations of letters; they are the bearers of our intellect and articulation.

The 10 words we’ve discussed in this article may seem insignificant, but their impact on how you’re perceived can be profound. Each word you choose to include or exclude from your vocabulary is a brick building your intellectual persona.

In the wise words of Mark Twain, “The difference between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug.”

As you navigate through your conversations, remember the power each word holds. It’s not just about sounding intelligent; it’s about making your thoughts and ideas resonate with clarity and precision.

Your words are your power. Use them wisely.

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Lachlan Brown

I’m Lachlan Brown, the founder, and editor of Hack Spirit. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 15 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. Check out my latest book on the Hidden Secrets of Buddhism and How it Saved My Life. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter.

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